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Some Advice and Guidance from the true fabswingers community
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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im not getting the best out of this site for sure and im not a over confident big head but the real package in i love this scene ive now found and want to get some advice from the old school been here before fabswingers in how do i get what i want and willing to give without sounding to good to be true as most of the time because of liars and fakes its too hard to believe theres just a genuine mother fucker still out there looking to meet the same
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You need to have a face pic if thats possible and some verifications from meets not webcams cus they are pretty much a,waste of time . Unfortunately things being way they are that makes it awkward at mo for you with present but hang on its worth wait,ive been on this site for 7 years plus now and people are weary and rightly so of newbies without any veris cus chances are the profile will disappear in a day or so. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need to have a face pic if thats possible and some verifications from meets not webcams cus they are pretty much a,waste of time . Unfortunately things being way they are that makes it awkward at mo for you with present but hang on its worth wait,ive been on this site for 7 years plus now and people are weary and rightly so of newbies without any veris cus chances are the profile will disappear in a day or so. Good luck "
Exactly this.....there has been a noticeable change in membership over the last few years. But that's a result of the site's success I suppose.
There are, however, still a fair few of us around who are genuine and here for the lifestyle and the right reasons.
You will find your way through....be patient and make sure your own profile is as goid as it can get. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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cant even get this right as you can tell but mother fucker was slang so don't take seriously as no insult meant,
also i was asking for advice not to be slated so not welcomed but noted
and thanks then for the constructive advise
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"im not getting the best out of this site for sure and im not a over confident big head but the real package in i love this scene ive now found and want to get some advice from the old school been here before fabswingers in how do i get what i want and willing to give without sounding to good to be true as most of the time because of liars and fakes its too hard to believe theres just a genuine mother fucker still out there looking to meet the same
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OP...
1. Expectations. What are your expectations of swinging & Fab? Are they similar to the swinger ethos?
2. Profile. Look at your profile and consider if it accurately represents you, and is appealing.
3. Effort. Effort in = results out. I suspect calling people liars, fakes and motherfuckers is going to alienate you from many people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im not getting the best out of this site for sure and im not a over confident big head but the real package in i love this scene ive now found and want to get some advice from the old school been here before fabswingers in how do i get what i want and willing to give without sounding to good to be true as most of the time because of liars and fakes its too hard to believe theres just a genuine mother fucker still out there looking to meet the same
OP...
1. Expectations. What are your expectations of swinging & Fab? Are they similar to the swinger ethos?
2. Profile. Look at your profile and consider if it accurately represents you, and is appealing.
3. Effort. Effort in = results out. I suspect calling people liars, fakes and motherfuckers is going to alienate you from many people."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no entitlement on fab or indeed in real life and just because you managed to put a dull and uninspiring profile up on here doesn’t mean your face is going to be dripping in clunge or your tip permanently wet.
Your profile is the window into your sexual soul and is the first thing most if not all women will check out.
You are not doing well on here because of you not the other fabbers fake or otherwise.
And motherfucker is not slang for person no matter where you come from.
Best of luck on here.
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"cant even get this right as you can tell but mother fucker was slang so don't take seriously as no insult meant,
also i was asking for advice not to be slated so not welcomed but noted
and thanks then for the constructive advise
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Why use slang when you know it will put some people off? |
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Add a couple of photos and say something in your profile
Most couples and single females get to many messages to open so you need to stand out & unfortunately you do that for all the wrong reasons giving them an easy out for the delete message & even block button
For a start you need a profile pic, it could be anything a shirtless chest pic, a regular photo of you head obscured if you want your privacy
Then add a few other pics to tease us and tempt us to look further and read you bio, but your bio sounds lazy like you can’t be bothered which we’d then presume would be the same with the messages & in bed. Write a bit about yourself your kinks what you want & enjoy from meets, your bio is your chance to sell yourself so you need to make it interesting
& finally If and when you send messages don’t be a
Hi, how are you?
Nice Pics
Or worse still in the current climate, ‘
‘what you been up to’
one line wonder make reference to theIr profile comment on a particular pic, etc show a genuine interest in them as a person/couple rather than a generic message your sending to everyone that happens to be online and local at that instant
Hope this helps |
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Three types of guys profiles on here;
1) Little or no effort, few uninspiring pictures normally of their cock or beer belly, text is a few words normally saying ‘fill in later’ or ‘message if you want to know more’
2) A few better pictures, maybe even of their face but nothing that really stands out. The text has the general, I’m a great lover who spends his time worshipping your body or more graphically, I give great oral etc...basically a lot of these copy and paste of the majority on here.
3) These are the guys who have actually figured out the site, don’t blend into the background (see 2) but be creative. They don’t write about their conquests or their abilities to bring a woman to endless orgasms, they know women prefer humorous and intelligent write ups, someone they’d actually like to meet and converse with. Pictures that have some eroticism within but obviously show they look after themselves, dress well a hint of masculine power without being overtly domineering.
Look at you profile, which one does yours match |
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"cant even get this right as you can tell but mother fucker was slang so don't take seriously as no insult meant,
also i was asking for advice not to be slated so not welcomed but noted
and thanks then for the constructive advise
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You asked for advice and got it. To most people that term is insulting, whether you deem it not to be. So if your using words of that nature in your messages, then perhaps that’s why you’re not having much luck. It may be used as ‘slang’ within your environment, but if you’re trying to improve your chances on here, then take advice and refrain from using it.
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