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How to get my mrs on a mmf
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys right my gf who i have been with for the last 7 years now we have 2 kids and had a very good sex life but last few years been kind of dry.my mrs was watching a program and she was like oo i would love to fuck him you could join in or watch ,with that it tunred me on the thought of this other guy fucking her and then me joining in double pen double vag and me sucking her clit while shes riding his big cock and then cleaning up the creampie from her pussy anyways back to it i said to her 4 days later after she said she would like to fuck him (the actor in the program) that i had a dream of of a mmf threesome and that guy was in it and we done all of the above plus more and she was like oo u dirty boy an that was it left at that. A few months go by and i mention another dream of a mmf threesome and she smiled and was like do u like guys i said no not really but it would turn me on seeing you getting fucked and me joining in on the fun as well and cleaning up she said them days are long gone. She dont feel comfortable with her current body as we had kids etc. But then i was on her phone and she was watching bbc cuck porn and lots of gay porn she also said would be a fantasys seeing me with another guy so i dunno what else really to do about it so any help or anything let me know thanks guys  |
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If she's not comfortable with it, then nothing.
Sometimes the idea of something is hotter than when it feels like it could be a reality. Sounds like you'd be pushing her towards something she's not comfortable doing in real life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just talk to her properly and see what happens lay it all out and make sure your relationship is strong 1st
+ why are you on here as a single guy and not a couple maybe that would help |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"Just talk to her properly and see what happens lay it all out and make sure your relationship is strong 1st
+ why are you on here as a single guy and not a couple maybe that would help "
I just read is profile and it says single guy are u sure the fantasy not yours as uve had meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did try to read op with the aim to offer some advice but the complete lack of structure and punctuation in your post just hurt my eyes tbh. Good luck with it though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like this is more your fantasy than hers. Also you being on here as a ‘single’ guy makes me not want to offer a decent response.
Hope she finds someone that won’t go behind her back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"pmsl ..... the bit where he wrote his missus said "oo you dirty boy" did anyone else read that bit in a Kenneth Williams voice ??? latest carry on film "carry on swinging""
(Puts on Sid James laugh)
Wo hahaha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk to her and find some mutual threesome porn to watch, if you want to try being with another guy then buy some toys for yourself first. Also get talking to some guys with her and see if that fantasy can be a reality, no harm in trying anything at least once in your life, you will only regret never trying it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few years ago I read a book I found online called How to Turn Your Partner Into a Swinger (or something like that - can't remember the author). Worked for us! |
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So does your GF know that you have been joining in with other couples? and have been with guys, and also do the people you have been with know you are in a relationship as it says single on your profile? Can’t be doing with people who say they are single and they are not! |
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"Hey guys right my gf who i have been with for the last 7 years now we have 2 kids and had a very good sex life but last few years been kind of dry.my mrs was watching a program and she was like oo i would love to fuck him you could join in or watch ,with that it tunred me on the thought of this other guy fucking her and then me joining in double pen double vag and me sucking her clit while shes riding his big cock and then cleaning up the creampie from her pussy anyways back to it i said to her 4 days later after she said she would like to fuck him (the actor in the program) that i had a dream of of a mmf threesome and that guy was in it and we done all of the above plus more and she was like oo u dirty boy an that was it left at that. A few months go by and i mention another dream of a mmf threesome and she smiled and was like do u like guys i said no not really but it would turn me on seeing you getting fucked and me joining in on the fun as well and cleaning up she said them days are long gone. She dont feel comfortable with her current body as we had kids etc. But then i was on her phone and she was watching bbc cuck porn and lots of gay porn she also said would be a fantasys seeing me with another guy so i dunno what else really to do about it so any help or anything let me know thanks guys "
Suck the cock, you'll not regret it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So does your GF know that you have been joining in with other couples? and have been with guys, and also do the people you have been with know you are in a relationship as it says single on your profile? Can’t be doing with people who say they are single and they are not! "
As your online atm any answers to these questions OP? |
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Sounds to me like your gf has got you sussed and it is you that wants the cock.....
Fantasy is all very well, but sometimes it's best left that way..
Hope you both find what you want and always try and put gf and family first.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey mate it was her fantasy what has tunred into mine now. When i first got with her i asked for a mff threeesome and she said only if we have a mmf and i said no to it that was many years ago and now i wished i said yes. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So does your GF know that you have been joining in with other couples? and have been with guys, and also do the people you have been with know you are in a relationship as it says single on your profile? Can’t be doing with people who say they are single and they are not!
As your online atm any answers to these questions OP? "
Doubt it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could always ask her if she wants to role play? Buy an extra dildo and pretend shes having fun with two men. The fantasy is different from the reality but if she/ you like it, you could talk about doing it for real - respecting her choices of course! |
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"She dont feel comfortable with her current body as we had kids etc. "
Talk to her, and try to reassure her she's still attractive, and talk about what her worries would be in a threesome.
If that doesn't work, respect her wishes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some right stuck up arrogant #unts on fab! The guy has come on asking for advice and all he gets is sarcasm and insults.
By the sounds of it buddy your mrs obviously likes the idea of exploring but is conscious of her appearance after having kids. Talk to her about it and be honest with each other thats what you need to be for this type of relationship to work. Also, she obviously likes porn, you guys could watch together and enjoy the fantasy and build from there..
Btw to everyone else on this thread there is nothing attractive in being a condescending smart arse! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First of all if you can watch some porn together as part of your sex play and you can focus in on what she likes watching. Never push it but gently ask what she likes watching. And after a while once she has become comfortable talking about her fantasies ask her if she would want to try some or all of it. You will probably need to reassure her that you are only asking to ensure she experiences things that will bring her enjoyment and you are not trying to catch her out. Its possible she is not confident that you would not be annoyed or consider it a sleight on your own performance. If she does want to try anything you should assure her thatvthe choice of partners would be hers and you wouldnt force her to meet anyone she didnt want to. You can suggest putting an advert on this site to test the water. The issue of body shape is often just a first line of objection because she feels she shouldnt admit to wanting to involve other people in your sex life. Dont take it as a no. Its actually a call for reasurance. You can easily show her photos of others on this site most of who are not supermodels but clearly have fun. This is an excellent site to show her that swinging is a very common and popular hobby and that thousands of couples similar to yourselves are enjoying themselves with other people. |
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"If she's not comfortable with it, then nothing.
Sometimes the idea of something is hotter than when it feels like it could be a reality. Sounds like you'd be pushing her towards something she's not comfortable doing in real life."
What she said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well you've got bisexual on your profile and shes watching gay porn. Just tell her you enjoy cock aswell best thing I ever did was tell my wife her answer was can I come and watch lol. Lasted about a minute before she got her knickers off and joined in ... |
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