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"Hi, new on here, looking for some adult fun! Any tips or suggestions on how to be successful on here? " Make the bed before taking pics in front of it  | |||
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"Check the grammar on your profile. You like lacking pussy?" I heard it's the new licking | |||
"Check the grammar on your profile. You like lacking pussy?" You have misunderstood, he means he enjoys being without pussy, lacking pussy | |||
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"Check the grammar on your profile. You like lacking pussy? You have misunderstood, he means he enjoys being without pussy, lacking pussy "   | |||
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"Check the grammar on your profile. You like lacking pussy? You have misunderstood, he means he enjoys being without pussy, lacking pussy "It's now locking....  | |||
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"Hi, new on here, looking for some adult fun! Any tips or suggestions on how to be successful on here? " Don't talk to strangers...... | |||
"Hi, new on here, looking for some adult fun! Any tips or suggestions on how to be successful on here? " Click your own name op and read how your profile reads. | |||
"Hi, new on here, looking for some adult fun! Any tips or suggestions on how to be successful on here? " A lot of people on fab take note with spelling and grammar. You have a couple of typos in your profile text. Also, in your ‘interests’, ‘safe sex’ isn’t listed. It may not be an oversight, but it may lesson your chances. A lot of people won’t meet people who don’t practice safe sex. Good luck. J | |||
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"Welcome Dan, The secret of success, getting hundreds of offers, and being able, if you wish, to have a different playmate every day is.... Be a woman. --- For men it's a bit more complicated. Be yourself. In your profile, tell potential partners why they should pick you over the fifty other blokes who have emailed them today. Read the other person's profile. If they are seeking some specific thing, such as BBC, which you don't have, don't email. If you are close to their preferences e.g. tall, bearded and tattoos, but you are only tall and bearded, maybe send a message, it might be negotiated around. Respect yourself. Don't meet somebody just because you can. It's got to be fun for both of you. Accept that the ratio of men to women on the site is poor. Don't make it worse, by driving women to quit. Accept that a lot of messages you send are going to be deleted without a reply. It's not personal, it just means that the recipient isn't interested. Always attach a photo to your first message. Never a dick pic (unless it says so in the profile you're responding to.) It's annoying to be deleted, especially when you have put a lot of effort into composing it, but some ladies get hundreds of mails, and would need to spend all day, replying no. Don't resort to "cut and paste" messages. Women can tell, and it very rarely works. If someone does reply with 'no, thanks' don't question why, don't argue, and don't throw a tantrum. Accept it and move on. Politeness costs nothing and may pay off later. If you do get a positive response (it does happen) and I can't believe I have to say this, Turn up. Nobody likes being stood up, and it happens too often. People who love the fantasy of a meet, but get cold feet at going through with it. If something does prevent you from getting to a meet, contact the other person as soon as possible. That's what verifications are for, to say that you are as described in your profile, and you turned up. Sex is never guaranteed. If you meet up and there is no chemistry, accept it and move on. (This is more likely with 'creative' profiles, where pictures may be ten years old etc) In normal times, people used to organise social meets, which were a way to get verified. In the time of social distancing, not sure how that goes. At the socials, people will gossip about other swingers. Which goes back to my previous comments on politeness. If you slag off someone for turning you down, she may well tell her swinging friends that you are impolite. Get yourself noticed on-line. Update your status, put a new picture up occasionally. Hanging out on the forums is also a good way for people to get to know you, and whilst it may not get you a meet, it's generally entertaining. Good luck and happy fabbing " Wow, this guy understands the site well. Op please take notes! | |||
"Poor guys been torn a new one lol" Bless him, almost enough to put him off lol | |||
"Welcome Dan, The secret of success, getting hundreds of offers, and being able, if you wish, to have a different playmate every day is.... Be a woman. --- For men it's a bit more complicated. Be yourself. In your profile, tell potential partners why they should pick you over the fifty other blokes who have emailed them today. Read the other person's profile. If they are seeking some specific thing, such as BBC, which you don't have, don't email. If you are close to their preferences e.g. tall, bearded and tattoos, but you are only tall and bearded, maybe send a message, it might be negotiated around. Respect yourself. Don't meet somebody just because you can. It's got to be fun for both of you. Accept that the ratio of men to women on the site is poor. Don't make it worse, by driving women to quit. Accept that a lot of messages you send are going to be deleted without a reply. It's not personal, it just means that the recipient isn't interested. Always attach a photo to your first message. Never a dick pic (unless it says so in the profile you're