![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Hi
Not my first profile but even before I’ve always found it hard to get attention to my profile. Idk if it’s my profile or just the area I’m from.
Any suggestions will be great ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
You're in a sea of thousands of other men. Good advice re trying clubs, although some are selective regarding membership and some have waiting lists so try more than one or two |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"You're in a sea of thousands of other men. Good advice re trying clubs, although some are selective regarding membership and some have waiting lists so try more than one or two"
Very true thought i would try and get started on here before clubs etc! But might have to look into it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"You're in a sea of thousands of other men. Good advice re trying clubs, although some are selective regarding membership and some have waiting lists so try more than one or two
Very true thought i would try and get started on here before clubs etc! But might have to look into it "
Might be quicker on here, in the current situation ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"You're in a sea of thousands of other men. Good advice re trying clubs, although some are selective regarding membership and some have waiting lists so try more than one or two
Very true thought i would try and get started on here before clubs etc! But might have to look into it "
I would never recommend the club scene for a single guy. Use this lockdown period to find genuine, potential matches in here, as everyone is sat at home right now, looking at profiles, chatting shit in the forums, and swapping messages
Would you really meet a 99 year old woman? Be realistic about your search range. Think about what you are genuinely looking for, and concentrate on those criteria. If you’re moving around the country with your work, your preferred search goes with you, just remember to alter your postcode to wherever you’re stationed.
Don’t be afraid to use your block button! Cut out everyone you either don’t match what they’re looking for, or those who you’re not attracted to.
Be yourself. Don’t try to impress, or say what you think the other person wants to hear, just say it as you see it. ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi
Not my first profile but even before I’ve always found it hard to get attention to my profile. Idk if it’s my profile or just the area I’m from.
Any suggestions will be great "
Get off to the clubs once it's safe to do so ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I personally don't like your profile name and too young for me
Profile content, very generic, casting your net wide doesn't mean you'll get what your after.
Explain why you can't accommodate, if your in the forces, that's something of interest and a conversation opener.
Use that you can't meet as the perfect way to get to know potential people, not just talking sex, because that becomes boring. Get to know them, you have a better time when you do and probably better intimacy. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic