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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry need to ask this because it's been bugging me for weeks, in December and January I was talking to a couple ( who made contact with me ) about meeting, we arranged to meet 2and week jan , they cancelled on the day then got another message saying sorry can I make it the week after, so I agreed and again they cancelled on the day , then they messaged me saying it was because I'm bi that they kept cancelling, even though the husband is bi and they knew I was and then they blocked me , dont really know what the fuck to think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did they have decent veri’s OP and pics of them both together?
Try not to dwell on it too much. Some on here are complete fantasists. They have no intention of ever meeting . Others genuinely get cold feet, hence me asking about the veri’s.
Most of us will have faced disappointment on here for one reason or another. Chalk it up to experience and hope you have better luck next time.
Miss V |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Sorry need to ask this because it's been bugging me for weeks, in December and January I was talking to a couple ( who made contact with me ) about meeting, we arranged to meet 2and week jan , they cancelled on the day then got another message saying sorry can I make it the week after, so I agreed and again they cancelled on the day , then they messaged me saying it was because I'm bi that they kept cancelling, even though the husband is bi and they knew I was and then they blocked me , dont really know what the fuck to think "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Did they have decent veri’s OP and pics of them both together?
Try not to dwell on it too much. Some on here are complete fantasists. They have no intention of ever meeting . Others genuinely get cold feet, hence me asking about the veri’s.
Most of us will have faced disappointment on here for one reason or another. Chalk it up to experience and hope you have better luck next time.
Miss V"
they had 3 veri's 1 couple and 1 guy in meets and 1 cam , think your right and just chalk it up as experience. Chris |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fantasists is probably what they are and they're getting cold feet on the day.
People get 1 chance with us now and that's it, been bit way too many times. |
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Did they have good verifications or none wait definitely not something you might of said we have arranged meets then cancelled after a creepy or strange message off the guy that's why we generally message for at least a couple weeks before meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If anyone fails to show up for an arranged meet we usually block them and move on, but if they seem genuine and we give em a second chance and they let us down again we block em, report em and move on without hesitation.
As a couple, with kids, arranging meets involve babysitters, sometimes changing arrangements with ex's and all the usual stuff.
We implement tough restrictions on who we are willing to take a risk on (must have verification, usually speak on the fone) even so half of arranged meets end up with us sitting in a bar disappointed. Its why we prioritise going to clubs, |
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I once met a lady on here. Initially she messed me about big time. Cancelled on me four times in five days. I deleted her messages and moved on.
A year later she messaged me again. We finally met. She was great company and I saw her a number of times. She was incredibly unreliable and Flakey. I changed her name in my address book to “Flakey ......”. She cancelled on me just one time too many so I got my own back by completely ignoring her apologetic messages asking for another chance.
I felt so much better for doing it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe he has joined the site,and his wife was reluctant but did it for him.
My worst nightmare is to meet a couple and realise the wife isn't comfortable and the hubby is pushing it,so basically the hubby has dragged her on here....that's why I'm always dubious when the hubby does all the talking in messages. |
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You can try to search and search for the answer each time others may cancel.
It's often wasted time and energy as the only thing you can be sure of is that they weren't ultimately interested in meeting you. They'll have reasons but we can't know.
If you're honest, you can just continue on to look for others |
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