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Hi ladies, and gentlemen. What is everyone's favourite type of message to receive from somebody making first contact on here. Do you prefer introductions, chat up lines, fun flirty stuff? I'm still quite new to this so I'm never sure what type of message to send. Thanks for any advice in advance! |
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Some of the best ones are the ones that make me laugh, either with something witty or being a bit of a plonker, latest one was a guy mistaking a dress for a witch costume, proper giggled but then he went quiet  maybe my cackle put him off |
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We haven't got a favourite. Just introduce yourself, we can look at your profile and decide if we want to reply positively or not. Whether we meet will depend on further messages not the introductory one. Mind you we only get five or six a week |
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There’s no magic answer. Every woman will have their own preferences, and these can change. There certainly isn’t a “write this for an instant reply” template My advice is to be yourself, be respectful, not be entitled, say what you’re looking or hoping for, tell them about yourself, show that you’ve read their profile and ask a few questions. |
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"Hi ladies, and gentlemen. What is everyone's favourite type of message to receive from somebody making first contact on here. Do you prefer introductions, chat up lines, fun flirty stuff? I'm still quite new to this so I'm never sure what type of message to send. Thanks for any advice in advance! "
It's got to come from you or you'll be found out when you start chatting and have to ask for advise on how to reply. |
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An introduction is the best for us. Use our names, which are in the profile and say hello.
Most importantly, have something to say. It can be long or short, serious or silly, but please have something to say, other than you are horny and want to get your end away. |
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I think messages that are respectful, address us both, show that they've taken time to actually read our profile and consider whether they have similar interests, & that show a bit of intelligence & humour, are good.
One liners, "how Uz doing?" or similar, really don't inspire us to engage in conversation.
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It's a shame the vast majority of single men don't bother to think our read profiles first. If they did we'd not be inundated with "Hi" accompanied by a disembodied dick pic.
What do they expect by way of a response? Are we supposed to reply,
"come over now for a shag you smooth talking devil"?
If that's what they're expecting, they must be VERY disappointed. |
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"Hi ladies, and gentlemen. What is everyone's favourite type of message to receive from somebody making first contact on here. Do you prefer introductions, chat up lines, fun flirty stuff? I'm still quite new to this so I'm never sure what type of message to send. Thanks for any advice in advance! "
It's common knowledge that both the single females and MF couples prefer a single guy to make first contact. Ensure you keep it very brief. Things like 'hi, wanna fuck you' or 'I'd nail you're wife right now' are the most popular comments along with any that refer to you wanting to 'breed' said lucky lady. Text speak goes down a treat too, the more incomprehensible, the wetter the lady. Ensure to attach a minimum of 17 cock pics, preferably ones with your cock up against a cheap can of lager or the sky remote control. For bonus points ensure the background setting is perfect...a really scruffy house with wall paper hanging off the walls and a laundry airer with your boxers and socks you've had for at least 12 years all hanging there to dry is probably the best, failing that just have a pet dog with an obvious case of malnutrition and skin disease showing in the background.. Something like that. Then just sit back, relax and watch the messages flood in!
Good luck OP and enjoy your time on Fab! |
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"It's common knowledge that both the single females and MF couples prefer a single guy to make first contact. Ensure you keep it very brief. Things like 'hi, wanna fuck you' or 'I'd nail you're wife right now' are the most popular comments along with any that refer to you wanting to 'breed' said lucky lady. Text speak goes down a treat too, the more incomprehensible, the wetter the lady. Ensure to attach a minimum of 17 cock pics, preferably ones with your cock up against a cheap can of lager or the sky remote control. For bonus points ensure the background setting is perfect...a really scruffy house with wall paper hanging off the walls and a laundry airer with your boxers and socks you've had for at least 12 years all hanging there to dry is probably the best, failing that just have a pet dog with an obvious case of malnutrition and skin disease showing in the background.. Something like that. Then just sit back, relax and watch the messages flood in!
Good luck OP and enjoy your time on Fab!"
Fantastic advice, though you forgot to mention putting your location as something vague so that silly women have to click on your profile to see where you are. Or not  |
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"It's common knowledge that both the single females and MF couples prefer a single guy to make first contact. Ensure you keep it very brief. Things like 'hi, wanna fuck you' or 'I'd nail you're wife right now' are the most popular comments along with any that refer to you wanting to 'breed' said lucky lady. Text speak goes down a treat too, the more incomprehensible, the wetter the lady. Ensure to attach a minimum of 17 cock pics, preferably ones with your cock up against a cheap can of lager or the sky remote control. For bonus points ensure the background setting is perfect...a really scruffy house with wall paper hanging off the walls and a laundry airer with your boxers and socks you've had for at least 12 years all hanging there to dry is probably the best, failing that just have a pet dog with an obvious case of malnutrition and skin disease showing in the background.. Something like that. Then just sit back, relax and watch the messages flood in!
Good luck OP and enjoy your time on Fab!
Fantastic advice, though you forgot to mention putting your location as something vague so that silly women have to click on your profile to see where you are. Or not "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think messages that are respectful, address us both, show that they've taken time to actually read our profile and consider whether they have similar interests, & that show a bit of intelligence & humour, are good.
One liners, "how Uz doing?" or similar, really don't inspire us to engage in conversation.
K "
Agree with all of this, we get so many "how you doing?" Messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I haven't really got a clue on here. Lines which I would use on other apps get ignored here and I was expecting a lot of ladies to be looking for sexy chats and sexting (which I'm not into) but no not at all on fab. Infact I find women to be more open about sexual chats and initiate it more on other apps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi ladies, and gentlemen. What is everyone's favourite type of message to receive from somebody making first contact on here. Do you prefer introductions, chat up lines, fun flirty stuff? I'm still quite new to this so I'm never sure what type of message to send. Thanks for any advice in advance!
It's common knowledge that both the single females and MF couples prefer a single guy to make first contact. Ensure you keep it very brief. Things like 'hi, wanna fuck you' or 'I'd nail you're wife right now' are the most popular comments along with any that refer to you wanting to 'breed' said lucky lady. Text speak goes down a treat too, the more incomprehensible, the wetter the lady. Ensure to attach a minimum of 17 cock pics, preferably ones with your cock up against a cheap can of lager or the sky remote control. For bonus points ensure the background setting is perfect...a really scruffy house with wall paper hanging off the walls and a laundry airer with your boxers and socks you've had for at least 12 years all hanging there to dry is probably the best, failing that just have a pet dog with an obvious case of malnutrition and skin disease showing in the background.. Something like that. Then just sit back, relax and watch the messages flood in!
Good luck OP and enjoy your time on Fab!"
Amazing reply thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I haven't really got a clue on here. Lines which I would use on other apps get ignored here and I was expecting a lot of ladies to be looking for sexy chats and sexting (which I'm not into) but no not at all on fab. Infact I find women to be more open about sexual chats and initiate it more on other apps. "
What are these other apps that you speak of |
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