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Being a dominant woman.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Raj loves dominant women in the bedroom!!!! He likes dressing up in heels, painting his nails etc to feel sexy and slutty. I'm struggling to be dominant as its not who I am in normal day to day life. Any advice, hints or tips would be appreciated.

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By *ipgloss..Woman over a year ago

Stourbridge

Being assertive is the first step to take!

Ask him to do this or do it like this, you'll quickly get the hang of it! x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think you're either naturally dom or you're not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell him to paint his own fucking nails

Have to agree with above, if it doesn't come naturally it probably never will!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tell him to paint his own fucking nails

Have to agree with above, if it doesn't come naturally it probably never will!"

Paint your own nails - oh my sides lol..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

he does paint his own nails....ud be surprised how good he is

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By *aughty Indian gentlemanMan over a year ago

Leicestershire

"he does paint his own nails....ud be surprised how good he is

whip him to submission. here to assist if required. not far from you

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By *lizabethBennetWoman over a year ago

somewhere local

"Raj loves dominant women in the bedroom!!!! He likes dressing up in heels, painting his nails etc to feel sexy and slutty. I'm struggling to be dominant as its not who I am in normal day to day life. Any advice, hints or tips would be appreciated."

You cannot change to please him,, nor can he change to please you, if you do not derive sexual pleasure from Dominating him then perhaps explore finding him a Domme who can be what he wants.

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By *averiMan over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

As he is only playing at being submissive I am sure you can use your imagination to 'cure' him. Either that or find a 'real' dom man/women to show him what submission really means.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why dont you both watch some sub/dome dvds then do some domme roleplay after? Never ask him just take the lead and make all disisions yourself good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with the others, I cant be domme, I just cant. My M cant do submissive either.

I dont know about role play or switching as I have no experience or desire for either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The videos are a good idea. You can act out the bits of the video you really fancy. Works well for finding positions and sex acts you may not of thought of.

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