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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I started my journey into the BDSM world many years ago.
I was in a sexless marriage, with children. Spent my spare time looking at porn, told her how I felt alone, no change. As a horny 20 year old I was weak, and had an affair,I wanted my first shag in 18 months. She found out. We split up. Short version.
When we got back together, things weren't the same, she constantly used my indiscretion against me until one day she said I want to fuck someone else. I agreed thinking it was only fair and would get it out of her system.
This was wear I discovered the world of cuckold and femDom. She went out fucked who she wanted but didn't include me. Made me jealous as fuck but turned on. The sex toy box was purchased but still not much interest in me. I allowed her to cane me, spank me, slap me. I was a proper broken sub.
We eventually split and still have kids together. I used what i had learned ,found my true self and was happy.
I also discovered she is a narcacist.
Years later, as result of issues with the kids and because she still suffers from mental health she now claims I abused her. It's as far from the truth as you can get.
Question is, do I go all out and tell my whole story in my defence?
Do I come out as a kinky Sub turned Dom to defend myself or let the police find no evidence?
This is a very short 20 year history but the question remains the same.
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Contact Backlash org uk. Just add the dots. They might be able to help, or certainly point you in the right direction.
Backlash UK is an organisation that defends freedom of sexual expression among consenting adults in UK. They provide legal, academic and campaigning advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell the truth and save your children from a narcissistic parent.
My ex is what I now know to be a narcissist and god it's awful. Uses our daughter as a weapon at every opportunity.
Admit it to save your kids. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks , moe supportive than I expected.
Backlash will look into it.
Come out to everyone she has lied to , authorities my employers who are the same as hers. Large organisation so social distancing is easy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good luck OP, sounds like a total nightmare, i can imagine it’ll be difficult for the kids as they will not see your ex as you do.. wishing you all the best...x |
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