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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has this/is this anyone's fantasy?
I think that for a woman who genuinely wants a child, it's a big turn on for me (obviously being tested before it happens).
What are your thoughts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has this/is this anyone's fantasy?
I think that for a woman who genuinely wants a child, it's a big turn on for me (obviously being tested before it happens).
What are your thoughts?"
To me it just dont sit right....dont like it...
each to thier own thou |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Has this/is this anyone's fantasy?
I think that for a woman who genuinely wants a child, it's a big turn on for me (obviously being tested before it happens).
What are your thoughts?"
I think a child shouldn't be brought into this world on the back a kink,
If it is a fantasy only and no baby being born, I don't see anything wrong with it if all adults agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has this/is this anyone's fantasy?
I think that for a woman who genuinely wants a child, it's a big turn on for me (obviously being tested before it happens).
What are your thoughts?
I think a child shouldn't be brought into this world on the back a kink,
If it is a fantasy only and no baby being born, I don't see anything wrong with it if all adults agree."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As i have said on every other breeding thread...
I find the thought of conception been taken so lightly and for someone's 'horny/kinky' needs disgusting and disrespectful to human life!
kat
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As i have said on every other breeding thread...
I find the thought of conception been taken so lightly and for someone's 'horny/kinky' needs disgusting and disrespectful to human life!
kat
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So a single women, happy single and able to take care of the child, or even a couple with a sterile male, shouldn't be able to make the choice to have a child in this way, simply because it's a kink of the additional male?
Without knowing the entire situation, it's pretty disrespectful to logic, reasoning and simply myself to make such severe judgements.
Thanks for the link to the other thread.
I haven't experienced the forums properly yet so wasn't aware of other threads, plus I'm on my phone. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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It isn't a problem, you can start threads with whatever subject you want even if they have been covered before ( within rules of course )
The only time it will be a problem is if there are a couple started at the same time, then one is normally shut.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As i have said on every other breeding thread...
I find the thought of conception been taken so lightly and for someone's 'horny/kinky' needs disgusting and disrespectful to human life!
kat
So a single women, happy single and able to take care of the child, or even a couple with a sterile male, shouldn't be able to make the choice to have a child in this way, simply because it's a kink of the additional male?
Without knowing the entire situation, it's pretty disrespectful to logic, reasoning and simply myself to make such severe judgements.
Thanks for the link to the other thread.
I haven't experienced the forums properly yet so wasn't aware of other threads, plus I'm on my phone."
Ok answer me this...
Said child, 15 years down the line asks mummy, who is my dad? Where do you meet?
How is said child going to cope with the truth.
Other things to consider....
Are you going to contribute to the child's up bring, emotionally financialy etc...
What about YOUR responsibility to YOUR child, how do you know the woman/cpl you do this with are suitable to be parents?
I could go on and on why its a irresponsible and selfish thing to do.
Kat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As i have said on every other breeding thread...
I find the thought of conception been taken so lightly and for someone's 'horny/kinky' needs disgusting and disrespectful to human life!
kat
So a single women, happy single and able to take care of the child, or even a couple with a sterile male, shouldn't be able to make the choice to have a child in this way, simply because it's a kink of the additional male?
Without knowing the entire situation, it's pretty disrespectful to logic, reasoning and simply myself to make such severe judgements.
Thanks for the link to the other thread.
I haven't experienced the forums properly yet so wasn't aware of other threads, plus I'm on my phone.
Ok answer me this...
Said child, 15 years down the line asks mummy, who is my dad? Where do you meet?
How is said child going to cope with the truth.
Other things to consider....
Are you going to contribute to the child's up bring, emotionally financialy etc...
What about YOUR responsibility to YOUR child, how do you know the woman/cpl you do this with are suitable to be parents?
I could go on and on why its a irresponsible and selfish thing to do.
Kat"
How is it any different to adoption or surrogate parents?
There are no restrictions on regular couples having children based upon the types of parents they are likely to be (maybe there should be similar ones to adoption, but there currently are none). So the argument of whether or not this type of parent is suitable is irrelevant as an argument against it.
People seem to bitch about the negatives but so many people could rip into the concept of swinging. Many would say that it was, as you put things, "disgusting and disrespectful" to the concept of marriage.
If the situation, within lawful reason, is what the individual(s) choose, who can justified in ripping into their choices with the intention of making them feel bad about it?
Concerning the child; if it was a single mother (single by choice) it would be her choice what she tells the child. If it was the couple, there is absolutely no need what-so-ever for the child to ever be told.
Feel free to make a response, I won't be responding. I find myself actually offended by how selectively narrow minded you are.
I wish you the best. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, I apologise. Bitching was probably not the right word.
I was reading the thread that was sent to me and the guy seemed to be simply being picked on at one point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting sociobiological separation here. Female breeding strategy requires a lot more input so is taken (for want of a better expression) "more seriously". Male "kink" is actually the urge to procreate writ too large for our cultural norms. Fascinating stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To save my time take a read of this thread, I and many more have expressed numerous reasons as to why its a bad idea...
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/88361
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"As i have said on every other breeding thread...
I find the thought of conception been taken so lightly and for someone's 'horny/kinky' needs disgusting and disrespectful to human life!
kat
So a single women, happy single and able to take care of the child, or even a couple with a sterile male, shouldn't be able to make the choice to have a child in this way, simply because it's a kink of the additional male?
