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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Recently a friend who is not a Fabber (we shall call him Engelbert) got in touch with me to let me know that a chap (who IS a Fabber) at his work was showing my videos and pics over his shoulder to his mates. Engelbert recognised my body as we had previously non-sexually dated but sex-texted.
I immediately hid my vids and pics.
Engelbert explained that he wanted to warn me that this had happened but said it was my own fault as "you put your body on a sex site, what did you EXPECT to happen?".
Am I wrong for feeling aggrieved here. I challenged Engelbert by saying "no, they are my images and belong to me. NO ONE should be sharing over their shoulder". Engelbert blocked me (IMHO as he feared for his job).
Am I wrong here... I thought this was a trusting community but should I expect some images and videos to be shared by the lads and lassies and laughed over? I have hidden my pics and vids now to (I feel) my detriment. My profile feels stunted. I am annoyed but do I have a right to be?
I don't know who the original person was who shared my pics. I can take no action.
I don't expect anyone to admit they have shared pics or vids - it is illegal and we know that. But what do YOU expect from sharing images on a swingers site? |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
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Unfortunately once they are published then they are in the public domain so you lose control. Unless they are used to harass you in any way then there isn't really a lot you can do.  |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"Once you commit your pictures/videos etc to the web, I'm afraid you're fair game - sorry to sound blunt but that's how it is."
Very true and no form of "legal" waffle at the end of any profile is going to change that. A gentleman's handshake actually has more "legal" standing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no illusions that my pictures won't be shown around to others by those who are on fab and can access them. Whether I like it or not - if I put them online, they're as good as pinned to the wall in a high street or every public toilet. The only control I have is what to post. Hence none of my pics have recognisable features and for someone to know they're mine - they have to know every inch of my body intimately. |
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Theres loads of fabswinger videos on xhamster all joined together some are 100s joined together over an hour long obviously not with owners consent.
Anything you put on here can be copied and shared with anyone its a risk you take unfortunately |
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"Theres loads of fabswinger videos on xhamster all joined together some are 100s joined together over an hour long obviously not with owners consent.
Anything you put on here can be copied and shared with anyone its a risk you take unfortunately "
Annoying that people don't respect privacy. Ed |
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I tend to agree with the views about Englebert. A bit of a coincidence that he just happened to be looking over a work colleagues should at the time this person just happened to be showing another work colleague naked pictures of you? What are the chances of that happening? Of course if Englebert had been browsing Fab himself and found those pictures but didn't want to admin it then it seems like a good story. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I empathise with the OP all my pics are hidden and am now very reluctant to share any photos with anyone one here or off here for that matter. Privacy isnt respected
As mentioned above the adolescent attitude
Feels like a violation in one respect being judged or laughed at.
Lesson learned all pics are hidden now. Sorry for your troubles OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Recently a friend who is not a Fabber (we shall call him Engelbert) got in touch with me to let me know that a chap (who IS a Fabber) at his work was showing my videos and pics over his shoulder to his mates. Engelbert recognised my body as we had previously non-sexually dated but sex-texted.
I immediately hid my vids and pics.
Engelbert explained that he wanted to warn me that this had happened but said it was my own fault as "you put your body on a sex site, what did you EXPECT to happen?".
Am I wrong for feeling aggrieved here. I challenged Engelbert by saying "no, they are my images and belong to me. NO ONE should be sharing over their shoulder". Engelbert blocked me (IMHO as he feared for his job).
Am I wrong here... I thought this was a trusting community but should I expect some images and videos to be shared by the lads and lassies and laughed over? I have hidden my pics and vids now to (I feel) my detriment. My profile feels stunted. I am annoyed but do I have a right to be?
I don't know who the original person was who shared my pics. I can take no action.
I don't expect anyone to admit they have shared pics or vids - it is illegal and we know that. But what do YOU expect from sharing images on a swingers site? "
Can you be harmed professionally or Socially by being outed as a swinger? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he uses them on other sites or sends them to people then yes I agree but showing them to someone when they are available to all for viewing is a different story. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once you publish anything you lose control over it OP. Quite simply, don't publish anything you'd not want anyone in the world to see. It's just reality. |
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