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"Leave the swinging scene to make a go of it with a vanilla partner?"
Yup. Why would I give up a good relationship for random shagging?
If a partner I love and respect did not want to swing then we wouldn't and I'd expect the same in return.
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Yes we could and have. During the run up to and after our wedding we left the scene for 6 months and loved it.
We returned back to see how we felt and it had some teething problems with my jealousy but it was a quite a few club visits before we started playing again. If hubby wanted us to leave I’d have no problem in saying ok and staying vanilla. The relationship and depth of love we have is far better than a 10 minute bunk up with some other person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just as a thought, and this is not reflected on you Ruby but swinging whilst non conventional is still vanilla.
In the world of fetish then that goes way beyond sexual inclusiveness. It's a leap far beyond and for most its a non return thing. Kink is a life long thing.
We found each other #beingoutthere
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Leave the swinging scene to make a go of it with a vanilla partner?"
Well my partner and I swing and have an open relationship (my second one) there would be no point.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Leave the swinging scene to make a go of it with a vanilla partner?"
I could. I'm only here because I didn't want to date and have relationships. But frankly, the current pandemic has changed my mind. |
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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes. We were vanilla for many many years. Also we’re all vanilla at the moment and for quite a while yet. really I'd go with staciatelli myself  "
If you’re stuck to the telly, keep watching it  |
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"Leave the swinging scene to make a go of it with a vanilla partner?"
I couldnt .. I am not monogamous but i am faithful. I'd never have a relationship with someone who wanted me to give my lifestyle up..but then as I dont want a partner it's not something I now worry about
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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago
Nearly |
Got that dilema now. I think my partner is far away in swinging. I wanted keep oral and kisses for ourselves but he isn't happy. Not make sense for me. I give us safe sex with others but still is not enough for him. So thinking to stop at all. |
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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago
Nearly |
Got that dilema now. I think my partner is far away in swinging. I wanted keep oral and kisses for ourselves but he isn't happy. Not make sense for me. I give us safe sex with others but still is not enough for him. So thinking to stop at all. |
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We dont swing that often anyway. We go through phases of not being too fussed and not being able to get a sitter, then a few days later we find ourselves on here.
So to answer the original question, we could quite easily pack it up if one of us asked. |
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over a year ago
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I don't know. I like watching and being watched by my partner when I have one. I think I would want to stay on the scene but would most certainly be happy to negotiate boundaries |
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I think it’s different for couples - the question is would you stop swinging if the other party wanted to.
For singles, it’s whether you want a relationship or you want to remain single. For those who want to remain single, there’s nothing appealing about a LTR. I met my partner in a club, so we are both swinging singles - and I couldn’t have a monogamous relationship now, so it’s the best of all worlds.
I’ve never had a monogamous relationship that lasted longer than 18 months. I get itchy feet. 2 years in & still going strong, so it’s definitely a better fit for me! |
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"Leave the swinging scene to make a go of it with a vanilla partner?"
I could leave the swinging scene, but I don't think I'd ever be monogamous. I just don't think of relationships like that.
Alice is the same. We have zero interest in 'forsaking all others.' |
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