Without knowing the entire situation, it's pretty disrespectful to logic, reasoning and simply myself to make such severe judgements.
Thanks for the link to the other thread.
I haven't experienced the forums properly yet so wasn't aware of other threads, plus I'm on my phone.
Ok answer me this...
Said child, 15 years down the line asks mummy, who is my dad? Where do you meet?
How is said child going to cope with the truth.
Other things to consider....
Are you going to contribute to the child's up bring, emotionally financialy etc...
What about YOUR responsibility to YOUR child, how do you know the woman/cpl you do this with are suitable to be parents?
I could go on and on why its a irresponsible and selfish thing to do.
Kat
How is it any different to adoption or surrogate parents?
There are no restrictions on regular couples having children based upon the types of parents they are likely to be (maybe there should be similar ones to adoption, but there currently are none). So the argument of whether or not this type of parent is suitable is irrelevant as an argument against it.
People seem to bitch about the negatives but so many people could rip into the concept of swinging. Many would say that it was, as you put things, "disgusting and disrespectful" to the concept of marriage.
If the situation, within lawful reason, is what the individual(s) choose, who can justified in ripping into their choices with the intention of making them feel bad about it?
Concerning the child; if it was a single mother (single by choice) it would be her choice what she tells the child. If it was the couple, there is absolutely no need what-so-ever for the child to ever be told.
Feel free to make a response, I won't be responding. I find myself actually offended by how selectively narrow minded you are.
I wish you the best."
I don't understand your argument. An adoptive child knows they were "chosen" and can trace their biological parents should they wish.
The same with surrogacy.
The thing is these situations are "regulated" everyone knows where they are, and in my view couples don't take that route lightly.
As a mother I can't begin to understand breeding as a kink. It's abhorrent to me. I struggle to understand how any sane person would think bringing a child into the world under such circumstances is a good idea.
That's my opinion op, as asked on an open forum. If you didn't want opinions different from your own you shouldn't have asked!  |
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Is cali on holiday 
Op, its a fantasy some share, others dont, personally i think its not a good way to concieve, families can be of any structure people want but having a child to fufill a sexual fantasy seems a step to far even for me...
That said i love bdsm breeding stories...(they tend to be non consent) go figure  |
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By *unstuffMan
over a year ago
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"Has this/is this anyone's fantasy?
I think that for a woman who genuinely wants a child, it's a big turn on for me (obviously being tested before it happens).
What are your thoughts?"
I feel the term "being bred" is not for the vast majority meant in a literal way. More so in a Dom/Sub way or cuckolding.. having the wife of the cuck bred by guys, ie cuming inside her.
The idea, or more to the point, fantasy of a women or couple actually wanting to have children with a complete stranger after engaging in a so called breeding session I would like to think is just that, A fantasy..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like it when people trawling for sordid sex with strangers on the internet start debating morals, makes for good reading  "
Are you implying that because we are swingers that we have no morals?
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I like it when people trawling for sordid sex with strangers on the internet start debating morals, makes for good reading "
Hmmmm I am guessing most people still have morals, wether they indulge in sex with strangers or not. |
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By *unstuffMan
over a year ago
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"I like it when people trawling for sordid sex with strangers on the internet start debating morals, makes for good reading
Are you implying that because we are swingers that we have no morals?
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Touché....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As i have said on every other breeding thread...
I find the thought of conception been taken so lightly and for someone's 'horny/kinky' needs disgusting and disrespectful to human life!
kat
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couldnt have put it better! this discusts me  auds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like it when people trawling for sordid sex with strangers on the internet start debating morals, makes for good reading
Are you implying that because we are swingers that we have no morals?
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There are many non swingers out there whom would find what swingers do as totally abhorrent, disgusting and immoral.......just as there are many swingers whom find the idea of 'breeding' totally abhorrent, disgusting and immoral.
I'm not calling anybody for lack of morals, I'm simply enjoying how easily people resort to base judgement of others so easily. I'm very very sure that if somebody attacked their (the swinger) opinion that sleeping with multiple strangers online and indulging in rampant promiscuity is totally OK then they would be suitably outraged.
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By (user no longer on site)
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No i wouldn't be outraged i am fully aware of what some none swingers will think of my lifestyle.
The big difference is that innocent helpless children are not part of my lifestyle.
With breeding they are!
Kat x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not something that turns us on, the thought of getting pregnant by a stranger and the lifelong reprecussions scares the shit out of me tbh.
However, it takes all sorts in life, and would never judge others because "breeding" is their thing. |
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"I like it when people trawling for sordid sex with strangers on the internet start debating morals, makes for good reading "
Sordid... 
Why do you believe swingers leave theri morals at the door....says far more about you then the people who use this site and are able to have nsa sex whilst holding onto their values.
If you have such problems with nsa sex...i suggest counselling, you are clearly conflicted very deeply about being here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No i wouldn't be outraged i am fully aware of what some none swingers will think of my lifestyle.
The big difference is that innocent helpless children are not part of my lifestyle.
With breeding they are!
Kat x x"
totally agrees...again! Gosh this is brill not having to write anything lol.x well done mrs x |
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