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There’s very little point in having a tantric massage if you haven’t studied Tantra. If you don’t understand the cycle of sexual energy, and how to control that through ejaculation-free or non clitoral orgasms then the massage itself will be of very little benefit. If on the other hand you mean a sensual ‘eastern style’ massage then knock yourself out. One is administered t tough a highly trained Tantra practitioner, the other isn’t. |
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"There’s very little point in having a tantric massage if you haven’t studied Tantra. If you don’t understand the cycle of sexual energy, and how to control that through ejaculation-free or non clitoral orgasms then the massage itself will be of very little benefit. If on the other hand you mean a sensual ‘eastern style’ massage then knock yourself out. One is administered t tough a highly trained Tantra practitioner, the other isn’t. "
I understand where you are coming from and you are 100% right about the difference between a sensual massage and tantric massage but I think you're exaggerating the degree of knowledge required to appreciate a tantric massage.
You don't have to be a highly trained in tantra to give and receive a tantric massage. You do however need to understand the basics.
Like any skill the more you know and the more experience you have the better you become but don't be put off by thinking you have to study for years. There are several good books on Amazon that will give you sufficent info to appreciate tantra and start your journey. |
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"There are several good books on Amazon that will give you sufficent info to appreciate tantra and start your journey. "
Granted, providing providing you’re willing to invest the time and patience in understanding what Tantra is and how it works. There are lots of books on how to play cricket as well, but reading them won’t make me play like Ben Stokes. I see posts like this on fab all the time about “mind blowing tantric massages” which mean absolutely nothing, and give the impression that it is something done to you, rather than something which assists in facilitating the practice you have learned. |
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"There are lots of books on how to play cricket as well, but reading them won’t make me play like Ben Stokes.
Yes, but you don't have to be at Ben Stokes standard to enjoy cricket. "
My point was that reading about it won’t make you a player (if any standard). You need to put that knowledge into practice. |
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"There are lots of books on how to play cricket as well, but reading them won’t make me play like Ben Stokes.
Yes, but you don't have to be at Ben Stokes standard to enjoy cricket.
My point was that reading about it won’t make you a player (if any standard). You need to put that knowledge into practice. "
I agree. If you look a few posts earlier I said the following -
"Like any skill the more you know and the more experience you have the better you become" I think we are on the same side.
The two biggest misunderstandings I encounter are
1 - Tantric massage is the same as a sensual massage. It isn't
2 - Only the giver of the tantric massage needs knowledge/experience. Not true, both giver and receiver require training.
Unfortunately those misunderstandings are found in the vast majority of people who talk about tantric massage. |
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"As l read it, it was aboutyour pleasure but if want the masseur will join in if wanted maybe wrong as new to this."
Yes. Completely wrong. You should google Tantra. It’s not really about sex in a traditional sense at all. |
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"As l read it, it was aboutyour pleasure but if want the masseur will join in if wanted maybe wrong as new to this.
Yes. Completely wrong. You should google Tantra. It’s not really about sex in a traditional sense at all. "
I will it was only what l read on the website. It was about you enjoying it and getting the best out of the experience mind and body. With the benefit of anything you wanted |
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We have read a lot about Tantra massage, if done by someone who has studied the art it sounds very good
Jess would love to try it but has only had offers from guys who obviously don’t have the first clue about the art of Tantra massage |
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"We have read a lot about Tantra massage, if done by someone who has studied the art it sounds very good
Jess would love to try it but has only had offers from guys who obviously don’t have the first clue about the art of Tantra massage "
It is a proper place that does them. |
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"So how do you practice... who are the Guinea Pigs ? "
You need to train, in the same way was any other massage discipline. Tantra is a holistic, one might even say lifestyle discipline. It’s not just a way of getting great orgasms. |
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It is possible to separate the esoteric and sexual elements of Tantra, but there are no quick paths to sacred sexual ecstasy. There are plenty of books, online courses and videos which concentrate on the sexual elemsts. For most beginners I’d recommend Barbara Carrellas: Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century |
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"But I mean recipients .. do you practice with a loved one?
Presumably you cant charge while you are putting the theory into practice so who volunteers for such an intimate training experience? "
As with and training of this nature, you would practice on other trainees and the trainers, and slowly extend this outwards Many couples learn together, so would also practice on each other. |
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"But I mean recipients .. do you practice with a loved one?
Presumably you cant charge while you are putting the theory into practice so who volunteers for such an intimate training experience?
As with and training of this nature, you would practice on other trainees and the trainers, and slowly extend this outwards Many couples learn together, so would also practice on each other. "
Mr jake thanks for info you seem to know alot about it. Have read about it some more and can't wait to try one |
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"If you know how to massage a body properly, evoking sexual feelings. You don’t need tantric options!"
Unfortunately this shows that you don't understand tantra.
It took a year of one to one "training" for me to get it. Its opening up your mind, and stimulating your whole body.
You can practice some of the techniques on yourself (no, not having a wank!) |
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"If you know how to massage a body properly, evoking sexual feelings. You don’t need tantric options!