responding to.) It's annoying to be deleted, especially when you have put a lot of effort into composing it, but some ladies get hundreds of mails, and would need to spend all day, replying no. Don't resort to "cut and paste" messages. Women can tell, and it very rarely works. If someone does reply with 'no, thanks' don't question why, don't argue, and don't throw a tantrum. Accept it and move on. Politeness costs nothing and may pay off later. If you do get a positive response (it does happen) and I can't believe I have to say this, Turn up. Nobody likes being stood up, and it happens too often. People who love the fantasy of a meet, but get cold feet at going through with it. If something does prevent you from getting to a meet, contact the other person as soon as possible. That's what verifications are for, to say that you are as described in your profile, and you turned up. Sex is never guaranteed. If you meet up and there is no chemistry, accept it and move on. (This is more likely with 'creative' profiles, where pictures may be ten years old etc) In normal times, people used to organise social meets, which were a way to get verified. In the time of social distancing, not sure how that goes. At the socials, people will gossip about other swingers. Which goes back to my previous comments on politeness. If you slag off someone for turning you down, she may well tell her swinging friends that you are impolite. Get yourself noticed on-line. Update your status, put a new picture up occasionally. Hanging out on the forums is also a good way for people to get to know you, and whilst it may not get you a meet, it's generally entertaining. Good luck and happy fabbing " Please tell every man on Fab these tips! You are spot on | |||
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"Thank you all for your comments! T" Yaay you changed it to "licking", well done OP, best of luck | |||
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"Just don’t be a weirdo and you’ll be better than 80% of the site!" 100% | |||
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"Hi, new on here, looking for some adult fun! Any tips or suggestions on how to be successful on here? " Yes, set your aims low. | |||
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"Does anyone know how to add a new forum thread? " Yeah, go to the message board you want to post to and on the top there’s a tab that says post new thread | |||
"Welcome Dan, The secret of success, getting hundreds of offers, and being able, if you wish, to have a different playmate every day is.... Be a woman. --- For men it's a bit more complicated. Be yourself. In your profile, tell potential partners why they should pick you over the fifty other blokes who have emailed them today. Read the other person's profile. If they are seeking some specific thing, such as BBC, which you don't have, don't email. If you are close to their preferences e.g. tall, bearded and tattoos, but you are only tall and bearded, maybe send a message, it might be negotiated around. Respect yourself. Don't meet somebody just because you can. It's got to be fun for both of you. Accept that the ratio of men to women on the site is poor. Don't make it worse, by driving women to quit. Accept that a lot of messages you send are going to be deleted without a reply. It's not personal, it just means that the recipient isn't interested. Always attach a photo to your first message. Never a dick pic (unless it says so in the profile you're responding to.) It's annoying to be deleted, especially when you have put a lot of effort into composing it, but some ladies get hundreds of mails, and would need to spend all day, replying no. Don't resort to "cut and paste" messages. Women can tell, and it very rarely works. If someone does reply with 'no, thanks' don't question why, don't argue, and don't throw a tantrum. Accept it and move on. Politeness costs nothing and may pay off later. If you do get a positive response (it does happen) and I can't believe I have to say this, Turn up. Nobody likes being stood up, and it happens too often. People who love the fantasy of a meet, but get cold feet at going through with it. If something does prevent you from getting to a meet, contact the other person as soon as possible. That's what verifications are for, to say that you are as described in your profile, and you turned up. Sex is never guaranteed. If you meet up and there is no chemistry, accept it and move on. (This is more likely with 'creative' profiles, where pictures may be ten years old etc) In normal times, people used to organise social meets, which were a way to get verified. In the time of social distancing, not sure how that goes. At the socials, people will gossip about other swingers. Which goes back to my previous comments on politeness. If you slag off someone for turning you down, she may well tell her swinging friends that you are impolite. Get yourself noticed on-line. Update your status, put a new picture up occasionally. Hanging out on the forums is also a good way for people to get to know you, and whilst it may not get you a meet, it's generally entertaining. Good luck and happy fabbing " This should be given to most of the site when joining | |||
