We are new to the scene and wondered what would be classed as soft swingers?
We are not into swapping, only having sex with each other but would like others to watch and for us to watch them.
We see some people have soft swinging in their profile but we are unsure as to whether to approach them if they would be of the same mind as us.
Are there people out there like us, as we don't seem to be finding many at the moment |
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We started off 5/6 years ago with exactly your boundaries in mind and didn't really know what to class ourselves as either. We started going to clubs and soon started soft swapping and still are to this day and have no intention of taking this further. Id say soft swinging is anything barr intercourse with anyone but each other.
We have friends who state they only do full swap on their profile but are happy with our boundaries when we meet as these friends are in it for the social side too.
Contact the soft swap people and as long as you make your boundaries clear you all know where you stand, if they're interested you'll know. Clubs are a great way to meet people though, we only came onto fab a few months ago and most of our friends are people we've met in clubs. In fact have yet to meet anyone through fab alone but it is totally addictive!
Hope this helps you. Happy soft swinging.. xx |
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over a year ago
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Soft swap to us ( we full swap by the way ) is everything except intercourse so that means touching oral etc
Just enjoying watching and being watched maybe would be just a bit too frustrating for a lot of people here hence the trouble you are having finding a couple who is also just that
Just stick with it good things always cum to those who wait  |
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we play full or soft. if its one on one meets its usually full, and in clubs its either depending on what the other couples boundaries are. When organising a meet state your do's and don'ts before you meet up as you can relax more and never feel pressured into doing more than you are happy doing. we are all here to have fun so enjoy x |
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over a year ago
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Each to their own...
Soft is as described on here, everything except full sex. Some people then move onto full swap in same room as it takes things a little further
We prefer to full swap in separate rooms as it states on our profile but that doesn't mean we arn't open to suggestions of other fun such as soft in same room. Either way we always enjoy socialising first for a few hours, chat, drink, flirt etc
Best bet is to approach people you like the look of (we do this as personality and outlook on life are very important to us) and ask them directly, we've done this a few times with couples that don't mention separate room on their profiles and some are interested but just never got around to doing it - ASK ASK ASK is our advice
Happy swinging and stay safe!
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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago
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Here is the definition of soft swing from the sites glossary ..
Soft Swing is when there is playing around but not full penetrative sex with others. Often, in a couples situation, the women will have sex with each other with the men watching and then the couples will have sex with their own partners |
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"Here is the definition of soft swing from the sites glossary ..
Soft Swing is when there is playing around but not full penetrative sex with others. Often, in a couples situation, the women will have sex with each other with the men watching and then the couples will have sex with their own partners"
That's what soft swinging means to us, suppose like many couples we started off soft-swinging in a club until she felt ready to move to the next level. We still enjoy soft-swinging though.
If you just want to watch and be watched then why not go clubbing and use the open or couples-only playrooms? We really love being among other fucking couples, even if we're not swapped ourselves.
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different definiations of soft fun, but we were introduced to it when we began swinging several years, which was lots of fem2fem kissing and oral only with others hubby/wife, full sex with own partner, we do both btw |
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