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By *r Mrs H OP Couple
over a year ago
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So we’ve got to know a couple and have been chatting for a while. When it is safe, we are going to be looking to invite them over to ours and now it has got us thinking...
This will be a first meet for us, so wanting a bit of advice as to how an evening should flow.
Do you usually start with a few drinks, or just get down to it?
Do you start by playing with your own partner to warm up?
Do you invite the other couple to stay for the night?
We’re a bit embarrassed to be asking as they’re probably such amateur Question and it’s different in all situations. But just a bit of advice from all your experiences would be brilliant.
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over a year ago
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We still get nervous before a meet! We on,y accommodate as Abby likes to be able to get ready at home. Have to say it feels more relaxed as well for us in familiar territory.
We will have communicated a lot with the other party and found out their likes and dislikes.
Are they happy to watch porn or rather have some music on,
Do they like to have a couple of drinks, if so, what?
That kind of stuff.
When they arrive we like to sit and chat for a while then you can usually sense the atmosphere hotting up.
I (V) tend to usually initiate the start of play with the other female. At some stage when we are all ready and it’s going well, we suggest going upstairs.
We like long nights of fun so if they want to eventually catch some sleep in the spare room that’s fine with us.
Once we’re alone we are usually very turned on and reclaim each other!
Hope it goes well for you OP!
V x
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Talking and confidence is key.
Set the situation you are most happy with but be prepared to adjust it it needs be. If it's just drinks for the evening at yours offer that.
After that it's all about not over indulging and getting the mood set. Personally speaking, we have met a few first time couples over the years and 60% of the time, someone in the other party was a bit nervous and drank a bit to much and at that point it's not a good idea to continue (though they always make up for it on the 2nd date :D ). It happens. People get nervous.
However if everything is going well (and it probably will be), steer the conversation towards more sexy talk and just build it up from there. More than once weve talked a very nervous newbie out of her dress just to show us her lingerie and that's been the kick off event. Last two times my wife just walked up to the female half, snogged her and said "there you go, nothing to be nervous about now" and that kicked it all off.
Its going to be different with everyone but reading the room.and being willing to take the lead is key. If the other party is.not making excuses to leave and the conversation is flowing well after a few hours, just go for it. You're all.there for the same reason.  |
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