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Bi-curious men

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How do women/couples feel about bi-curious men looking to explore?

I myself have mostly been with guys throughout my life but over the last few years have been more and more attracted to women/couples. I am a firm believer that sexuality is on a spectrum and attraction is fluid but find it difficult to interact with women/couples to are open to it.

Maybe I need to try going back to a few clubs once they open.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There seems to be a lot of women/ couples that are put off by Bi men but then there are some that love the idea of Bi men. I love the idea of a Bi man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It wouldn’t bother me either way to be honest. I find it a bit strange that people who actively seek bi women would be so any bi men ?

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By *angOnBunnyCouple over a year ago

Ipswich

We actively look for bi men. It's our way of playing.

However, we have got to the point of refusing those stating straight on their profile but professing to being bi. Too many using that line just to get through to Bunny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m actively looking for my first bi experience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like bi men, outside of the glory hole we will only meet bi men

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ah that’s really positive to hear! I guess there is also the added aspect that I’m no where near as experienced with women as I would like to be but kinda hoped there would be a couple out there who would be open to embracing that and putting me through my paces

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By *ndy64hMan over a year ago

Plymouth

I've found a few couples specify they won't meet bi men, but the female will be listed as bisexual or bicurious. Just because I say I'm bi, doesn't mean I'm going to hit in a straight male half of a couple.

I'm happy that they say it, as it saves time when looking. Just find it funny.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are plenty of people who are into it OP.

Personally, I'll meet just about anyone I get on with in a social capacity, but I'm not looking to sleep with anyone who's bi-curious, male or female. I prefer women to be gay or fully bisexual and I'm just not into bi men.

But as always, everyone will have their own preference.

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By *ickDastardlyMan over a year ago

North East

I'm kinda the reverse of you buddy, I was 'straight' effectively until three years ago. A case of opening up and pushing my boundaries.

I also know a couple of lads who identified as gay until they entered the scene. Get yourself out and about (when its safe and your able to do so) you'd be surprised how many lads are in the same position.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It feels like you are damned if you do, damned if you don’t on here....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have found lots of interest when posting bi pics and videos.It seems its becoming more acceptable on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We have found lots of interest when posting bi pics and videos.It seems its becoming more acceptable on Fab."

That’s awesome there is a lot more open mindedness on Fab for sure

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By *ess n BenCouple over a year ago

Didcot

As our profile says we only meet bi guy’s and ask if it says bi on your profile please pass us by

But the number of guy’s with straight on their profile still message us

We know they are not bi but only looking to fuck Jess, so now we say if it says straight on your profile and they say they are bi we will meet them but the first night they will only be playing with Ben and Jess will just be watching, funnily enough they don’t seem to message back anymore lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As our profile says we only meet bi guy’s and ask if it says bi on your profile please pass us by

But the number of guy’s with straight on their profile still message us

Haha this is excellent and I totally agree with it! As someone who has bi-curious on their page but is very inexperienced with women I would totally be up for meeting for a drink and sleeping with you while your husband watched before getting to play with him too haha

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By *ess n BenCouple over a year ago

Didcot

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As our profile says we only meet bi guy’s and ask if it says bi on your profile please pass us by

But the number of guy’s with straight on their profile still message us

I’d be more than happy to play with Ben one on one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There seems to be a lot of women/ couples that are put off by Bi men but then there are some that love the idea of Bi men. I love the idea of a Bi man "

Some pretty feet to enjoy too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As our profile says we only meet bi guy’s and ask if it says bi on your profile please pass us by

But the number of guy’s with straight on their profile still message us

as you can see I am on here alone but did have a couples profile with my mrs and was looking for bi guys and got shitty messages from men. we deleted the couples profile recently due to such people. said it before and will say it again...you do not need a woman there to see how bi you are or to have bi fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be honest, I'm 100% straight and only put bi-curious on my profile because I thought, being one of thousands of single guys on here, it'd give me a better chance at fucking hot women.

I think if I had to watch her playing with herself that would make me really horny... and you're saying I'd only have to fool around with the guy a bit first, I mean, it doesn't make me bi if I'm only sucking cock to get inside that tight we pussy right? Oh ok then...

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"There seems to be a lot of women/ couples that are put off by Bi men but then there are some that love the idea of Bi men. I love the idea of a Bi man "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There seems to be a lot of women/ couples that are put off by Bi men but then there are some that love the idea of Bi men. I love the idea of a Bi man

Me too

Hi Kay

Bisexual over here

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

I occasionally receive messages from bi curious couples asking if I would be interested in playing with both of them.As a straight guy I make it clear that I am not interested in any play with the male only the female unfortunately for me this is not want the couple want so it’s a polite refusal and we all move on.

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By *ovestrap69TV/TS over a year ago

Croydon

Don't bother me what people enjoy. Each to their own.

If everyone is enjoying it. Who caess.

