Why do some people think it's necessary to be inappropriate to someone in forums or in messages all because the recipient is clearly not interested. Why can't they be a mature responsible adult and just move on until you find someone right for you.
Not everyone likes everyone just because you're on a swingers site.  |
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"I'm a bloke in a dress so I'm used to rejection.
But being serious I love FAB, i try and respect people's boundaries xx "
I duno if it's more apparent because of lockdown, people taking their frustrations out. |
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Why do some people think it's necessary to be inappropriate to someone in forums or in messages all because the recipient is clearly not interested. Why can't they be a mature responsible adult and just move on until you find someone right for you.
Not everyone likes everyone just because you're on a swingers site.
Well said Jasmine ....Am here as a single guy and have a Joint Profile with my lovely F friend. Some of the recent messages we have got are just outright irritating. Sign of the times am afraid !! |
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"I'm a bloke in a dress so I'm used to rejection.
But being serious I love FAB, i try and respect people's boundaries xx
I duno if it's more apparent because of lockdown, people taking their frustrations out. "
I don't think it is more apparrent as it has been around for a while. I think the volume has increased due to lockdown.
I don't let it bother me as trolls will be trolls - but keep doing what you're doing because I'd much rather have a polite no thank you than a pointless block when you might have made a new non fucking friend!
You would hate chat at 4am then... seems to bring all the trolls out from under their rocks to talk to people in ways you wouldn't imagine in the street.
On the plus side you always find the trolls get found out and just leave the site eventually whilst the genuine swingers and non-swingers alike remain.
Looks like the darkside never wins!
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"Why do some people think it's necessary to be inappropriate to someone in forums or in messages all because the recipient is clearly not interested. Why can't they be a mature responsible adult and just move on until you find someone right for you.
Not everyone likes everyone just because you're on a swingers site. "
I find most guys here take rejection well as they're kind of used to it, the ones who take it badly actually do you a favour by showing you their core personality.
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"perhaps people have gotton sick of the same message over and over again from the same people, that patience has worn a little thin in places."
They should probably stop messaging the same people over and over again then. |
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"Why do some people think it's necessary to be inappropriate to someone in forums or in messages all because the recipient is clearly not interested. Why can't they be a mature responsible adult and just move on until you find someone right for you.
Not everyone likes everyone just because you're on a swingers site.
I find most guys here take rejection well as they're kind of used to it, the ones who take it badly actually do you a favour by showing you their core personality.
Those guys make me grateful I didn't end up getting locked in a room naked with them "
Even worse, tied up, blind folded and ready to be whipped... Need alot of trust!! If they already acting out, there's little trust to want to do real life stuff with them |
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"Why do some people think it's necessary to be inappropriate to someone in forums or in messages all because the recipient is clearly not interested. Why can't they be a mature responsible adult and just move on until you find someone right for you.
Not everyone likes everyone just because you're on a swingers site.
I find most guys here take rejection well as they're kind of used to it, the ones who take it badly actually do you a favour by showing you their core personality.
Those guys make me grateful I didn't end up getting locked in a room naked with them
Even worse, tied up, blind folded and ready to be whipped... Need alot of trust!! If they already acting out, there's little trust to want to do real life stuff with them"
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