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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Clearly this is a post lockdown question!
At a club clearly you can choose who you play with. If you get invited to a house party, is the expectation that everyone plays with everyone?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We host monthly parties in our home, and no one is under any pressure to do anything they don't want, it certainly is not a free for all, unless that's what you want. Generally it's a giant social with the option of play if you meet a couple. Obviously we can only talk about our parties, but house parties we've been to some have felt a little pressured but we only do what we want and if there's no one that takes our fancy we don't play. X |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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Back before Fab and actual swingers clubs, the AFF socials would have after party invites.
Before everyone got naked, the discussion would be had as to people’s limits and also throughout the play.
A few of the guys would ask me if I’d play and (at that time) I’d politely decline.
Anyone who had had enough of the play, or even if someone didn’t feel like playing once they got back to the house, was encouraged to drop out and go to one of the non play bedrooms and put their head down. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We host monthly parties in our home, and no one is under any pressure to do anything they don't want, it certainly is not a free for all, unless that's what you want. Generally it's a giant social with the option of play if you meet a couple. Obviously we can only talk about our parties, but house parties we've been to some have felt a little pressured but we only do what we want and if there's no one that takes our fancy we don't play. X"
Must be great to host parties in your home! Reassuring that there isnt pressure of certain expectations. Shame we live over the other side of the pennines lol c |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly this is a post lockdown question!
At a club clearly you can choose who you play with. If you get invited to a house party, is the expectation that everyone plays with everyone?
Thanks x"
Absolutely not. We have been to lots of house parties and the same etiquette applies as it does in clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We host monthly parties in our home, and no one is under any pressure to do anything they don't want, it certainly is not a free for all, unless that's what you want. Generally it's a giant social with the option of play if you meet a couple. Obviously we can only talk about our parties, but house parties we've been to some have felt a little pressured but we only do what we want and if there's no one that takes our fancy we don't play. X
Must be great to host parties in your home! Reassuring that there isnt pressure of certain expectations. Shame we live over the other side of the pennines lol c "
It is, although cleaning the next morning isnt very welcome lol, maybe have a night away, if you get in early enough we can accommodate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We enjoy the club scene for very reasons stated, we’ve tried the going to another couples as a couple, nothing happened as it didn’t feel right an we probs won’t do it again (unless we’ve met them at a club n really get on).
We’d both like to attend a house party tho, hopefully be the same vibe as a club.
Can’t wait for lockdown to end as we’d only recently ventured into swinging before lockdown occurred. |
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