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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d really love to meet couples. Never tried it and they get put off cause I have no experience couples. What advice would you guys give me  "
Keep looking. Husband and I have met a few newbies to couples. Commonly nerves get better of them during first meet, but it gets more fun on consecutive ones. |
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I would say try a club when they open back up, the other option is to attend a social night, a great way to meet people and show that you are genuinely interesting in swinging not just trying to get a quick fix So to speak xx good luck |
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"I would say try a club when they open back up, the other option is to attend a social night, a great way to meet people and show that you are genuinely interesting in swinging not just trying to get a quick fix So to speak xx good luck "
Would agree on visiting a club |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"What advice would you guys give me "
Read their profiles, and accept that couples get a LOT of messages from single guys so there's a LOT of choice and it's hard to make yourself stand out. Be polite, take note of the couple's requirements and most of all, remember you're talking to a couple and not just the lady.
We've met plenty of single guys but have turned down a hundred times more.
Bry (and Charlotte) |
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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago
N Peterborough. |
I'd say if you do get some interest then don't bombard them with messages asking for immediate meets. I realize that sounds really fucking obvious.
However we've had the situation where this guy was sending message after message even as I was trying to reply to the previous ones. Found it very off putting. |
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Be polite and respectful as said don’t push for a meet build up a bit of chat
And remember to chat to both Male n female in couple as If you talk over hubby and ignore his chat it’s going to get you nowhere
Look upon it as asking your best mate to
Borrow his Ferrari 
Be confident and you will love it |
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"I’d really love to meet couples. Never tried it and they get put off cause I have no experience couples. What advice would you guys give me "
Firstly when talking to a couple you need to engage with the male half more than the female because if he doesn't like you then nothing is going to happen.
Don't go white knight - biggest turn off ever for a couple
Go to clubs and follow the two above suggestions and chat to couples and things will happen  |
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