Maybe not quite same-street local, but certainly not too far afield, at least for someone I don't know/already trust.
I wouldn't travel for ages to meet someone, nor let someone travel from miles away to come to me, in case we didn't get along and wasted each other's time. I'd rather have travelled twenty minutes than say, seven hours to discover you didn't click. There's also the possibility of the other person not turning up at all after you've made a long trek, nightmare.
I know some folk say all experience is worth it, and 'you never know, it could have been good', but I'm not much of a risk-taker. |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"Maybe not quite same-street local, but certainly not too far afield, at least for someone I don't know/already trust.
I wouldn't travel for ages to meet someone, nor let someone travel from miles away to come to me, in case we didn't get along and wasted each other's time. I'd rather have travelled twenty minutes than say, seven hours to discover you didn't click. There's also the possibility of the other person not turning up at all after you've made a long trek, nightmare.
I know some folk say all experience is worth it, and 'you never know, it could have been good', but I'm not much of a risk-taker. "
100% agree! |
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Local is best but if there's a spark there then it can be worth a trip. We have a proper spark with somebody on the other side of London and we think she will be worth any travel time we put in, when bloody lockdown allows it. |
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No more than 40 miles radius or clubs. It is more likely then to become something regular if we hit it off. Also, I have noticed people who want to travel further for a meet often assume that, just because you can accommodate, you're going to agree for them to stay overnight. Doesn't work like that with me. |
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Never locally for me.
The mentality where I live is far too small town. I already know two couples personally and every swinger in my town have probably already met each other. |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
East Northamptonshire |
We automatically discount single males that are too local as wouldn't want any stalkery behaviour with S being in a public facing job locally. We have had this from some guys before who can't take a polite no, so wouldn't want them coming across her place of work. |
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