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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Patience....
U have been on 2 weeks.... It can take months to get to know peeps n get anywhere..
This is a swinging site.... Not a sex site..."
On a more positive note.....
Try some social events in ur area...
Use ur profile to attract people... With humour... Decent pics....
Get to know people and not expect them to just want to jump into bed with them. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
Get rid of the cock pic next to the Fossies glass.....take off the disclaimer, pad your profile out a bit, have a look at some of the prolific forum posters profile's, check out the 1,237,847 other threads asking for profile advice, say why you can't accom (eg if you're in army barracks)....to some folk can't accom = cheat, make sure all of your pics are right way round (I hate having to cock my head or turn the lappie on its side)...maybe put something on your profile along the lines of "If I wink at you, it means I like your profile, wink back if you think I've a chance" - I don't ever respond to winks unless I see something like that on a guys profile and I like what I see/read, I'll wink back see if he then messages me to prove he's read my profile.....
Above all, PATIENCE, you will only get quick meets if you have a pussy and pair of tits (it took me 3 hours to get a meet which I thought was a fairly long time when I joined) 
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Understand that women probably out number men on this site (real women anyway) about 8 to 1.
Realise that cock pics are not an actual turn on to female folk and plastering your page with them wont help you.
Try and edit your profile, make it interesting witty or tell us something about you.
READ peoples profiles and send them messages that fill their requirements.
lastly understand that there are a million men out there and it will take time to get a meet.
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"Patience....
U have been on 2 weeks.... It can take months to get to know peeps n get anywhere..
This is a swinging site.... Not a sex site..."
this ^^^^^
by the way the warning is pointless, but amusing when a single man cut and pastes it without even changing our to my  |
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"What have I got to do to get to meet someone on here?!? No one seems to reply to any messages  "
If I get a message from a man with a cock pic as an avatar I delete without reading...just a thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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get rid of this bit University and all other institutions using this site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action. it meens nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell me about it, u can post pics have verifications and still nothing just matter of wading threw the countless time wasters for the odd gems but they worth it the odd 1 u find |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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Without looking at the OP's profile, be patient - depending on what you're looking for remember that 99% of people have real lives outside the site and are not "on standby" waiting to jump into bed with the first person that emails.
As such, it can take time: personal experience, 1 year (but all good things come to those who are prepared to work for it). 2 weeks is (IMHO) too soon to complain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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be patient and two weeks, two months even isnt enough. Get to know people, use forums, chatrooms be polite, maybe even go to a social event... ladies ain't robots they want lovely people to meet not just a guy with a willy,.. swinging isn't like just messaging someone and getting a feck in 5 mins ... just enjoy the ladies and patience, understanding go a long way, good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without looking at the OP's profile, be patient - depending on what you're looking for remember that 99% of people have real lives outside the site and are not "on standby" waiting to jump into bed with the first person that emails.
As such, it can take time: personal experience, 1 year (but all good things come to those who are prepared to work for it). 2 weeks is (IMHO) too soon to complain."
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