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By *ewhorizons OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
So, decided we’ve got 3 months left on fab after 10 years here. Want to continue in the lifestyle and keep the open marriage but not sure how after we’ve left.
Ideas sought from anyone, particularly those that have done this. Club visit are one option. Parties would be another but not sure how we’d hear about them if not on fab.
If anyone knows of other websites that might be of interest, a private message would be great. Really don’t want to be one of those couples that deletes their profile and then comes back a week later. Main worry is the vanilla life will be too dull. How to keep the spark alive? |
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I find the more I attended clubs and socials the more my friendships and networks blossomed.
I’ve also recently joined a local polyamory social group but the people that go, although lovely are all too ‘hipster’ for me, I don’t really fit in.
Tinder has been ok but I do feel You really need to lay your cards on the table in the bio. |
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Tinder 
I joined, didn't expect any interest yet within 10mins I received a like and message from a STUNNING young lady with a body any woman would WANT.
We've been chatting every day,exchange pictures,addresses etc. and she wants to meet up next week
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By *ewhorizons OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
Thanks for the suggestions everyone.
As for leaving, we don’t have a lot of time to meet. In October we are giving my son our spare mobile for his birthday (it’s the mobile number we give out for meets). We could get another phone obviously but it seemed as good a time as any to call it quits.
I agree I would miss the forums and also it’s a bit of a wrench saying goodbye to the profile that you’ve steadily built up.
I’ve met polyamory folks and I agree they are too hipster for me also. Tinder I’ve not really explored but might do so. Will have a hard think about it all. |
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over a year ago
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"I hope you change the number when you give your son the phone. "
That's what I was thinking too!
If you want to leave Fab presumably you could just check the club websites to see what's going on? You'll also make contacts to keep in touch privately. |
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Our lifestyle was all club and holiday based long before discovering Fab plus you are Midlands based so plenty of clubs to choose from. You certainly don't need the internet to enjoy the lifestyle, it's just an add on. |
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Good suggestion Glitterbabe. I have a couples profile hidden for 18 months now, in case my partner chooses to return to swinging. We have nearly 200 verifications so would be a shame to lose them all. |
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By *k38Couple
over a year ago
Hartlepool |
"Thanks for the suggestions everyone.
As for leaving, we don’t have a lot of time to meet. In October we are giving my son our spare mobile for his birthday (it’s the mobile number we give out for meets). We could get another phone obviously but it seemed as good a time as any to call it quits.
I agree I would miss the forums and also it’s a bit of a wrench saying goodbye to the profile that you’ve steadily built up.
I’ve met polyamory folks and I agree they are too hipster for me also. Tinder I’ve not really explored but might do so. Will have a hard think about it all."
We use kik which is like WhatsApp but without needing phone numbers, that way no phone numbers are given out & you still get to chat & arrange meets . |
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By *ewhorizons OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
Again thanks for the posts and the messages. You’ve certainly given us something to think about.
Yes, the phone will be factory reset and a new SIM card added before being handed over!!
Thanks for the suggestion re kik. I never really understood what it was. Have seen lots of references to it obviously, so will now have a look.
The indefinitely hidden profile option is also worth considering. |
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