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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m very shy and cannot chat to ladies or couples in rooms or on message boards. I don’t know what to say and end up talking rubbish. I know I’m not the only one. Sometimes all we need is for someone to start the convo for me   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a difficult question to answer as every one is different and will reply to different approaches but basically we reply to every message in kind as in if someone sends a HI I reply with a HI and so on and Carol reads all messages but only replies to the ones she wants to reply to.
Main advice is to read the profile and if you feel that you are a good fit the Taylor your first message around that profile.
Always be polite and respectful and don’t go in all cocks blazing.
For example had a message this morning that just said CAN I FUCK YOUR WIFE????
To which I replied NO because that’s a really crap first message and he sent a cock pic which it clearly says not to on our profile.
Good luck and just be yourself.
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
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"This is a minefield of a question, will be intrigued by answers?"
It certainly is a minefield, cos every individual person has a different opinion. I treat each message as I would if i met that person in the street. Some people just need a courteous 'hi', some i feel inclined to spend some time with and others deserve a...  |
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I usually wait for them to contact me. If I’m interested I wink them. If they like me they can message, no pushy approach. It also means they don’t have to trawl through messages since couples and females get so many these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest it's hard to tell what's a good opener since some people want something "eye catching" but that's different for everyone and some dont mind one liners but there is rarely a way to tell unless its specified in the bio (I've seen it on occasions but it's like...what do you want me to say? If I say too much will I come off cheesy or looking for more of a connection when that's not the case) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s definitely not very easy it certainly doesn’t make it comfortable when you don’t get a reply or they just delete the Message would be nice to now the reasons so you get a better idea of if it’s just the way you come across in your messages or your not there type or to far away for example |
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