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I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future 
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? |
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By *oozleMan
over a year ago
high wycombe |
"Oh god, I'm a right fat trout with a mum tum, I usually try to take flattering pics but I do have a few 'unposed' pics. Just so I don't scare off any potential shags when I get naked. "
That’s the problem nowadays, too many Instagram and models projecting what we believe we should look like, nothing wrong with lumps, bumps, curves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "
Mmmm sexy! I would;)x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have my mum tum, but it seems to bother me more than it bothers others. I posted a full length pic the other day, and that took some courage  its hidden away again now |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I have my mum tum, but it seems to bother me more than it bothers others. I posted a full length pic the other day, and that took some courage its hidden away again now "
Yeah, I've noticed i seem to be more bothered about it than guys I meet. |
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"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "
The comedian katt Williams once said "i dont care about your stretch Marks, they make you look like a tiger. You earned your stripes". This was a small section of a larger comedy routine about self esteem and confidence. The sentiment goes for your mum tum. We all have things we feel insecure about but in reality it's not as big a deal as we make it out to be in our heads. Embrace who you are and people will either find you attractive or they wont, but the ones that do are the ones worth holding on too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was so self conscious of my body before I joined fab, being on here has helped me gain a little more confidence to the point where I’m as ease with every stretch mark,wobbly bits and my fat arse ..they are who I am x  |
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"I was so self conscious of my body before I joined fab, being on here has helped me gain a little more confidence to the point where I’m as ease with every stretch mark,wobbly bits and my fat arse ..they are who I am x "
Really? Dont see what you ever had to be self conscious about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was so self conscious of my body before I joined fab, being on here has helped me gain a little more confidence to the point where I’m as ease with every stretch mark,wobbly bits and my fat arse ..they are who I am x
Really? Dont see what you ever had to be self conscious about"
Aww thank you I guess years of being called fat with a train track jelly belly from the ex didn’t help  |
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"I was so self conscious of my body before I joined fab, being on here has helped me gain a little more confidence to the point where I’m as ease with every stretch mark,wobbly bits and my fat arse ..they are who I am x
Really? Dont see what you ever had to be self conscious about
Aww thank you I guess years of being called fat with a train track jelly belly from the ex didn’t help "
You look great. Just seems like a typical mind fuck bitch boy making you feel shit so you appreciate him. |
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There is nothing wrong with taking flattering photos from better angles, it done all the time. If it makes you feel better then what the problem. Sure no one is perfect but I think we are our own biggest critics sometimes and what we don't like about ourselves and get hung up on stuff other just don't see it that way and see the whole package. |
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By *TkitkatWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire |
Its the part of my i least like. Much rather prefer my bum my back and my legs. But being here has meant I've accepted my tum... not to the point of loving it but I've accepted people all have bits they aren't fond of but everyone still has fun. And really if people have issue with the extra wobbles then there are an equal number out there who don't and that's very empowering  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know i think "mum tums" as you call them are extremely sexy, for me it shows everything that is natural, proves all woman and regardless id appreciate and respect that anyway.....just saying xx |
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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago
Hertfordshire |
"You know i think "mum tums" as you call them are extremely sexy, for me it shows everything that is natural, proves all woman and regardless id appreciate and respect that anyway.....just saying xx"
Exactly this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know i think "mum tums" as you call them are extremely sexy, for me it shows everything that is natural, proves all woman and regardless id appreciate and respect that anyway.....just saying xx
Exactly this "
Thanks |
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"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "
Try not to be paranoid about it (easier said then done)
I nosed through your profile you look lovely real men dont care wobbly bits we embrace them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "
We all have lumps n bumps, makes us all different, personally I like some one I can grab on to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have kids so don't have a 'mum tum' but like others I have a lot of insecurities. I usually take my photos posed and well lit, but I never edit them to alter my body shape.
I also include natural unposed photos too, just so people know I don't look like my posed self all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too many women and men these days are made to feel ashamed of how they look . Disgusts me to be honest .
I used to be real skinny . Hated every minute of it . Over the years and 6 kids later . Im a mummy with my mum tum and hell i found my confidence . Use your insecurity to give you that confidence .
Big it up be proud . Give attitude . Best thing we can all do is listen to folk less and learn to love ourselves . So unless i want surgery to get rid of mine and add another scar . Think il stick with being a little weeble wobble .
Just remember for every 1 that hates your body 5 more with love it .
Good luck Op . But from one fem to another . You look bloody great . So smile and just learn to love what you think is wrong . Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too many women and men these days are made to feel ashamed of how they look . Disgusts me to be honest .
