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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't no why but women don't seem interested in me, I updated my profile, always respond to messages (well the few ones I do get) basically ladies is there anybody out there that wants me? X  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the title of your thread might put some women off..if you are doing the same in mail it might be the reason why you are not getting meets"
Thank you so basically iv just shot myself in the foot, shit, sorry but I'm fed up of getting just guys asking me x |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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It is what you do from now that counts
I would use your filters so men can't mail you or ask you....stick around on here/ use chat/ get yourself to a social ( if any of those three things you fancy of course) if you get yourself known for the right reasons, people will notice, meets might follow |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"It is what you do from now that counts
I would use your filters so men can't mail you or ask you....stick around on here/ use chat/ get yourself to a social ( if any of those three things you fancy of course) if you get yourself known for the right reasons, people will notice, meets might follow "
But he's looking for men..... |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"It is what you do from now that counts
I would use your filters so men can't mail you or ask you....stick around on here/ use chat/ get yourself to a social ( if any of those three things you fancy of course) if you get yourself known for the right reasons, people will notice, meets might follow
But he's looking for men....."
oh.... in my defence I didn't read his profile, I was just going on his post 
He can still filter out men though and just mail the ones he wants to chat with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is what you do from now that counts
I would use your filters so men can't mail you or ask you....stick around on here/ use chat/ get yourself to a social ( if any of those three things you fancy of course) if you get yourself known for the right reasons, people will notice, meets might follow
But he's looking for men.....I'm not just looking for men sorry x
oh.... in my defence I didn't read his profile, I was just going on his post
He can still filter out men though and just mail the ones he wants to chat with "
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Cant accomm and "discretion essential" in big shouty caps.... That's going to make a lot of women (rightly or wrongly) think you are married / attached and playing away... And that alone will put a lot off straight away |
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"Cant accomm and "discretion essential" in big shouty caps.... That's going to make a lot of women (rightly or wrongly) think you are married / attached and playing away... And that alone will put a lot off straight away"
ssssssssssh where not mentioning the elephant lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cant accomm and "discretion essential" in big shouty caps.... That's going to make a lot of women (rightly or wrongly) think you are married / attached and playing away... And that alone will put a lot off straight away"
Thank you n I'm Realy not married I am 100% single  trust me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cant accomm and "discretion essential" in big shouty caps.... That's going to make a lot of women (rightly or wrongly) think you are married / attached and playing away... And that alone will put a lot off straight awayThank you n I'm Realy not married I am 100% single trust me"
that's just the thing
a lot won't |
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"Cant accomm and "discretion essential" in big shouty caps.... That's going to make a lot of women (rightly or wrongly) think you are married / attached and playing away... And that alone will put a lot off straight away
ssssssssssh where not mentioning the elephant lol"
Oops... When I started typing your post wasnt there...
***Awaits a spanking for mentioning*** |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Discretion and can't accomodate doesn't always mean married.....there are lots of females and couples who say the same thing and never get as much grief about it"
true, true, true
but that's a whole different post
(best saved for a thursday) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you n I'm Realy not married I am 100% single trust me
No trust ME..... Thats what a lot of married people would say lol"
I can't say anything to that cus it'll make me sound even more guilty lol |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"Thank you n I'm Realy not married I am 100% single trust me
No trust ME..... Thats what a lot of married people would say lolI can't say anything to that cus it'll make me sound even more guilty lol "
I wouldnt be at all worried about the fact that you want discretion and you dont accommodate.
But Id be really pissed off that you are now pretending to be straight 
And for that reason alone, Id be out.
Someone here has to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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check my profile and verifications,
i cannot help you get pussy,
but i can help you learn how to:
Introduce yourslef to people, chat to people, listen to them, flirt, find out about them, socialise, and just maybe, and it is a maybe they might be interested in you and something might happen....... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you n I'm Realy not married I am 100% single trust me
No trust ME..... Thats what a lot of married people would say lolI can't say anything to that cus it'll make me sound even more guilty lol
I wouldnt be at all worried about the fact that you want discretion and you dont accommodate.
But Id be really pissed off that you are now pretending to be straight
And for that reason alone, Id be out.
Someone here has to be "
can't win then can I? FYI just changed my profile back |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell me about it shud of kept my big stupid mouth shut, sorry guys
if you shut up moaning i will shag you just to shut you up "
Thank you but I'm out of your age limit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"check my profile and verifications,
i cannot help you get pussy,
but i can help you learn how to:
Introduce yourslef to people, chat to people, listen to them, flirt, find out about them, socialise, and just maybe, and it is a maybe they might be interested in you and something might happen......."
