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Bdsm trust and empathy

By *ncutgem OP Man over a year ago

Bath ish

If these are not top of the lost aks why knot if they are not on the list move on if they are dismissed seek out the authorities

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman over a year ago

St Austell-ish

"If these are not top of the lost aks why knot if they are not on the list move on if they are dismissed seek out the authorities"

If I understand this:

Trust and empathy should be top of the list, and if not, move on. If bdsm involves use and abuse, it's abusive, and should be reported?

Sadly, I think many relationships (long term or just for the time involved) come down to these. ALL should involve trust and empathy, whether BDSM or not.

Sexual activity should be good and fun for all involved.

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By *omvampmMan over a year ago

gillingham

"If these are not top of the lost aks why knot if they are not on the list move on if they are dismissed seek out the authorities

If I understand this:

Trust and empathy should be top of the list, and if not, move on. If bdsm involves use and abuse, it's abusive, and should be reported?

Sadly, I think many relationships (long term or just for the time involved) come down to these. ALL should involve trust and empathy, whether BDSM or not.

Sexual activity should be good and fun for all involved.

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wise and very true words x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If these are not top of the lost aks why knot if they are not on the list move on if they are dismissed seek out the authorities"

Which authorities?

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By *ensualMan over a year ago

Sutton

"If these are not top of the lost aks why knot if they are not on the list move on if they are dismissed seek out the authorities

If I understand this:

Trust and empathy should be top of the list, and if not, move on. If bdsm involves use and abuse, it's abusive, and should be reported?

Sadly, I think many relationships (long term or just for the time involved) come down to these. ALL should involve trust and empathy, whether BDSM or not.

Sexual activity should be good and fun for all involved.

For some people BDSM is not all about sexual activity, just saying.:0)

Depends on what you mean by trust. I have done scenes where someone has sat in to provide the safety/ trust factor.

In terms of relationship I agree that in the phrase "BDSM relationship" both "BDSM" and "relationship" are essential.

Which is why "topping" and "bottoming" is easier. Although there should be trust and empathy it is not about a full blown relationship.

However in kink people will use their own meanings for words and phrases (which they are entitled to do).

As you said, it should all be fun, even if hard work at times.

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By *lue NoteMan over a year ago

Chertsey

"If these are not top of the lost aks why knot if they are not on the list move on if they are dismissed seek out the authorities

If I understand this:

Trust and empathy should be top of the list, and if not, move on. If bdsm involves use and abuse, it's abusive, and should be reported?

Sadly, I think many relationships (long term or just for the time involved) come down to these. ALL should involve trust and empathy, whether BDSM or not.

Sexual activity should be good and fun for all involved.

Absolutely, we are not experienced in bdsm scene but we see it as an exquisite game of fantasy, role play, and an expression, an opportunity to experiment and push boundaries.. but crucially within a couple, love, trust and mutual respect must be paramount.

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