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By *oozleMan
over a year ago
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"By getting lovely comments from people to help you through, we should all be supporting each other!. Your a lovely person and should be proud of who you are ??"
That should have been a smiley face instead of ?? |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"By getting lovely comments from people to help you through, we should all be supporting each other!. Your a lovely person and should be proud of who you are ??
That should have been a smiley face instead of ??"
Haha, thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t know you.
You don’t know me.
But and it is a but not a butt I have a lot of forum respect for you so please cheer up and have a sweet strong cup of tea!!!!!
Yanks ago I was a forum newbie and there was a thread from a up his own arse arseling if a man and you ripped him apart and from that day to this my respect level for you is very high.
Maybe have a G+T!!!
You are a good honest poster and in my top ten of favorite posters on here.
I know life can be shit but please know that you have the power to make people that you don’t know and will never meet smile!!
You are special and maybe just maybe people close to you need to let you know this.
Chin up
Or if like me you’re over weights chins up.
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I don’t know you.
You don’t know me.
But and it is a but not a butt I have a lot of forum respect for you so please cheer up and have a sweet strong cup of tea!!!!!
Yanks ago I was a forum newbie and there was a thread from a up his own arse arseling if a man and you ripped him apart and from that day to this my respect level for you is very high.
Maybe have a G+T!!!
You are a good honest poster and in my top ten of favorite posters on here.
I know life can be shit but please know that you have the power to make people that you don’t know and will never meet smile!!
You are special and maybe just maybe people close to you need to let you know this.
Chin up
Or if like me you’re over weights chins up.
T"
Awww thanks, that's really sweet of you  |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I enjoy your forum posts as well, one of the few that regularly talks sense and occasionally doesn’t  just like the rest of us 
Hope you feel better in the morning  "
More often than not I speak utter nonsense |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Sometimes trying to run away from negative emotions can make things worse for me. Take care of yourself and know that it will pass.  "
It's just today I feel crap, I dunno if it's lockdown finally kicking me in the vag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes trying to run away from negative emotions can make things worse for me. Take care of yourself and know that it will pass.
It's just today I feel crap, I dunno if it's lockdown finally kicking me in the vag."
Maybe, lockdown has given people plenty of time to think about how their lives are going - thinking is never good for you 
On the other hand, could just be an off day and a good night's sleep will sort you out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had that yesterday. The world felt like it had crumbled on me and I wanted to crawl under a rock. I wallowed in the crap all day.
Look at the comments already people have made, get a g&t, put on some music. And remember because of you a song cheers a friend up because of memories they have of fun with you. Someone has a gift that you have given them and it means the world to them.
Take time to care for you tonight, Tomorrow is a new day and get up in the morning, dust yourself off and let that shine of yours sparkle.
And if none of that works here's a big bloody hug sending you much needed love  |
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"I'm feeling utterly fucking shit about myself today, I rarely get like this and it's horrible, how the hell do I get out of it?  "
Stop it!
Ok. Not that simple. If you haven’t already, I’d just go to bed. I usually get an early night in if I’m feeling meh. Why suffer through it? Get some shut eye, hopefully have good dreams, have a bit of a lie in and wake up the next day with loads of energy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell you lot, all these lovely messages, made me all emotional again "
Ok I'll say something mean about you...
...sorry, can't do it, you're too gorgeous  |
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"I'm feeling utterly fucking shit about myself today, I rarely get like this and it's horrible, how the hell do I get out of it? "
Weren’t you at Xtasia again last night? Didn’t that give you a lift?  |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm feeling utterly fucking shit about myself today, I rarely get like this and it's horrible, how the hell do I get out of it?
Weren’t you at Xtasia again last night? Didn’t that give you a lift? "
Yeah, I was out last night, didn't feel great while I was out, had a headache and felt abit fed up |
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Keeley, for what it's worth I always enjoy seeing your posts on the forum, as much as I enjoy seeing your completely gorgeous profile picture!
You always seem straight with people without being mean, and that is a great thing to read on here.
I hope you feel better about things soon; I know it's not an easy mood to just snap out of |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Keeley, for what it's worth I always enjoy seeing your posts on the forum, as much as I enjoy seeing your completely gorgeous profile picture!
You always seem straight with people without being mean, and that is a great thing to read on here.
I hope you feel better about things soon; I know it's not an easy mood to just snap out of "
Awww thanks |
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"Keeley, for what it's worth I always enjoy seeing your posts on the forum, as much as I enjoy seeing your completely gorgeous profile picture!
You always seem straight with people without being mean, and that is a great thing to read on here.
I hope you feel better about things soon; I know it's not an easy mood to just snap out of
Awww thanks "
You're entirely welcome! |
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Again, I don't know you either, but I hate to see anyone feeling down as I often feel that way myself.