I'm looking for a bi couple. For my first bi meet.

if any couples want to ease me into it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m on the greedy bus too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Happy to meet bi singles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Happy to meet bi singles"

Hello

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple over a year ago

hadleigh

Oh this is very much something we are interested in. I have had a lot of bi experiences, but Mr is looking to explore a bit now (mainly sucking a cock), so we'll be looking for this after lockdown. The thought is incredibly hot.

C (her)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m still looking for my first bi experience and would love to be invited by a couple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh this is very much something we are interested in. I have had a lot of bi experiences, but Mr is looking to explore a bit now (mainly sucking a cock), so we'll be looking for this after lockdown. The thought is incredibly hot.

C (her)"

Choose us, choose us

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By *ifty69Man over a year ago

north tyneside

C (her)

Choose us, choose us

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By *itty Kat ABWoman over a year ago

North Somerset

I only meet with bi men these days, not only is it hot but less complicated and I have never been messed about so far

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By *ydrewMan over a year ago

forest

playing with a couple is so much fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love a bit of bi fun. I have a fantasy of licking a woman clean after her man has given her a fresh creampie x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love a bi guy and him joining us and we all get pleased,it’s my biggest turn on

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By *i de BiCouple over a year ago

Leicester

We only play with bisexual people , as we find it much more fun .

The only time we have `entertained` straight/bi curious guys was younger guys in early 20`s , has been fun turning them to the dark side as some say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bi couples are way cooler than straight couples

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

"To be honest, I'm 100% straight and only put bi-curious on my profile because I thought, being one of thousands of single guys on here, it'd give me a better chance at fucking hot women.

"
This is why we struggle to find bi men

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By *ifty69Man over a year ago

north tyneside

"I love a bi guy and him joining us and we all get pleased,it’s my biggest turn on "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bi Is best

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By *aznlouCouple over a year ago

co durham

We are mainly looking for bi men or fully bi couples not just the fem.

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By *dcumlover2Man over a year ago

dunfermline

I do love a bi mmf had a few but they seem to be few couples up my way that want to meet and even less women that want to meet bi guys, but they are fun when everyone gets to play and have fun with each other.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It wouldn’t bother me either way to be honest. I find it a bit strange that people who actively seek bi women would be so any bi men ? "

Is the right answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This all sounds super positive! So awesome to see so many open minded folks in here - now just gotta find me some fun around London way!

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By *angbangFantasyWoman over a year ago

London

"How do women/couples feel about bi-curious men looking to explore?

Maybe I need to try going back to a few clubs once they open. "

I've been with some bi men who have mostly been with men and I've been one of their experiences with women and I think no different of it. I think if women can explore their bisexuality, men have every right to do it too.

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I prefer guys (or ladies) to bi the idea is exciting to me plus if we wanted someone else to join us it widens potential possibilities.

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By *aughtycp1Couple over a year ago

Leicestershire

I (Mrs Naughty) personally find bi guys incredibly hot.

It's a huge turn on for me. Bi guys to the top of the list x

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By *kiolo1Couple over a year ago

Whitland

"We actively look for bi men. It's our way of playing.

However, we have got to the point of refusing those stating straight on their profile but professing to being bi. Too many using that line just to get through to Bunny"

This is it. Too true, unfortunately.

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple over a year ago

Nr coleford

We try to find bi guys get bit more fun that way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm bi but I just want to lick a pussy while hubby/bff fucks me so I can tick it off bucket list lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As our profile says we only meet bi guy’s and ask if it says bi on your profile please pass us by

But the number of guy’s with straight on their profile still message us

Haha great way of outing them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a couple asks for a meet and it says either is straight we politely decline, citing that as the reason. We're not interested in hearing excuses. If you can't be honest with yourself then what else is there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m guessing you won’t have a problem. Bi Threesomes and moresomes are my preferred scenarios and even just in the forum there are lots who enjoy it too.

I’m sure you’ll be able to make connections- the forum is a good place to start building them.

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By *irgilMan over a year ago

gran canaria

Some seriously sexy couples in here!!

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By *ev_1Couple over a year ago

Bickliegh

Sorry not for us

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By *thleticgirthMan over a year ago

wirral

This is why i chose to play with couples and prefer the meets to that of just meeting women. It is so erotic, if theres some oral fun between males even better. Adds to the sexiness of it. Unfortunately not all couples like this but I am only orally bi. Makes for such amazing dynamics. Even if the male is not orally bi, it is very visually sexy to watch a women enjoying to men at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally like bi-sexual men, but for me it’s more about the person, and not the sexuality/label.

It’s how you connect with someone isn’t it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I started life on here a bloody long time ago as a straight guy

Then was at a party and a nice Ts sucked my cock for me and I really enjoyed it.

So then was Bi curious,now after meeting several couples with Bi husbands and a few more sexy Ts I find I am bisexual.

Still play straight and not gonna jump on a guy,only play Bi with couples mainly

But it is hard to find true Bi couples

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By *thleticgirthMan over a year ago

wirral

"I personally like bi-sexual men, but for me it’s more about the person, and not the sexuality/label.