I used to be real skinny . Hated every minute of it . Over the years and 6 kids later . Im a mummy with my mum tum and hell i found my confidence . Use your insecurity to give you that confidence .
Big it up be proud . Give attitude . Best thing we can all do is listen to folk less and learn to love ourselves . So unless i want surgery to get rid of mine and add another scar . Think il stick with being a little weeble wobble .
Just remember for every 1 that hates your body 5 more with love it .
Good luck Op . But from one fem to another . You look bloody great . So smile and just learn to love what you think is wrong . Xx"
The posts on here, well 99% are bang on, i agree wuth you all, take pride in how you look, be loud and proud |
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Personally we go for people we are relaxed around size shape doesn't really matter as long as we all get on we all have some imperfections that may bother us but others seem to not notice
As for the original op who posted you look fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too many women and men these days are made to feel ashamed of how they look . Disgusts me to be honest .
I used to be real skinny . Hated every minute of it . Over the years and 6 kids later . Im a mummy with my mum tum and hell i found my confidence . Use your insecurity to give you that confidence .
Big it up be proud . Give attitude . Best thing we can all do is listen to folk less and learn to love ourselves . So unless i want surgery to get rid of mine and add another scar . Think il stick with being a little weeble wobble .
Just remember for every 1 that hates your body 5 more with love it .
Good luck Op . But from one fem to another . You look bloody great . So smile and just learn to love what you think is wrong . Xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think mum tummies are incredibly attractive, I always try to work a mention of them into my stories. The feel of them is lovely, soft to the touch, when you reach up a woman's body when your head is between her legs... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "
I’ve always liked them and would love to see yours sometime |
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Similar here - try to avoid photographing my tummy. I don't edit it if it's there, but wouldn't choose to include it. My experience is that most guys actually don't care and its just us who fret about it. I wish I could lose the hang ups I have about it! |
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Such amazing positive responses! Thanks everyone Ive put on weight and its mainly gone to the tummy but its becoming like a little apron! I really need to do some exercise and stop being so lazy! No motivation x |
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"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "
I live a mummy tummy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "
I like c section scars!
Honestly I am not so fussed and you look lovely.
What about my man's health problem dangler?
I feel hideous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm struggling with this too. Even though the Mr knows my body, and seems to like it, I wish I was more firm but 2 kids & a hysterectomy have not been kind to me |
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"I'm struggling with this too. Even though the Mr knows my body, and seems to like it, I wish I was more firm but 2 kids & a hysterectomy have not been kind to me :-
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It's nothing to fret about. It's about who you are as a person, you look great to me. My bestie says she has a 'jelly belly' after her kids, but she's still sooo sexy, don't worry yourself x |
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Show it as it is, better to have fewer suitors to select from who like you as you are than have a fella arrive who feels catfished and does a runner mid meet, potentially leaving you feeling crap. I don’t make out that I have a 9” cock though I am sure doing so would improve my chances of a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "
Love it, the feel is amazing |
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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago
Scarborough |
"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "
Mummy tummy are a tag of living a good life and should be held high with pride! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A woman that has live a life and got all the lumps bumps and everything else that goes with it is always going to be more interesting.
your body just shows you have lived be proud of it and enjoy |
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Shots of a natural body, including mum tum, cellulite and stretch marks, can be really attractive, particularly when paired with an attractive, well-written profile. You get the impression that the woman is genuine, unpretentious,and self-assured.
What I find a turn-off are the heavily filtered, perfectly fake looks, profiles with so many action shots that you feel like you've already met, and graphic legs spread pictures that leave nothing to the imagination. A natural body and interesting mind are infinitely more attractive than any of that, bumps and all. |
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"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "
Mum tums are absolutely fucking lovely. Muffin tops too. There's far too much pressure put on women to be really lean. Having a bit extra is normal and beautiful. I (Luke) would love to see your photos if you were willing to share, OP. |
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
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"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "
My mum tum, stretch marks and bumps are my battle scars from being a mum...be proud show all of you, even the parts you don’t like cause there’s plenty out there that will be yourself xx |
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"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.
Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future
What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "
You are gorgeous. I love the pink knickers! |
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By *riFreeMan
over a year ago
Hertfordshire |
Mum tums, stretch marks and scars are all life’s little reminders that you’ve brought new life into this world and they you ladies should be proud of them and not bother about showing them. Only small minded people think they shouldn’t be shown. Personally I think they make you ladies look even more sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's normal OP. You're normal. Most women aren't models and nor should they be. That's just an artificial and untrue idea of how women 'should' look.
Beauty and attractiveness come in many guides. Those with 'imperfect' looks are often the most attractive in my view.
Celebrate how you look and not how a very small minority in society think you should be. |
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