You just have to hang in there and do something that you enjoy or makes you happy, sonethi g that will take your mind off of things or help change your mood. For me I find exercise work a treat.
The world can be so hard at times but it doesn't last forever so know that thigs will always get better  |
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Must be something in the air this weekend as I had a crushing feeling on Friday after some stuff at home left me feeling worthless.
Anyway, all I can do is echo the others, they’ve given some great advice and also pointed out what we can all see (a beautiful, honest, intelligent and fun poster who makes our day a bit better when we see you) in the hope that we can cut through the dreaded fog of low self esteem.
Have a good Sunday and I hope you feel better soon, keep smiling |
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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago
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I find the best thing to do when you're feeling crap about yourself is talk to other people, people you don't know ,I find it's easier to speak to people about this sort of thing if you don't have emotional attachment s .
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"And how are you feeling on this lovely sunny Sunday morning?????
T"
So/so, I think I just need to give my head a wobble lol.
Thanks to everyone that's posted, I honestly thought most people just thought I was about of a knob on the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm glad you're feeling at least a bit better and I agree with another poster that there must have been something in the air yesterday. Myself and my partner had quite a hellish day yesterday, with me getting panic attack just because there were queues to get into some shops (I don't do well standing too long due to my mobility issues). I usually cope relatively well but there was something about yesterday that put me much more on edge. Then what should have been a normal trip to a supermarket to do grocery shopping turned into a nightmare when I realised, at the end of the shopping, you couldn't pay by cash at their Scan&Go checkouts. Staff were not helpful at all, and customer services desk was shut due to "unforseen circumstances". Luckily my partner offered to pay for my shopping (I did not have enough money on my card but had more than enough cash) but then I got "randomly" selected for "quality control" check, which was done by the slowest staff member ever. That did not help with my stress levels and pain from having to stand for longer than expected.
Then, to add insult to injury, my partner's card got declined when he was trying to pay for his shopping. That send him over the edge, as you can imagine. So all in all, not a good day yesterday. |
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Like many others here, I really appreciate your posts and points of vuew .
Can you get out in nature, which could provide you with some sustenance? The Lickey Hills etc may be a bit overrun today but somewhere quieter may be a good sanctuary to help to refresh and rebuild your spirits.
Otherwise, take it easy and get good rest and nourishment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And how are you feeling on this lovely sunny Sunday morning?????
T
So/so, I think I just need to give my head a wobble lol.
Thanks to everyone that's posted, I honestly thought most people just thought I was about of a knob on the forums "
Wobble that head and have a chill Sunday.
Personally I think that most of us are knobs on here but the difference is some of us knobs know that we are knobs and are happy in our knob skin but then there are some who think they are special.
You are a great poster as many have said and not all me me me like some on here.
And I honesty only used the forums because of you and your fucking massive forum bollocks.
Kudos
You are in my humble opinion Fabtastic.
T |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"And how are you feeling on this lovely sunny Sunday morning?????
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So/so, I think I just need to give my head a wobble lol.
Thanks to everyone that's posted, I honestly thought most people just thought I was about of a knob on the forums
Wobble that head and have a chill Sunday.
Personally I think that most of us are knobs on here but the difference is some of us knobs know that we are knobs and are happy in our knob skin but then there are some who think they are special.
You are a great poster as many have said and not all me me me like some on here.
And I honesty only used the forums because of you and your fucking massive forum bollocks.
Kudos
You are in my humble opinion Fabtastic.
T"
Lol massive forum bollocks made me giggle. |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I'm glad you're feeling at least a bit better and I agree with another poster that there must have been something in the air yesterday. Myself and my partner had quite a hellish day yesterday, with me getting panic attack just because there were queues to get into some shops (I don't do well standing too long due to my mobility issues). I usually cope relatively well but there was something about yesterday that put me much more on edge. Then what should have been a normal trip to a supermarket to do grocery shopping turned into a nightmare when I realised, at the end of the shopping, you couldn't pay by cash at their Scan&Go checkouts. Staff were not helpful at all, and customer services desk was shut due to "unforseen circumstances". Luckily my partner offered to pay for my shopping (I did not have enough money on my card but had more than enough cash) but then I got "randomly" selected for "quality control" check, which was done by the slowest staff member ever. That did not help with my stress levels and pain from having to stand for longer than expected.
Then, to add insult to injury, my partner's card got declined when he was trying to pay for his shopping. That send him over the edge, as you can imagine. So all in all, not a good day yesterday. "
Wow, sounds like a really shitty day for you. Hope you're feeling abit better today |
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"Sometimes trying to run away from negative emotions can make things worse for me. Take care of yourself and know that it will pass. "
Still infinitely betterthan most folks sense, so lots to be positive about. Mindfulness and being present can be useful also.
