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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone else get this? It seems to be happening a lot.
Anyone ever met with a couple and then the guy approaches you for a date without his mate? (or vice versa?)
Kind of not the original deal .. what's the point?
And call me old fashioned ... but when you have an ipen minded mate who'll let you fuck other people .... why be sly and secretive?
Hmmmm
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take the female half of a cuck couple out alone often for the evening or night......, either one of them will text, mails or calls to arrange, if fills their needs and desires I'm not complaining |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vicki and I played with a couple, and the chap spent most of the evening trying to get Vicki in a room on her own, and then spent lots of time trying to get 'her' (as opposed to our) contact details.
Shame as they were a very sexy couple that we enjoyed playing with, and it could have become a regular thing except for that... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I've been there a few times so got the t-shirt.
Gets abit annoying as when u decide to meet a couple then the guy trys to meet on there own, my answer for that will be a big fat NO! |
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yep have known cpls and the hubby/male half asks to meet me with out my hubbys and there partners knowledge .total no go for me and never meet them even as a cpl after stunts like that . if done openly ,then it wouldnt be any issue with it and would decide then if i wanted a meet alone . swinging for me is about being open and honest with your partner and those you meet. guess some folks are always wanting the next "thrill", not content with actually swinging with partner they have to try to get sneeky meets . guess they get off on the deception . |
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"Vicki and I played with a couple, and the chap spent most of the evening trying to get Vicki in a room on her own, and then spent lots of time trying to get 'her' (as opposed to our) contact details.
Shame as they were a very sexy couple that we enjoyed playing with, and it could have become a regular thing except for that..."
What an idiot, not happy as part of a couple to play with another couple, but wants one on one with the female? Sometimes it beggars belief how some guys shoot themselves in the foot!
Not something I've ever come across, even when I was in a couple. Surely if you need/want more sex then just meet more people!
Fortunately, guys like this make people like me look very good! LOL!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fortunately, guys like this make people like me look very good! LOL!
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Absolutely... besides it's much more fun with a participating audience.
Surely if you're with someone it's because you want to be with them, not just for a free-range 'pussy pass'.
But hey, I guess I'll just carry on munching with the mrs on our vics  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Vicki and I played with a couple, and the chap spent most of the evening trying to get Vicki in a room on her own, and then spent lots of time trying to get 'her' (as opposed to our) contact details.
Shame as they were a very sexy couple that we enjoyed playing
with, and it could have become a regular thing except for that...
What an idiot, not happy as part of a couple to play with another couple, but wants one on one with the female? Sometimes it beggars belief how some guys shoot themselves in the foot!
Not something I've ever come across, even when I was in a couple. Surely if you need/want more sex then just meet more people!
Fortunately, guys like this make people like me look very good! LOL!
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In my experience as I'm a couple also it happens a lot. And is off putting. But its also nice to know they are not all like that its just a case of being sure before and to be straight and honest. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Anyone else get this? It seems to be happening a lot.
Anyone ever met with a couple and then the guy approaches you for a date without his mate? (or vice versa?)
Kind of not the original deal .. what's the point?
And call me old fashioned ... but when you have an ipen minded mate who'll let you fuck other people .... why be sly and secretive?
Hmmmm
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It's not something we have had happen to us alot, only on a couple of occasions. (Had both a female & male do it)
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I take the female half of a cuck couple out alone often for the evening or night......, either one of them will text, mails or calls to arrange, if fills their needs and desires I'm not complaining"
That's different as it is all above board and everyone knows about it.
We have played in a similar way on a few occasions with some of our friends. |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
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Yes we have had that scenario. It has and will only happen once because without being arsey certain criteria is laid down and assured lightheartedly beforehand.
Some people are downright disrespectful |
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It's quite funny that this came up, we've actually had it the other way around. Fi and I are 100% honest so I just brought it straight out into the open with both parties in the room without making it awkward, then we explained that meeting 1 on 1 is a no no for either of us unless we discuss it first and BOTH of us talk to the other person.
Trust is everything to both of us, between us, and those we play with - if you can't trust people to respect a simple boundary like that, how can you trust them to be discrete? Or play safe! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had that happen three times with guys from couples asking to meet me alone.
On each occasion it has been a case of 'she doesn't know I'm bi' which , to me, always seems a little bit sad.
That a couple can have so much trust and openness, yet one still holds something back from the other. |
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An ex FB of mine ended up playing with the wife of a couple we had met, behind my back, and lied about what he was doing. Not only that, he dumped me because she said it was either her or me. It did come back to bite him on the bum later though - karma is a wonderful thing!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pisses me off, the amount of mail I get from the male part of a couple (usually ) .... one guy kept insisting that as they were only play pals and didn't live together it didn't count, sorry but if you have a couples profile on here then as far as I'm concerned you play as a couple, doesn't matter if you are married cohabiting or living in separate houses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else get this? It seems to be happening a lot.
Anyone ever met with a couple and then the guy approaches you for a date without his mate? (or vice versa?)
Kind of not the original deal .. what's the point?
And call me old fashioned ... but when you have an ipen minded mate who'll let you fuck other people .... why be sly and secretive?
Hmmmm
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we had a similar meet where we were meeting a 'single' woman. She turned up with a her husband which totally threw us off and we ended up politely walking away. Then she had the audacity to slag us off saying we were timewasters. It takes all sorts on this sitev  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you get different to what youve planned to meet your not the timewaster.
they are the liars or cheaters.seems to be the norm.
best to always walk away if not happy. |
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