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"Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had?" How about you Steven?? Just the one official partner now? | |||
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"It’s nobody’s business but mine " | |||
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"It’s nobody’s business but mine "No need to get arsey about it! | |||
"Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had?" At the same time, it in total? | |||
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"It’s nobody’s business but mine
No need to get arsey about it!"Not arsey at all ... to the point | |||
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"I hate the fact I've been with 14 different people. In my opinion that's gross but when you're single you have no choice I guess." can I query why you think 14 is bad??? | |||
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"I will add, numbers don’t really bear any significance when you’re talking to open minded and sexually liberated people. I actually prefer someone who’s similar to me, but have nothing against and don’t form any judgement of people who’ve had far more or far fewer" that's refreshing.. a lot do. For me if a man has had a lot of ladies then I think great x | |||
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"I will add, numbers don’t really bear any significance when you’re talking to open minded and sexually liberated people. I actually prefer someone who’s similar to me, but have nothing against and don’t form any judgement of people who’ve had far more or far fewer" I agree completely. My number does not phase me ans if people are intimidated/put off by it then they are not for me anyway. I love the club scene and regularly visit them, and always play when I do do | |||
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"I will add, numbers don’t really bear any significance when you’re talking to open minded and sexually liberated people. I actually prefer someone who’s similar to me, but have nothing against and don’t form any judgement of people who’ve had far more or far fewer I agree completely. My number does not phase me ans if people are intimidated/put off by it then they are not for me anyway. I love the club scene and regularly visit them, and always play when I do do" Totally agree | |||
"I will add, numbers don’t really bear any significance when you’re talking to open minded and sexually liberated people. I actually prefer someone who’s similar to me, but have nothing against and don’t form any judgement of people who’ve had far more or far fewer I agree completely. My number does not phase me ans if people are intimidated/put off by it then they are not for me anyway. I love the club scene and regularly visit them, and always play when I do do" Very true x | |||
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"I will add, numbers don’t really bear any significance when you’re talking to open minded and sexually liberated people. I actually prefer someone who’s similar to me, but have nothing against and don’t form any judgement of people who’ve had far more or far fewer I agree completely. My number does not phase me ans if people are intimidated/put off by it then they are not for me anyway. I love the club scene and regularly visit them, and always play when I do do Very true x " Well, this is the thing and I’m not devaluing add itself. It’s a special thing and something you’d only really share with people you’re attracted to or if the moment takes you, you might be less picky. At the end of the day, sex is great. It’s intense, interesting, enlightening, and ultimately really good fun. Why wouldn’t you just go with what you want to do rather than judging yourself by the morals wider society has thrust upon us? In a way, I feel a little sorry for people who judge us for having higher numbers. I even think there’s a little jealousy in some cases. | |||
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"Lost track....is that bad?? Makes me sound a man slag" It's what we are here for. It makes you a successful swinger  | |||
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"Lost track....is that bad?? Makes me sound a man slag It's what we are here for. It makes you a successful swinger "Was innocent until finding fab about 10 years ago | |||
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"Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had?" Not enough. | |||
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"Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had? Not enough. " same xx | |||
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"30 give or take. " Well now, if you're counting giving and taking separately from giving or taking... | |||
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"Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had?" 1,000,000 | |||
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"Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had?" "Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had?" By the time I realised that how many mattered to other people, I'd forgotten how many I'd already had... You know the problem with your question? Some people, more often than not male, woll overstate their numebrs, to prove how successful they are at the mating / dating game. Some people, more often than not female, may understate their numbers, because there are stll people who use pejorative language about women whose sexual activities they don't approve of. A mate who's a GP reckons when he's asking people how many drinks a week they have, he's actually listening for how long it takes them to answer, and how precisely they answer, rather than what they answer. So, here's a clue. If I answered 528 to your question, you'd be well advised to either assume a) that I'm bullshitting, (because nobody's that accurate over three or four decades of sexual activity) or b) that I'm the kind of person who documents every sex act, which may or may not be an attractive personality trait. So why does it matter to you how many times I've had sex? Here's another way of looking at it. There have been times in my life when I was having as much sex as I could manage. Not all of it was the best sex I've ever had, and sometimes, I wasn't the best person I could want to be. There's nothing eceptional about that. Now, partly thanks to lockdown, partly thanks to jobs I love, I'm not having as much sex as I would like. However, when it does happen, I'm confident I'll be the best sexual partner I can be. If that doesn't help, you may want to ask yourself why. Asking us about our sex lives may not be the best guide to your sex life you can get. Mr Icebreaker | |||