Well said mate
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"Tell me about it shud of kept my big stupid mouth shut, sorry guys
if you shut up moaning i will shag you just to shut you upThank you but I'm out of your age limit "
lol, your not doing very well here are you |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"Tell me about it shud of kept my big stupid mouth shut, sorry guys
if you shut up moaning i will shag you just to shut you upThank you but I'm out of your age limit "
speak about crackerjack and pretend to be older....
and give it to her hard |
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"Tell me about it shud of kept my big stupid mouth shut, sorry guys "
You've learnt a valuable lesson I trust: you can't please all the people all the time, so why try? Be honest with your wants, you're here to have fun. That way you'll meet like minded people.
Don't be afraid to be you. Expand on your profile, it doesn't say anything, have patience, contact people looking for you. You have a good attitude, join in and good luck. |
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"Tell me about it shud of kept my big stupid mouth shut, sorry guys
if you shut up moaning i will shag you just to shut you upThank you but I'm out of your age limit
speak about crackerjack and pretend to be older....
and give it to her hard"
you could offer to shag him, im surprised you havent already |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell me about it shud of kept my big stupid mouth shut, sorry guys
if you shut up moaning i will shag you just to shut you upThank you but I'm out of your age limit
lol, your not doing very well here are you"
I no wish I hadn't started this lol  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"Tell me about it shud of kept my big stupid mouth shut, sorry guys
if you shut up moaning i will shag you just to shut you upThank you but I'm out of your age limit
speak about crackerjack and pretend to be older....
and give it to her hard
you could offer to shag him, im surprised you havent already"
watching a movie... I never multi task. |
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"Tell me about it shud of kept my big stupid mouth shut, sorry guys
if you shut up moaning i will shag you just to shut you upThank you but I'm out of your age limit
lol, your not doing very well here are youI no wish I hadn't started this lol "
_iew said he will suck your cock after his film has finished |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"Tell me about it shud of kept my big stupid mouth shut, sorry guys
if you shut up moaning i will shag you just to shut you upThank you but I'm out of your age limit
lol, your not doing very well here are youI no wish I hadn't started this lol
_iew said he will suck your cock after his film has finished"
hold on... I will check the cock out first before I commit |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"Thank you n I'm Realy not married I am 100% single trust me
No trust ME..... Thats what a lot of married people would say lolI can't say anything to that cus it'll make me sound even more guilty lol
I wouldnt be at all worried about the fact that you want discretion and you dont accommodate.
But Id be really pissed off that you are now pretending to be straight
And for that reason alone, Id be out.
Someone here has to be can't win then can I? FYI just changed my profile back "
Sorry to sound narkey about it but its one of the things that personally drives me mad....
Of course its your profile and you can put whatever you want on it.
But in the years that Ive been on here I think the guys who have most success in finding what they want are the ones that are honest on their profile, and dont pretend to be something they are not just to get a shag.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell me about it shud of kept my big stupid mouth shut, sorry guys
if you shut up moaning i will shag you just to shut you upThank you but I'm out of your age limit
lol, your not doing very well here are youI no wish I hadn't started this lol "
try doing a re wright of your profile the best way to start would be by wrighting it in english and not slang |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To the OP ....... have you tried the Cats Protection League? *ducks the flying brickbats and runs!*
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See... I wasn't brave enough to post our similar thoughts
You are a brave man |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
OK, you need to rewrite your profile.
You've split your text into 2 paragraphs but in doing so have split a sentence in two, so it doesn't scan or read well.
Space out your text with sentences, giving any _iewer the chance to draw breath between the points you wish to get across.
Get a facial photo on the profile too if you can. You'll want to meet up with people first by seeing their faces!
Get on the Forums and go to socials too, even Clubs in your area.
But importantly, you've only been on 4 weeks; this site doesn't have an "Instant Fix" policy; it takes time!
Good luck! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"There you go i got you sorted now, you can stop moaning
But...but...but...his thread says he can't get pussy...just saying. "
I am a pussy, have you seen me play rugby...
when the ball came my way, I screamed, ran and loitered round the showers for the rest of the game |
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"There you go i got you sorted now, you can stop moaning
But...but...but...his thread says he can't get pussy...just saying.
I am a pussy, have you seen me play rugby...
when the ball came my way, I screamed, ran and loitered round the showers for the rest of the game"
Haahaahaahaa...well there ya go op...two for one! |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack! |
"There you go i got you sorted now, you can stop moaning
But...but...but...his thread says he can't get pussy...just saying.
I am a pussy, have you seen me play rugby...
when the ball came my way, I screamed, ran and loitered round the showers for the rest of the game"
How sensible people play rugby!  |
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"I'm surprised nobody has mentioned that this is the second thread on this today?
They are getting more frequent!
Perhaps I should start one myself, It's good PR.
LOOK AT ME, LOOK AT ME....