Take care and have wonderful day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello , never spoken to you before but like the others have seen your posts on here , your A very strong lady , put on some happy music have a dance and read all
The brilliant verifications you have , how much love do people have for you ?, tomorrow is a new day and trust me it will be better than today , |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Hello , never spoken to you before but like the others have seen your posts on here , your A very strong lady , put on some happy music have a dance and read all
The brilliant verifications you have , how much love do people have for you ?, tomorrow is a new day and trust me it will be better than today , "
Thanks, I know it will pass, I just feel crap  |
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"And how are you feeling on this lovely sunny Sunday morning?????
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So/so, I think I just need to give my head a wobble lol.
Thanks to everyone that's posted, I honestly thought most people just thought I was about of a knob on the forums "
I don't know you personally but i have seen you on the forums. One thing i can say is.. you are NOT a knob. Just be you. Takebcare lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm glad you're feeling at least a bit better and I agree with another poster that there must have been something in the air yesterday. Myself and my partner had quite a hellish day yesterday, with me getting panic attack just because there were queues to get into some shops (I don't do well standing too long due to my mobility issues). I usually cope relatively well but there was something about yesterday that put me much more on edge. Then what should have been a normal trip to a supermarket to do grocery shopping turned into a nightmare when I realised, at the end of the shopping, you couldn't pay by cash at their Scan&Go checkouts. Staff were not helpful at all, and customer services desk was shut due to "unforseen circumstances". Luckily my partner offered to pay for my shopping (I did not have enough money on my card but had more than enough cash) but then I got "randomly" selected for "quality control" check, which was done by the slowest staff member ever. That did not help with my stress levels and pain from having to stand for longer than expected.
Then, to add insult to injury, my partner's card got declined when he was trying to pay for his shopping. That send him over the edge, as you can imagine. So all in all, not a good day yesterday.
Wow, sounds like a really shitty day for you. Hope you're feeling abit better today "
Thank you, I'm doing a bit better. Hoping some relaxing at my local nudist camp soon will help lift my spirits a bit, with a healthy dose of vitamin D. |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
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"And how are you feeling on this lovely sunny Sunday morning?????
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So/so, I think I just need to give my head a wobble lol.
Thanks to everyone that's posted, I honestly thought most people just thought I was about of a knob on the forums
I don't know you personally but i have seen you on the forums. One thing i can say is.. you are NOT a knob. Just be you. Takebcare lovely"
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I think that most of us are knobs on here but the difference is some of us knobs know that we are knobs and are happy in our knob skin but then there are some who think they are special."
I'm special, a special kind of knob
Too many people try and make out they're perfect, it's nice to chat with someone real, who has ups and downs, and shares them both, stops me feeling like the only one who has bad days |
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"I'm feeling utterly fucking shit about myself today, I rarely get like this and it's horrible, how the hell do I get out of it? "
I've been where you are now and I know this might seem strange, but, I look back at some of the bad stuff I've lived through and I think to myself I got through that so this is nothing |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm feeling utterly fucking shit about myself today, I rarely get like this and it's horrible, how the hell do I get out of it?
I've been where you are now and I know this might seem strange, but, I look back at some of the bad stuff I've lived through and I think to myself I got through that so this is nothing"
Honestly, nothing has even happened, I just felt really crap. I almost just cried on the asda delivery guy |
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"I'm feeling utterly fucking shit about myself today, I rarely get like this and it's horrible, how the hell do I get out of it?
I've been where you are now and I know this might seem strange, but, I look back at some of the bad stuff I've lived through and I think to myself I got through that so this is nothing
Honestly, nothing has even happened, I just felt really crap. I almost just cried on the asda delivery guy "
try seeing more positives in your life, as in, no matter what life throws your way there is always a positive, it does take practice |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm feeling utterly fucking shit about myself today, I rarely get like this and it's horrible, how the hell do I get out of it? "
So sorry that you're feeling like this. I think it's such a difficult time for the world that there is going to be effects on all of us.
I've been feeling very much not like my usual self also.
I'm trying to Just give myself time to travel through it and not put myself under any pressure. Hopefully you will feel better naturally and it will be soon replaced by more positive feelings. |
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"I'm feeling utterly fucking shit about myself today, I rarely get like this and it's horrible, how the hell do I get out of it? "
What do you feel bad about, Keeley? Is it about how you look? Something you have done? Can you explain? |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm feeling utterly fucking shit about myself today, I rarely get like this and it's horrible, how the hell do I get out of it?
What do you feel bad about, Keeley? Is it about how you look? Something you have done? Can you explain? "
I can't really explain.
Thanks for everyone's nice comments. |
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