where would we start ?
both me and my wife would love a throuple. a 3rd party female to join our life.
but don't know where to find one.
our children have now left home.
and for many years we have discussed the idea of my wife having a female friend and me also. and eventually came up with a 3 way relationship as a perfect solution.
it's a bit tricky because we live in tenerife, and it's a small place with a small swinging scene.
We are both at good stages of our life. both gym lovers. have good businesses. a nice home with spare rooms. and feel if we don't try this now. we never will.
How do we go about it, without looking like creeps. ie. if I meet someone and try to introduce them into it. its weird. and the same for my wife.
so want someone who knows about things first. |
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i met a couple from thr states and they had a relationship like that but wanted a child out of it but dont think it worked out to well the other lady wanted to much from it . but different strokes for different folks . Put it out there on fab but i would say have something written down stating how the relationship would work and how money and bills etc would work . it would be a very big deal for a new lady moving in .. |
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yeah I can see it wouldn't be easy.
and children wouldn't be an option. been there done that.
and it wouldn't be move straight in sort of thing. there has to be compatibility.
this used to be a couples profile.
as my wife lost interest for a while. I kept it on as a single profile.
what she doesn't like is the one off thing. she would rather get to know someone personally before we jump into bed with them. |
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You might get better/more advice if this was moved in the swinging support and advice forum rather than stories and fantasies.
This forum seems to be mostly people posting "phone wank now" threads.;-)
If you ask the mods I think they can move it. |
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