"Welcome Dan, The secret of success, getting hundreds of offers, and being able, if you wish, to have a different playmate every day is.... Be a woman. ---spot on assessment. nicely put For men it's a bit more complicated. Be yourself. In your profile, tell potential partners why they should pick you over the fifty other blokes who have emailed them today. Read the other person's profile. If they are seeking some specific thing, such as BBC, which you don't have, don't email. If you are close to their preferences e.g. tall, bearded and tattoos, but you are only tall and bearded, maybe send a message, it might be negotiated around. Respect yourself. Don't meet somebody just because you can. It's got to be fun for both of you. Accept that the ratio of men to women on the site is poor. Don't make it worse, by driving women to quit. Accept that a lot of messages you send are going to be deleted without a reply. It's not personal, it just means that the recipient isn't interested. Always attach a photo to your first message. Never a dick pic (unless it says so in the profile you're responding to.) It's annoying to be deleted, especially when you have put a lot of effort into composing it, but some ladies get hundreds of mails, and would need to spend all day, replying no. Don't resort to "cut and paste" messages. Women can tell, and it very rarely works. If someone does reply with 'no, thanks' don't question why, don't argue, and don't throw a tantrum. Accept it and move on. Politeness costs nothing and may pay off later. If you do get a positive response (it does happen) and I can't believe I have to say this, Turn up. Nobody likes being stood up, and it happens too often. People who love the fantasy of a meet, but get cold feet at going through with it. If something does prevent you from getting to a meet, contact the other person as soon as possible. That's what verifications are for, to say that you are as described in your profile, and you turned up. Sex is never guaranteed. If you meet up and there is no chemistry, accept it and move on. (This is more likely with 'creative' profiles, where pictures may be ten years old etc) In normal times, people used to organise social meets, which were a way to get verified. In the time of social distancing, not sure how that goes. At the socials, people will gossip about other swingers. Which goes back to my previous comments on politeness. If you slag off someone for turning you down, she may well tell her swinging friends that you are impolite. Get yourself noticed on-line. Update your status, put a new picture up occasionally. Hanging out on the forums is also a good way for people to get to know you, and whilst it may not get you a meet, it's generally entertaining. Good luck and happy fabbing " | |||
"Welcome Dan, The secret of success, getting hundreds of offers, and being able, if you wish, to have a different playmate every day is.... Be a woman. --- For men it's a bit more complicated. Be yourself. In your profile, tell potential partners why they should pick you over the fifty other blokes who have emailed them today. Read the other person's profile. If they are seeking some specific thing, such as BBC, which you don't have, don't email. If you are close to their preferences e.g. tall, bearded and tattoos, but you are only tall and bearded, maybe send a message, it might be negotiated around. Respect yourself. Don't meet somebody just because you can. It's got to be fun for both of you. Accept that the ratio of men to women on the site is poor. Don't make it worse, by driving women to quit. Accept that a lot of messages you send are going to be deleted without a reply. It's not personal, it just means that the recipient isn't interested. Always attach a photo to your first message. Never a dick pic (unless it says so in the profile you're responding to.) It's annoying to be deleted, especially when you have put a lot of effort into composing it, but some ladies get hundreds of mails, and would need to spend all day, replying no. Don't resort to "cut and paste" messages. Women can tell, and it very rarely works. If someone does reply with 'no, thanks' don't question why, don't argue, and don't throw a tantrum. Accept it and move on. Politeness costs nothing and may pay off later. If you do get a positive response (it does happen) and I can't believe I have to say this, Turn up. Nobody likes being stood up, and it happens too often. People who love the fantasy of a meet, but get cold feet at going through with it. If something does prevent you from getting to a meet, contact the other person as soon as possible. That's what verifications are for, to say that you are as described in your profile, and you turned up. Sex is never guaranteed. If you meet up and there is no chemistry, accept it and move on. (This is more likely with 'creative' profiles, where pictures may be ten years old etc) In normal times, people used to organise social meets, which were a way to get verified. In the time of social distancing, not sure how that goes. At the socials, people will gossip about other swingers. Which goes back to my previous comments on politeness. If you slag off someone for turning you down, she may well tell her swinging friends that you are impolite. Get yourself noticed on-line. Update your status, put a new picture up occasionally. Hanging out on the forums is also a good way for people to get to know you, and whilst it may not get you a meet, it's generally entertaining. Good luck and happy fabbing " Im new here. Excellent advice. Thank you. Sam. | |||
"Cock pics... can never have enough. Bang at least 3 in every message." Ignore stuff like this especially from black silhouette | |||
