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So let’s hear it. We’ve had abuse from 2 couples on here today calling the male GAY for liking strap on play. We are a femdom couple and that’s part of what we do. It doesn’t bother us in the slightest to what others think but figured we could have a discussion on the topic.  what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it? Happy Fabbing people. Xx |
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I wouldn't say a man who enjoys toys for anal play is gay or bi.
Unless he is playing with other men he is straight.
At the end of the day as long as someone is happy with what they are doing labels don't matter anyway.
When I first joined this site I thought people would be more open minded but find they are so judgemental and can be rather rude and nasty with it. |
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
Heaven in the Midlands |
I think it was George Michael that said whether you're bi or gay depends on who you fall in love with, not who you have sex with. My take on the subject is, if it feels good we're gonna do it. Labels are unnecessary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And so what if hubby IS bi or even gay, whys that a slur.
I suspect the root is a bit of jealousy that you both are comfortable enough in your own skins and with each other to be able to enjoy such fun. |
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Oh we definitely deleted and blocked them.
We know there are some good people on here as we’ve met a few but this lockdown seems to have brought peoples idiocy levels through the roof.
We don’t care for labels just can’t understand why they would add us and chat to us for nearly a week to come out with some s**t like that. Xx |
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Guess you can add us to the “enjoy” list. It’s all part of our fun. We don’t push anything on our play friends that isn’t discussed about before meet... hopefully people who are downright nasty about an option of play are the guys that get nothing from site and are blocked constantly. ... |
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"Guess you can add us to the “enjoy” list. It’s all part of our fun. We don’t push anything on our play friends that isn’t discussed about before meet... hopefully people who are downright nasty about an option of play are the guys that get nothing from site and are blocked constantly. ... "
Completely agree with that and omg them toys ok scary haha x |
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We enjoy it too. The nerve endings there are the same in everyone. I fucking love anal, I would never judge a guy for liking it too, and I really enjoy pegging the Mr.
And as someone else mentioned, why would be being gay or bi be a slur anyway?
Leave the small minded people to it, we'll be over here having some excellent bum fun! 
C (her) |
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"Guess you can add us to the “enjoy” list. It’s all part of our fun. We don’t push anything on our play friends that isn’t discussed about before meet... hopefully people who are downright nasty about an option of play are the guys that get nothing from site and are blocked constantly. ...
Completely agree with that and omg them toys ok scary haha x"
lol. Very much doubt anything we have would scare you two. ... tho most our bdsm stuff isn’t on show. Lol. |
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In my experience there’s a large number of men and women that enjoy this regularly or fantasise about it frequently.
I’ve enjoyed receiving a lot of anal stimulation during foreplay and sex without the pleasure of a strap on. This is definitely on my wish list still.
I do not have any desires to kiss cuddle or have a relationship with another man however I do have a fantasy that includes a woman with a strap on and another man who will both penetrate me whilst the other sucks me off. Hence the bi-curious tag. It’s about giving and receiving pleasure and having a great mentally and physically gratifying experience.
Not everyone will agree and I respect that we are all different and some feel more comfortable with defined boxes to put people in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im starting work this Saturday morning with a delicious tenderness due to my wife reaching under our bed to our "Sex box" and picking her Doc Johnson with middle size dildo. she took control.. she wanted to take me..we play dress up sometimes when she needs her Bi fix other times..she wants to fuck her man..Good on you Phoenix cpl..xx and all here who love strapon play.. |
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Thank you so much guys and girls. So glad to see a friendly thread on here like I said we blocked them and ignored them anyway but a little boost is sometimes needed on here as we are still new so a massive thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So let’s hear it. We’ve had abuse from 2 couples on here today calling the male GAY for liking strap on play. We are a femdom couple and that’s part of what we do. It doesn’t bother us in the slightest to what others think but figured we could have a discussion on the topic. what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it? Happy Fabbing people. Xx"
is he bi though just out of interest?  |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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It seems like an outdated and narrow minded view to assume that a man being pegged is automatically bi or gay.
For most guys I guess it's about the power dynamic and role reversal, I suppose this may be why it's still quite taboo for straight guys??
Oh and I find the idea of being pegged by a sexy lady quite hot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love strapon play, but can never done a woman or couple  there’s nothing gay about it, just a bit different. Women take it in the ass so why can’t men ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really is quite weird that for somewhere that should be so sexually liberal we still find so many outdated, ill-educated or short sighted views.
Whether it’s to do with power dynamics & role reversal, or to do with what a “real straight man” would do.. it just seems short sighted and, well bigoted. I can see an argument about power dynamics, but don’t see them saying the same thing to people into bdsm, so I’m guessing it’s a more basic “men should take it” argument.. which to me seems to say “deny yourself a possible pleasure” - maybe that’s why they come across angry... |
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I Hate labels, and on a site like this wow. i think they might be stuggling with there own sexuality. Gay, bi, straight is such a poorly fabricated explanation of feelings. Honestly the amount of so called straight guys on here who message late at night begging for some cock, has convinced me there is no such thing a straight guys just a bigotted society.