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"Must be 500+, 20 years a regular at gay saunas the length and breadth of the country "More sausage rolls than Greggs the bakers | |||
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"Lost count, but more than 100 less than 200" About the same for me... | |||
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"Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had?" How many have YOU had?! | |||
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"At a guess 150-200 " Well done | |||
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"Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had?"Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had?" By the time I realised that how many mattered to other people, I'd forgotten how many I'd already had... You know the problem with your question? Some people, more often than not male, woll overstate their numebrs, to prove how successful they are at the mating / dating game. Some people, more often than not female, may understate their numbers, because there are stll people who use pejorative language about women whose sexual activities they don't approve of. A mate who's a GP reckons when he's asking people how many drinks a week they have, he's actually listening for how long it takes them to answer, and how precisely they answer, rather than what they answer. So, here's a clue. If I answered 528 to your question, you'd be well advised to either assume a) that I'm bullshitting, (because nobody's that accurate over three or four decades of sexual activity) or b) that I'm the kind of person who documents every sex act, which may or may not be an attractive personality trait. So why does it matter to you how many times I've had sex? Here's another way of looking at it. There have been times in my life when I was having as much sex as I could manage. Not all of it was the best sex I've ever had, and sometimes, I wasn't the best person I could want to be. There's nothing eceptional about that. Now, partly thanks to lockdown, partly thanks to jobs I love, I'm not having as much sex as I would like. However, when it does happen, I'm confident I'll be the best sexual partner I can be. If that doesn't help, you may want to ask yourself why. Asking us about our sex lives may not be the best guide to your sex life you can get. Mr Icebreaker" It's a light hearted conversation starter not the census... Lighten up | |||
"I hate the fact I've been with 14 different people. In my opinion that's gross but when you're single you have no choice I guess." So why are on a swingers site? | |||
"Roughly 5,432" | |||
"Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had? How many have YOU had?! " Read post #4 | |||
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"Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had?" Quite a few less than after the gangbang I will have when this virus is gone and forgotten | |||
"I hate the fact I've been with 14 different people. In my opinion that's gross but when you're single you have no choice I guess. So why are on a swingers site? " Because there is always some self rightious person wanting to save you from a life of sin & damnation. | |||
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"I hate the fact I've been with 14 different people. In my opinion that's gross but when you're single you have no choice I guess. So why are on a swingers site? Because there is always some self rightious person wanting to save you from a life of sin & damnation." Bit late for that I think | |||
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"I do not keep count." Best answer to this question.. Enjoy this life/lifestyle with whoever you want, just be safe and sensible. | |||
"I have a rough idea... although recently the number of new people has dropped as tends to be regular faces.. but newbies at clubs still keep it going.. I'd say at least 5 new people a week for the past 20plus years would be a reasonable estimate " People don’t always get clubs. Cinemas and dogging over 10/20 years lol. Thank god Hollie has kindred spirits out there! Last reckoning and by far only a reckoning loads and loads lol. We love it. | |||
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Mrs N is in front of me though. | |||
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"Just curious to find out how many different sex partners you've all had? 1,000,000" I ve told you one hundred thousand billion times I never exagerate. Quite shocked to see how many post tiny numbers for a swing site how quaint | |||
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"It's odd why some are reluctant to say , its refreshing when people open up a little "Agreed. It's not like people should worry about being judged, this is a sex site we are all mainly here to fuck other people lol | |||
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When the next one will be though is anybody's guess.  | |||
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"I (Mr) tried to remember all of mine going right back to the first ever. I got to around 150 but there will have been some that I forgot and I've have had a few more since then. Mrs H is probably running at around 500 in total. Her best single day was a 9 (twice) and once in Cap d'Agde she managed 13 in just over 24 hours spread over 2 days. However those numbers are just for full sex. If we counted every blow job, licking session and other soft swing playing then the numbers could quite easily double.
When the next one will be though is anybody's guess. "That's impressive, I have had a recount and including a year at an escort agency and weeks at Cap I am just short of 500 I think | |||
"For all the guys who're saying they're into the hundreds, escorts don't really count "I’ve had two Escorts, but sold the last for a Seat Leon Cupra R | |||
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"For all the guys who're saying they're into the hundreds, escorts don't really count "My ex had been with hundereds through swinging and clubs. Easily done over the years. Escorts still count too, still another human you have had sex with, paid or not | |||
"It's odd why some are reluctant to say , its refreshing when people open up a little
Agreed. It's not like people should worry about being judged, this is a sex site we are all mainly here to fuck other people lol"Couldn’t care less about being judged ... it’s just not anybody’s business ha ha | |||
"For all the guys who're saying they're into the hundreds, escorts don't really count "Yes but a Mk 2 RS 2000 counts double. | |||
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"At a guess 150-200 " I find this very hot. | |||
