I’ve seen much worse photos, but your lack of photos are going to prove a serious obstacle. We all have jobs, and unless yours has a specific clause against swinging, you’re unlikely to get much sympathy. There are lots of ways in which you can take and edit pictures that don’t include your face, and to not do so suggests that you’re either lazy (which your text suggests not) or you have something to hide. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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If I get a message I look at the profile before I decide whether to read the message. No avatar & no pics would mean I'd be unlikely to go much further.
The text itself reads OK but isn't enough to capture interest to be honest. |
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"If I get a message I look at the profile before I decide whether to read the message. No avatar & no pics would mean I'd be unlikely to go much further.
The text itself reads OK but isn't enough to capture interest to be honest. "
Thank you for honest, anything you think I could add to spark some interest |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
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"If I get a message I look at the profile before I decide whether to read the message. No avatar & no pics would mean I'd be unlikely to go much further.
The text itself reads OK but isn't enough to capture interest to be honest.
Thank you for honest, anything you think I could add to spark some interest "
Pictures perhaps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can't understand why people hide their faces, surely if someone recognised you it wouldn't be a problem as they are here for the same reasons? They would be just as embarrassed as you. Might be a bit awkward at the water fountain the day after you discover each other on here though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So, I’ll just go for the full sledgehammer on this as you asked nicely, I will say all views are obviously subjective and are purely presented for consideration... zero attack here!
1) Photos - nobody wants to fuck an emoji...go mysterious art shot if you can’t show your face but that is an instant eye roll of an image.
2) straight - you are verified by a guy, perhaps in purely a social sense but if not... own your shit.
3)”I’ve eventually got round to filling this out” - it reads as you’re doing us a favour, seriously, presenting a more ‘I care about how people read me’ would likely endear people more.
4) overview... so little insight into the person, where’s the humour, character, nature etc? You get so little feel for the person... using lines like “like everyone on here” just makes you blend in to the grey.
5) Tory Hater... politics or football just aren’t worth sticking on your profile... hatred in any form is a real turn off for most, it reads as aggressive, angry, judgmental, bigoted... and no, I’m not a Tory.
There’s 5 for starters... my advice, ask yourself the question what in my photos and text is going to make people intrigued about me? I think at the moment the plus sides you will undoubtedly have fail to show.
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Charli
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, I’ll just go for the full sledgehammer on this as you asked nicely, I will say all views are obviously subjective and are purely presented for consideration... zero attack here!
1) Photos - nobody wants to fuck an emoji...go mysterious art shot if you can’t show your face but that is an instant eye roll of an image.
2) straight - you are verified by a guy, perhaps in purely a social sense but if not... own your shit.
3)”I’ve eventually got round to filling this out” - it reads as you’re doing us a favour, seriously, presenting a more ‘I care about how people read me’ would likely endear people more.
4) overview... so little insight into the person, where’s the humour, character, nature etc? You get so little feel for the person... using lines like “like everyone on here” just makes you blend in to the grey.
5) Tory Hater... politics or football just aren’t worth sticking on your profile... hatred in any form is a real turn off for most, it reads as aggressive, angry, judgmental, bigoted... and no, I’m not a Tory.
There’s 5 for starters... my advice, ask yourself the question what in my photos and text is going to make people intrigued about me? I think at the moment the plus sides you will undoubtedly have fail to show.
Mwah
Charli
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Ever thought of becoming a critic? Some good feedback, not brutal and very constructive. I took notes anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd consider a different way of taking photos, one that doesn't include emojis, as mentioned above.
Also the bit about making women squirt is a bit odd to me, not every woman can, or even wants to do it. So maybe consider leaving that part out and instead focusing more on the kind of people you're looking to meet.
Also, you don't seem to have any age filters, would you really sleep with a 99 year old? If so, fine, if not I'd consider a realistic age range. It can come across as desperate otherwise. |
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