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Only the second?!!  You sure?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Satisfaction guaranteed (or your money back lol)
can you really expect a reply with that LOLI just changed that sorry lol x"
sorry but could be too late if a potentional meet was looking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Satisfaction guaranteed (or your money back lol)
can you really expect a reply with that LOLI just changed that sorry lol x
sorry but could be too late if a potentional meet was looking"
That probably explains the lack of female/couples intrest, I'm not to good at this realy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But in the years that Ive been on here I think the guys who have most success in finding what they want are the ones that are honest on their profile, and dont pretend to be something they are not just to get a shag...."
There are so many people on here who don't tell the truth and as long as they are not blatant liars still get the meets seeing that as soon as you admit one thing you can close yourself down from one section.
The best advice I could say is keep trying and explore other avenues then just this site alone. Most of the people who go to these clubs have a profile on here anyway so then here just because a place to arrange the next time you visit and talk to new friends you've made. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't no why but women don't seem interested in me, I updated my profile, always respond to messages (well the few ones I do get) basically ladies is there anybody out there that wants me? X "
Okay, eyes down for a full house...... Firstly, and yes we ARE being picky... you do come over as being rather aggressive in your expectations as described in your profile. This may work with a small %age of single women, but not the majority.
Secondly, you are complaining about not meeting women, yet you mention couples first and single fems seem to be an after thought????
Overall, you talk about what YOU want, but not so much about what you can offer. Maybe you could tweak your profile text a bit to do that?
Again, apologies for being picky, but you did ask..... Good luck with it though |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"well done for changing pongy pussy.
good luck for the future and hope you have fun
As if you put that!!! Hahaha "
pongy pussy and cheesy cocks did get a mention but all changed now. |
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Can't get any pussy....the post heading sums up the reason!
Personally, we would have offered a little constructive criticism, if your post subject read something along the lines of 'im having difficulty finding a woman, any help will be greatly appreciated'.
We're not slating or being derogatory to the OP, just saying as we find it.
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Women on this site can be rediculosly picky and a large amount aren't intrested in men at all. Make sure you fit all their requirements and then if they still ignore you then it's probably best to forget about them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women on this site can be rediculosly picky and a large amount aren't intrested in men at all. Make sure you fit all their requirements and then if they still ignore you then it's probably best to forget about them."
"A large amount aren't interested in men at all?" Do you mean that some women just want to meet couples? Or are you referring to the fact (oh no... Can it be true??) that 'some' women won't meet every man that messages them, that they have a choice if who to meet, and if the bloke sound like a total ass... Then they aren't interested??!
"Ridiculously picky".... That describes me perfectly. Hence one of the reasons I'm not meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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MY OH MY. YOU REALLY EXPECT MEETS WITH THAT PROFILE. I'M BEEN POLITE IN SAYING IT SIMPLY DESCRIBES YOUR COCK AND VERY LITTLE ABOUT YOU. I AVOID PROFILES LIKE THIS FOR TWO REASONS . MEN WHO THINK THEIR COCKS ALL THAT TEND TO BE COCKS .LOL . MAYBE YOU SHOULD GO IN CHAT ROOMS . YOU WANT TO GET QUICK FIX SEX DESPITE BEEN ON SITE ONLY 4 WEEKS . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"MY OH MY. YOU REALLY EXPECT MEETS WITH THAT PROFILE. I'M BEEN POLITE IN SAYING IT SIMPLY DESCRIBES YOUR COCK AND VERY LITTLE ABOUT YOU. I AVOID PROFILES LIKE THIS FOR TWO REASONS . MEN WHO THINK THEIR COCKS ALL THAT TEND TO BE COCKS .LOL . MAYBE YOU SHOULD GO IN CHAT ROOMS . YOU WANT TO GET QUICK FIX SEX DESPITE BEEN ON SITE ONLY 4 WEEKS . "
Sssshhhh no need to shout  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women on this site can be rediculosly picky and a large amount aren't intrested in men at all. Make sure you fit all their requirements and then if they still ignore you then it's probably best to forget about them."
well maybe if your profile was better and not so arrogant you would get more responses, does come accrosss as a bit of a brag, when really you should leave others to talk about your good points rather than yourself as it dont really come accross as very genuine when ur saying how good u are or just talking about your nob
lasses dont care about reading how big your nob is on your profile, want to show them have a pic or two there, or let them ask to see it privatley, they will ask if interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you n I'm Realy not married I am 100% single trust me
No trust ME..... Thats what a lot of married people would say lol"
but its not a comment exclusive to married guys playing away is it?? i am single with my own home, but i have teenage kids at home so cant accomm and wouldnt particularly like them to know what i do in my social life hence 'discretion required'
i sympathise to a degree with him because people do make assumptions which are often wrong.
i always send face pics with messages and according to some peoples profils would fit axactly what they are looking for. i am always polite and articulate yet often get deleted without response and sometimes blocked for with no reason or explanation. |
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