"Welcome Dan, The secret of success, getting hundreds of offers, and being able, if you wish, to have a different playmate every day is.... Be a woman. --- For men it's a bit more complicated. Be yourself. In your profile, tell potential partners why they should pick you over the fifty other blokes who have emailed them today. Read the other person's profile. If they are seeking some specific thing, such as BBC, which you don't have, don't email. If you are close to their preferences e.g. tall, bearded and tattoos, but you are only tall and bearded, maybe send a message, it might be negotiated around. Respect yourself. Don't meet somebody just because you can. It's got to be fun for both of you. Accept that the ratio of men to women on the site is poor. Don't make it worse, by driving women to quit. Accept that a lot of messages you send are going to be deleted without a reply. It's not personal, it just means that the recipient isn't interested. Always attach a photo to your first message. Never a dick pic (unless it says so in the profile you're responding to.) It's annoying to be deleted, especially when you have put a lot of effort into composing it, but some ladies get hundreds of mails, and would need to spend all day, replying no. Don't resort to "cut and paste" messages. Women can tell, and it very rarely works. If someone does reply with 'no, thanks' don't question why, don't argue, and don't throw a tantrum. Accept it and move on. Politeness costs nothing and may pay off later. If you do get a positive response (it does happen) and I can't believe I have to say this, Turn up. Nobody likes being stood up, and it happens too often. People who love the fantasy of a meet, but get cold feet at going through with it. If something does prevent you from getting to a meet, contact the other person as soon as possible. That's what verifications are for, to say that you are as described in your profile, and you turned up. Sex is never guaranteed. If you meet up and there is no chemistry, accept it and move on. (This is more likely with 'creative' profiles, where pictures may be ten years old etc) In normal times, people used to organise social meets, which were a way to get verified. In the time of social distancing, not sure how that goes. At the socials, people will gossip about other swingers. Which goes back to my previous comments on politeness. If you slag off someone for turning you down, she may well tell her swinging friends that you are impolite. Get yourself noticed on-line. Update your status, put a new picture up occasionally. Hanging out on the forums is also a good way for people to get to know you, and whilst it may not get you a meet, it's generally entertaining. Good luck and happy fabbing " Oh my days finally a guy who gets it xx | |||
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"Welcome Dan, The secret of success, getting hundreds of offers, and being able, if you wish, to have a different playmate every day is.... Be a woman. --- For men it's a bit more complicated. Be yourself. In your profile, tell potential partners why they should pick you over the fifty other blokes who have emailed them today. Read the other person's profile. If they are seeking some specific thing, such as BBC, which you don't have, don't email. If you are close to their preferences e.g. tall, bearded and tattoos, but you are only tall and bearded, maybe send a message, it might be negotiated around. Respect yourself. Don't meet somebody just because you can. It's got to be fun for both of you. Accept that the ratio of men to women on the site is poor. Don't make it worse, by driving women to quit. Accept that a lot of messages you send are going to be deleted without a reply. It's not personal, it just means that the recipient isn't interested. Always attach a photo to your first message. Never a dick pic (unless it says so in the profile you're responding to.) It's annoying to be deleted, especially when you have put a lot of effort into composing it, but some ladies get hundreds of mails, and would need to spend all day, replying no. Don't resort to "cut and paste" messages. Women can tell, and it very rarely works. If someone does reply with 'no, thanks' don't question why, don't argue, and don't throw a tantrum. Accept it and move on. Politeness costs nothing and may pay off later. If you do get a positive response (it does happen) and I can't believe I have to say this, Turn up. Nobody likes being stood up, and it happens too often. People who love the fantasy of a meet, but get cold feet at going through with it. If something does prevent you from getting to a meet, contact the other person as soon as possible. That's what verifications are for, to say that you are as described in your profile, and you turned up. Sex is never guaranteed. If you meet up and there is no chemistry, accept it and move on. (This is more likely with 'creative' profiles, where pictures may be ten years old etc) In normal times, people used to organise social meets, which were a way to get verified. In the time of social distancing, not sure how that goes. At the socials, people will gossip about other swingers. Which goes back to my previous comments on politeness. If you slag off someone for turning you down, she may well tell her swinging friends that you are impolite. Get yourself noticed on-line. Update your status, put a new picture up occasionally. Hanging out on the forums is also a good way for people to get to know you, and whilst it may not get you a meet, it's generally entertaining. Good luck and happy fabbing " | |||
"Hi, new on here, looking for some adult fun! Any tips or suggestions on how to be successful on here? " After all the above advice... I'd sign out now!  | |||
"Hi, new on here, looking for some adult fun! Any tips or suggestions on how to be successful on here? After all the above advice... I'd sign out now! "Lok! That bad!? | |||
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"Hi, new on here, looking for some adult fun! Any tips or suggestions on how to be successful on here? " Change your sex and look for a man... World's your oyster! | |||