By the way i love a good strap on meet |
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I use toys on my husband same as he uses toys on me (what’s good for the goose and all that) but anal play is something we only do with each other and not with others. We brought a strap on for us to try. I’m shit with one with no hip action (used one on a girlfriend once too and was rubbish then too!) so as it just brings laughter we always give up! But my husband isn’t gay, bi or bi curious it doesn’t mean we can’t enjoy each other, it’s nothing to do with being gay!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So let’s hear it. We’ve had abuse from 2 couples on here today calling the male GAY for liking strap on play. We are a femdom couple and that’s part of what we do"
You guys have been in my hotlist since I joined; I am very jealous of your husband and your dynamic, for me you share something special.
Anyone that messages you slurs like the above is an idiot and very likely sexually insecure. You just keep doing what you love doing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow OP, sounds like you have quite a healthy sexual lifestyle, most would be jealous over!
p.s try to avoid the bigoted, narrow minded, boring sex lives of some on here!
Enjoy my lovelies!!!  |
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"I wouldn't say a man who enjoys toys for anal play is gay or bi.
Unless he is playing with other men he is straight.
At the end of the day as long as someone is happy with what they are doing labels don't matter anyway.
When I first joined this site I thought people would be more open minded but find they are so judgemental and can be rather rude and nasty with it. "
what ever you’re both happy and comfortable with , but it doesn’t make him bi/ gay , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love pegging, both giving and receiving.
Luckily we’ve never come across any negativity. We’ve hosted meets where they’ve had no experience of strap on play and they’ve left us as very happy converts!
Miss x |
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Strapon play, hell yes!!!
Attracted to men, fuck no!!!
Attracted to woman, absolutely!!
Attracted to sexy womanly tv/cd/ trans lady, absolutely!!
My Label is," She, they, the womanly beauty before me is stunning, sensual, sexual, delicious, desirable, yes please"....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive recently discovered anal play for myself i love it actually considered maybe i am bi or curious and i know im neither just enjoy playing.... thought about being pegged one day |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"So let’s hear it. We’ve had abuse from 2 couples on here today calling the male GAY for liking strap on play. We are a femdom couple and that’s part of what we do. It doesn’t bother us in the slightest to what others think but figured we could have a discussion on the topic. what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it? Happy Fabbing people. Xx"
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Just another wind up merchant getting his jollies in their own bizarre way lol
Most likely just jealous of the horny fun you guys are having 
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By *hyrushMan
over a year ago
denham |
Strap on fun is great and why do you have to be gay, bisexual or even curious to have a go, and quiet honestly does it matter. Couples make their own decisions who they play with and a bit of strap on fun is just great |
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
shropshire |
"So let’s hear it. We’ve had abuse from 2 couples on here today calling the male GAY for liking strap on play. We are a femdom couple and that’s part of what we do. It doesn’t bother us in the slightest to what others think but figured we could have a discussion on the topic. what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it? Happy Fabbing people. Xx"
I think that's awful you having abuse like that...everyone has their own like and dislikes ... I dont mind strap on fun . I've had good fun with Male and females but I'm not bi it's quite a turn on really..need to get a bigger one
Foxy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So let’s hear it. We’ve had abuse from 2 couples on here today calling the male GAY for liking strap on play. We are a femdom couple and that’s part of what we do. It doesn’t bother us in the slightest to what others think but figured we could have a discussion on the topic. what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it? Happy Fabbing people. Xx
I think that's awful you having abuse like that...everyone has their own like and dislikes ... I dont mind strap on fun . I've had good fun with Male and females but I'm not bi it's quite a turn on really..need to get a bigger one
Foxy x"
I would say I am jealous, but have you swen the size of your strapon's lol... still wonder if women can persuade me to try or take it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So let’s hear it. We’ve had abuse from 2 couples on here today calling the male GAY for liking strap on play. We are a femdom couple and that’s part of what we do. It doesn’t bother us in the slightest to what others think but figured we could have a discussion on the topic. what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it? Happy Fabbing people. Xx"
Not gay. Pleasure is pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So let’s hear it. We’ve had abuse from 2 couples on here today calling the male GAY for liking strap on play. We are a femdom couple and that’s part of what we do. It doesn’t bother us in the slightest to what others think but figured we could have a discussion on the topic. what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it? Happy Fabbing people. Xx"
I am in no way bi or gay but love meme rimming and using her fingers and strap on with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"still wonder if women can persuade me to try or take it..."
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LOL!!
Is that a necessary part of your fantasy then?, kind of like then you don't have to admit it's you that wants a cock on your ass? |
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We love it....as for the label fixers....they can get right royally fucked. Or not, with small minded attitudes like that....Perhaps people should tell them that this is a sex site. The WI also have a website that they may be more interested in.... |
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I Absolutely Love Strap-On Fun. It is Absolute Bliss !!!!!
I’m not attracted to men either. I wouldn’t say it was Gay lol.
Plenty is straight Men love Strap-on fun too.
I wouldn’t care what anyone else says or thinks, so long as you are having fun and not harming anyone .
xx |
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