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When we are arranging a meet off of here we tend to be quite choosy however I’ve found (Mrs) that when we go to clubs and start talking to people, I’ve fucked people I perhaps wouldn’t have if arranging the meet, due to us having some banter and a laugh. I say I have to be attracted to someone but have learned this is not only down to looks and have had some great times with people I perhaps wouldn’t have entertained prior to meeting! |
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By *anebondWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
For me I'm picker in different ways here than when looking for a partner, but physical is more important here than in the dating world. This is way more physical than dating were there must be a deeper connection. |
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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago
West Midlands and West London |
"When we are arranging a meet off of here we tend to be quite choosy however I’ve found (Mrs) that when we go to clubs and start talking to people, I’ve fucked people I perhaps wouldn’t have if arranging the meet, due to us having some banter and a laugh. I say I have to be attracted to someone but have learned this is not only down to looks and have had some great times with people I perhaps wouldn’t have entertained prior to meeting! "
Very well put! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on situation.
High standards on and off here guard up regardless.. Can't mentally deal with knobheads on any level..
But usually only meet at clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My standard for only having sex with people I really like doesn’t change the only difference is whether I fall in love or not. I just endeavour not to develop that kind of attachment on here. I’m much better at non-attachment these days after an infatuation scare a few years ago. |
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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago
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I am quite fussy but my partner isn't and that makes me wonder if we are in the same level as couple. He has very good stamina and when we are meeting couples usually I am finish and he stil going with female for long. |
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"When we are arranging a meet off of here we tend to be quite choosy however I’ve found (Mrs) that when we go to clubs and start talking to people, I’ve fucked people I perhaps wouldn’t have if arranging the meet, due to us having some banter and a laugh. I say I have to be attracted to someone but have learned this is not only down to looks and have had some great times with people I perhaps wouldn’t have entertained prior to meeting! "
Totally agree with you. On Fab we only really have pics and profile to go by, so tend to be quite specific about what we want. When we meet in Clubs (one day!) we retain our preferences, but now we can use our other senses to decide if we find someone sexy. It doesn’t mean we lower our standards, it just means we actually fancy them as opposed to a facsimile of them  |
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I always find something missing about a guy on fab.. Whether its distance, great body or cock but unattractive face, great sexy body but dull in personality, nothing much to talk about or just don't share the same kinks. Like I want a reluctant sexy sub guy. Incredibly difficult to find so something has to give... Definitely not a small cock or unattractive face. |
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In real life, I usually go for personality, things in common and sexual connection which often doesn't go with initial physical attraction. My last guy was short and with a beard. But everything else about him was sexy and lovely |
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Hence why I haven't had sex in ages 
