I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?"
Yes it is very rude and you must do things my way to please me me me!!!!!
NO of course not and I’m also a bit OCD and do the self same thing and the way you or us approach fab is our business and our adventure so we can and should approach fab as we see fit imho.
Delete enjoy stay safe.
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?"
Deleting to me shows you are not interested.
I tend to think the people that don’t are picture hunters. |
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"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?
Deleting to me shows you are not interested.
I tend to think the people that don’t are picture hunters. "
As I said I delete everyone, including people I am interested in |
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I am the same. I like a clear inbox, so I delete messages I am not interested in, then reply to and delete those that do interest me!
I don't see the point in keeping a bunch of messages sitting in my inbox. |
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"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?"
Same, I can't help it...
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"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?"
Is this a genuine question? |
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"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?
Deleting to me shows you are not interested.
I tend to think the people that don’t are picture hunters. "
exactly that |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?"
I do the same.
How others interpret how you choose to manage your account is their problem. |
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"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?
I do the same.
How others interpret how you choose to manage your account is their problem."
Do you get blocked alot purely on the fact you do this? |
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"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?"
I do the same. However it can sometimes cause problems. I was chatting to a couple. We exchanged a few messages. I had about 10 different replies in my inbox so I deleted 9 of them. The couple accused me of not being interested in them and timewaster, then blocked me for deleting some of their replies. |
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"I guess I'm just not sexy enough "
I think people assume that when people delete their messages. But what I'm trying to explain with this thread, it's not always a negative reason why people delete messages |
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