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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who is it that decides to contact a single?
Is it the male or female or both....?
Does it depend?
I can only wonder how mortifying it would be to be sent on a cuck-cake mission, cos the wife says their partner would love you, but you get there and he thinks you’re as attractive as Donald Trumps Grandpa.
Or
Setting up a two-lady-one-male threesome, cos the husband says its on the to-do list, and then the wife decides she’d rather eat spoonfuls of sick than play with you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jessica decides on who she wishes to talk to and potentially meet. She does all the messaging bar the occasional general message which I respond to.
I do more forum posts than her though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a joint decision though I do know the Mr’s type so I know who he would like etc we are both similar. If we get a message from a couple or a female we will sit together and message them whilst checking their profile and their vibes, vibes are most important for us xx  |
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We both discuss, but with single guys I message those I'm interested in. We would both agree before a meet though.
With couples, he'll pick more often than I would, and I'm normally not sure on them until after a social. I almost always need a chat before I fancy someone.
With ladies...we usually pick the same people anyway!
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As a couple we both search for what we want and favourite(hotlist) people we like and show the other before massaging. As a single I pick my own meets and em comes along for a social first to make sure we are both happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven’t invited any singles to join us yet, but it would most definitely be a joint decision if we did.
We both agreed when we went to meet a couple, albeit not quite what we expected, an we decided it wasn’t for us, so we’re just gonna stick with going the clubs (no pressure or expectations) an when we’re in the club we both approve something, if one of us isn’t happy then we respect the others wishes and don’t play.
Simple trust, respect and honesty is how we work it. |
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