We are new to the scene and wondered what would be classed as soft swingers?
We are not into swapping, only having sex with each other but would like others to watch and for us to watch them.
We see some people have soft swinging in their profile but we are unsure as to whether to approach them if they would be of the same mind as us.
Are there people out there like us, as we don't seem to be finding many at the moment |
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over a year ago
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In my mind, what you have described is soft swing, I know some that class soft swing as the m-f of the other couple not having intercourse with the other couple but fingers and other erm activities permitted so you'd need to discuss boundaries (which is true for every meet) & yes many people do soft swing only.
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Expect there are more like yourselves out there - simply state on meets and events , and profile status updates exactly what you are looking for and best of luck  |
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over a year ago
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Seems like yiou are more voyeuristic than anything else.....
The 'normal' definition for.soft swing is everything apart from penetrative sex.......however each persons boundaries are different...some like kissing some don't ...... its all horses for courses......
Maybe you should try a club......you will get plenty watching you then! |
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