Unfortunately this shows that you don't understand tantra.
It took a year of one to one "training" for me to get it. Its opening up your mind, and stimulating your whole body.
You can practice some of the techniques on yourself (no, not having a wank!) "
Yes l read its about mind and body not just wam bam. |
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"If you know how to massage a body properly, evoking sexual feelings. You don’t need tantric options!"
A typical comment from someone who has no idea about tantra and how powerful the mind can be in apreciating physical sensations. |
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"What does it offer to someone who is already capable of experiencing ecstatic joy from sexual pleasure? What does it add?"
Leaving aside all the meditative and esoteric practices (it’s about much more than sex), here is a good introduction to benefits.... I do this at least once a year: 21daychallenge dot com and indeed have very few spasm orgasms away from play meets. |
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Some good references,
Margot Anand, The Art of Sexual Ecstasy,
Anything by Sarita,
Lots of talks etc by John Hawken online.
Daniel Odier, a french teacher,
Omooni, a german online teacher, loads of material,
Dawn Cartwright, in USA, lots of writings and trainings. |
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over a year ago
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"There’s very little point in having a tantric massage if you haven’t studied Tantra. If you don’t understand the cycle of sexual energy, and how to control that through ejaculation-free or non clitoral orgasms then the massage itself will be of very little benefit. If on the other hand you mean a sensual ‘eastern style’ massage then knock yourself out. One is administered t tough a highly trained Tantra practitioner, the other isn’t. "
I think most people are just looking for a sensual / sexy buzz. A proper tantra practitioner would not take a client like this , why would they ?
Anyway.... I do a great massage so I’m told. I’m currently using sweet almond oil with a tiny bit of Neroli, it’s super potent. Don’t expect a duck at the end lol , it sometimes happens but I’m more interested in the practice and getting to know the person |
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over a year ago
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"I fem am trained in tantric massage and always looking for practice  "
I'm regularly in Bath (well, once we're allowed out again!) if you need a willing victim, I mean, subject! |
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"Tantric massage is incredible when done properly. Always makes me cum like a volcano and leaves me euphoric afterward
With tantric massage you don’t ejaculate. So no volcanic orgasms. "
My bad, I always thought it was the same as sensual massage. |
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"Tantric massage is incredible when done properly. Always makes me cum like a volcano and leaves me euphoric afterward
With tantric massage you don’t ejaculate. So no volcanic orgasms. "
It depends on the Tantra. The goal of White Tantra has no Orgasm. Red Tantra is very explosive and Black Tantra, well
Just google that  |
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"Some good references,
Margot Anand, The Art of Sexual Ecstasy,
Anything by Sarita,
Lots of talks etc by John Hawken online.
Daniel Odier, a french teacher,
Omooni, a german online teacher, loads of material,
Dawn Cartwright, in USA, lots of writings and trainings. "
Yes! |
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"Tantric massage is incredible when done properly. Always makes me cum like a volcano and leaves me euphoric afterward
With tantric massage you don’t ejaculate. So no volcanic orgasms.
It depends on the Tantra. The goal of White Tantra has no Orgasm. Red Tantra is very explosive and Black Tantra, well
Just google that "
Can I just recommend people google "Dark Tantra" instead of "Black Tantra", which will just give a load of porn links to black girls giving tantric massages. Nothing wrong with that of course, but I don't think it's what the poster was aiming for. |
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"We can highly recommend NakedSpirit in the Midlands.
Google it.
He offers Tantric massage to men, women and couples.
Several of our friends have raved about him. "
Yes we can both recommend Naked spirit Too, we’ve visited him on a couple of occasions and both had a naked tantric massage each very horny |
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"We can highly recommend NakedSpirit in the Midlands.
Google it.
He offers Tantric massage to men, women and couples.
Several of our friends have raved about him.
Thanks will give him a try
Yes we can both recommend Naked spirit Too, we’ve visited him on a couple of occasions and both had a naked tantric massage each very horny "
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"Tantric massage is incredible when done properly. Always makes me cum like a volcano and leaves me euphoric afterward
With tantric massage you don’t ejaculate. So no volcanic orgasms.
It depends on the Tantra. The goal of White Tantra has no Orgasm. Red Tantra is very explosive and Black Tantra, well
Just google that "
Don’t forget Orange, Pink, Yellow Green and Purple Tantra as well. FFS! We wouldn’t want to confuse things would we? |
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"We can highly recommend NakedSpirit in the Midlands.
Google it.
He offers Tantric massage to men, women and couples.
Several of our friends have raved about him.
Yes we can both recommend Naked spirit Too, we’ve visited him on a couple of occasions and both had a naked tantric massage each very horny "
And if you ask before the massage he will let you touch his cock which adds to it!! |
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"We can highly recommend NakedSpirit in the Midlands.
Google it.
He offers Tantric massage to men, women and couples.
Several of our friends have raved about him.
????
Yes we can both recommend Naked spirit Too, we’ve visited him on a couple of occasions and both had a naked tantric massage each very horny
And if you ask before the massage he will let you touch his cock which adds to it!! "
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