"Hi guys. Looking for best way to speak to a new partner about the swinging lifestyle and if it’s something she would be interested in. Pretty early days just now but some advice would be great!"
Ah the eternal question. I’m sure you’ll get some different opinions, but for a start have you any reason at all to believe she’s interested? I don’t mean that in a negative way, but discussing fantasies might be a starting point.
If you’ve been a swinger before, I know others have said they’ve mentioned it to a new partner quite early on in a “btw” sense.
Also, what are your own interests? Asking her to full swap is a very different proposition to a soft FFM for example. |
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Well she doesn’t seem to be shy at all in the bedroom with what she wants and what she likes. I know that doesn’t for one min mean that she is in to swinging but she seems open minded . I’d be happy to take it it her pace if she was as wouldn’t want to pressure her or make her feel uncomfortable . Again would be happy to play any way, if she wasn’t interested something then it wouldn’t happen |
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"Ask her if she's ever had a 3some, if the answer is yes, she'll be interested.
Not necessarily "
She'll more than likely be interested in it if she has, game to do it? Now thats a different matter. |
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"Ask her if she's ever had a 3some, if the answer is yes, she'll be interested. "
If she has had a threesome it does not mean she will be into swinging. I wonder what brings you to that conclusion about a woman you do not know? |
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"Ask her if she's ever had a 3some, if the answer is yes, she'll be interested.
If she has had a threesome it does not mean she will be into swinging. I wonder what brings you to that conclusion about a woman you do not know?"
Yeh I agree. A threesome is a threesome , swinging more of a lifestyle choice!
I’ll bring up the subject over next few weeks and see how it goes (hopefully well) |
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Agreed. Put her in the picture.