It’s how you connect with someone isn’t it "

We really need to connect lol xx

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By *orthampton jamesMan over a year ago

Northampton

Bi man here, anyone fancy a chat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any Derbyshire bi here !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I (Mrs Naughty) personally find bi guys incredibly hot.

It's a huge turn on for me. Bi guys to the top of the list x"

You also prefer anal, sounds ideal to me! A three way anal train

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By *he James gangCouple over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

"It feels like you are damned if you do, damned if you don’t on here....

In that case, go for what you want and not what you think they want! More women are into bi guys than you think. Jessy wouldn't want anything else. We had a party were a woman hadn't seen any guy bi action before, she was blown away with it.

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By *he James gangCouple over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

C (her)"

You won't regret it, so incredibly hot, sucking cock with your partner and watching her and another guy, both sucking me off. To watch your partner kiss a guy at the end of your cock, simply outstanding!

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By *ovestrap69TV/TS over a year ago

Croydon

C (her)

Mmm this right here. That's what I want to try mmmm

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By *unseakersCouple over a year ago

Tropical SW & frozen North

"How do women/couples feel about bi-curious men looking to explore?

Maybe I need to try going back to a few clubs once they open. "

Like bi guys if they look like you man Hha and are genuinely bi, not just say it to get round the “no single straight guys” in our profile

Dan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m orally night. Based in Sheffield. I’d love to meet a nice couple. Have a laugh and some naughty fun too x

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Love bi men over here, such a turn on, top of our list x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bi men do get a bad rep to be honest but at the same time I can understand why. Wish it was more socially acceptable for guys to be bi as it is women. It is getting better but not yet on level ground.

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By *ihimbiherCouple over a year ago

lightwater

Omg

Don’t knock it until you have shared a creamy cock with your wife!

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By *fun500Man over a year ago

Sandy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Love bi men over here, such a turn on, top of our list x"

God I wish more of you bi couples were closer! Haha

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By *estinyIsAllCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

We're a bi couple, he's recently started dipping into that side of things. We're actively looking for a bi male to join us for the first time. Very hot!!

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Getting a decent actually bi guy isn't easy ,especially where we live but are happy to travel for right person .but so many talk the talk but nothing else and being an older couple doesn't always help with so many other gorgeous people on here .but we keep trying .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We're a bi couple, he's recently started dipping into that side of things. We're actively looking for a bi male to join us for the first time. Very hot!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How do women/couples feel about bi-curious men looking to explore?

Maybe I need to try going back to a few clubs once they open. "
I’ve had some awesome meets with bi curious men and straight lads guess it’s each to there own

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By *WkinkymaleMan over a year ago

Llandudno

Bi here the biggest issue I have is guys messaging me who list their profile as straight, I just won't entertain them

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By *arl17Man over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Bi here the biggest issue I have is guys messaging me who list their profile as straight, I just won't entertain them "

Prefer to be honest, loads are ‘fab straight’... fuck that as they are not being honest x

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"Bi here the biggest issue I have is guys messaging me who list their profile as straight, I just won't entertain them

Prefer to be honest, loads are ‘fab straight’... fuck that as they are not being honest x"

it's not just their profile they are not being fully honest on, they often haven't found ways of even coming to terms with their sexuality themselves and themselves find it hard to believe they are actually sexually drawn to other men.

Obviously not everyone, but I do know a few people who feel that they are straight and haven't really accepted the truth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We're a bi couple, he's recently started dipping into that side of things. We're actively looking for a bi male to join us for the first time. Very hot!!

Pick me, pick me

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By *van ArdenMan over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I'm a bisexual man and enjoy horny times with couples. Three people (or more) enjoying giving and receiving sensual enjoyment to each other is amazing.

I have had lots of interest from other couples but sadly don't get to meet them very often due to the distances involved

I'm always looking for horny fun with other MF couples either single or married. I'm very open minded in that respect.

Happy swinging sexy peeps and stay safe

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By *evilmancoolMan over a year ago

london

"How do women/couples feel about bi-curious men looking to explore?

Maybe I need to try going back to a few clubs once they open. "

Me two mate. I’m hoping I make it out of lockdown in one piece.

then hopefully I might get the opportunity to go out again safely and meet with friends again

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By *rhugesMan over a year ago

Cardiff

J & R cpl4 the reason you can not figure Nd bi men is that you have blocked all men lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

definitely more fun being in the middle in a 3 some

then taking turns

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By *estinyIsAllCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

"J & R cpl4 the reason you can not figure Nd bi men is that you have blocked all men lol"

Probably because they got fed up of single straight men messaging them saying they're "really bi".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It wouldn’t bother me either way to be honest. I find it a bit strange that people who actively seek bi women would be so any bi men ? "

They are scared that they may catch the gay lol

Bi men can play straight in a MFM or MFMF situation .

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