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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When we met each other I guess we are what is considered a rare thing in that we were both virgins.
It was 1989 I was 22 and she had turned 19 when I met her through the place we both worked at. I was a general stores person she was a office clerk.I was struck by her red hair long and permed as was the fashion then. When she came out into the stores area I became aware of her well proportioned chest. I was still shy of making conversation. Each morning I had to make deliveries around the hospital we worked at. I started to see her walking to work and would toot the van horn and wave to her. Over time I progressed to making a light heartened remark about being late to work.
One day I was driving around I saw her leave work I plucked up the courage to ask her if she needed a lift anywhere. She took me up on my offer and I dropped her at a hairdressers. I then bite the bullet and asked her out for a drink. She accepted and the rest is boring but we dated and married had kids etc and 26yrs later still together.
However we were both virgins and apart from one brief liaison with another couple we have been each others only sexual partner. It was made very clear from day one that her giving me oral was out of the question. In our early days when dating we would end up back at her parents house and have sex. It was good back then she would wear stocking and suspenders and I was always allowed to cum in her.
As married life has progressed sex has become routine and dull. I had a sex relationship with a woman from another web site who would give me oral who would want more then just a fuck and expected a repeat.
I decided to try something different and researched about sex life improvements for married couples. All the usual stuff came up about letting her know you love her and making effort in the house which I had always done. It led me to a sex forum site with others giving tips and advice on relationships.
Someone said that they had gone as a couple to seek sex counseling where they sat in different rooms and spoke about sex the frustrations feelings and thoughts. I sent the poster a message asking them to give more details about this. We spoke at length via private messages and I asked if maybe we could speak in person face to face about this. I was curious about this and wanted to know more.
The person was willing to meet and we met at an agreed location as they lived in the same city as me. We spoke at length and I learned that this counseling had helped him and his wife no end and their sex life was very full as he put it with his wife now doing things he had always dreamed of. I was giving a phone number and a web site to look at this counseling service. We parted and I said I would let him know of the progress if any was made.
It was after another disappointing night in bed with my wife that I finally said that maybe we should seek some help with our problems. Naturally she said we didnt need any help and everything was fine as it was. I left it at that and went to sleep. We didnt get chance to speak without interruptions for a day or 2 but again I brought the subject up and went on to explain my frustrations and how I felt like I would slip in to the world of an affair. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It took a lot to convince her that we should try it but in the end she agreed to give it a try.
I made us an appointment to visit it was in the better part of town where the houses were of the old Victorian type.
I pressed the intercom and we went in to be greeted by a couple who were in their 50's nothing special just your average couple you pass on the street.
We went in to a large room with comfy sofas on them and sat down. The couple sat down opposite us on the other sofa. They introduced themselves as Dan and Karen. We were asked a few questions about our relationship how long had we been together how many previous partners. They asked us what we hoped to gain from this. I explained that I felt we need some help in the bedroom as we knew we loved each other but were finding it hard to bring each other as much pleasure.
Dan suggested that maybe we should split up and my wife talk to Karen and me to Dan and then swap over to hear it again.
My wife Jayne left with Karen to talk in another room leaving me with Dan.
He just said to tell him about our sex life. |
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I started to tell him about our sex life saying we were both virgins when we met and apart from one liaison with another couple we were still each others only partners.
I said how it was made clear that oral from Jayne was never an option which I accepted but did say that I was disappointed. He asked why , I explained that she wont even kiss my cock to excite me. I explained that bum fun was an occasional offer but no penetration just a kiss down her bum crack and if I was lucky I could rim her for a few seconds before I was told to stop but she did enjoy me wanking and coming over her ass.
He asked was I interested in anal sex which I said no not really I enjoyed kissing and rimming but anal didnt do anything for me.
He asked me about oral I said that Jayne said she didnt like to put thing s in her mouth I said she had told me early on that she feared she would gag I never pushed her but I would often ask for kisses on my cock during sex. |
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We had sat there for best part of an hour before Karen and Jayne walked back. Karen and Dan compared notes about our conversations. Then Karen turned to us both. We want to help you both its a rare thing to find a married couple who were both virgins she said. You two both love each other very much but you have lost the way in bringing each other to full enjoyment she said. We want the pair of you to try something she continued.
To learn to understand each other you need to start from the beginning again and learn about each other find each others turn on's touch and kiss each other but you both must restrain from having sex with each other. But you can only bring each other to full orgasm after kissing and cuddling for 1hr. Do you both agree to try this she asked. You must practise this together for one month with no sexual intercourse.
We left having agreed to this and went back home to our life. I asked Jayne what she had said to Karen she just said that they talked about girlie stuff and that and didnt say much more.
Back home and the rest of the day spent doing stuff and I was on a late shift and Jayne asleep by the time I came home so no follow up that night I thought. |
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I turned on the shower got in and let work wash out of me. I let my hands wander and started to play with myself. My cock responded to my attention and with the shower water started to have a leisurely wank. Next thing I know is the door to the bathroom opens Jayne walks in and sits on the toilet for a wee. She looks over at me with my cock standing hard. Dont waste that she says come to bed with me, I thought you was asleep I said. I was waiting for you but dropped off but I'm awake now so hurry up.
I didnt need prompting I quickly rinsed off and got out and dried myself off. I walked in to the bedroom and went to my draw to put on my boxer shorts. Dont bother with them just come in her she said. In the bed and Jayne pushed back into me for a cuddle my hands naturally found her tits and started to play with them. She has never had a high sex drive once or twice a week if I'm lucky has been the norm so I was just enjoying it tonight. As I played with her tits teasing her nipples she pushes her bum more back at my cock but keeps her legs firmly closed after a few mins of this she pulls my hand off her and rolls over on to her back she tells me to kiss her nipples and suck them again a rare thing as she usually only lets me kiss them quickly. I lower my mouth over her nipples and suck on each one in turn rolling my tongue around them then pulling off to kiss each one in turn. I get both her tits and push then gently together and kiss them all over and down her cleavage I see the redness appear on her chest so I know she is getting turned on I move to kiss her our lips meet and for the first time in many years there is a passion in her kiss my cock is poking between her legs but she still has them firmly shut as we lay together enjoying a long kiss.My hand meanwhile is playing with her nipples pinching them and lightly pulling on them.
Our kiss breaks she tells me to lay down and watch her. She lets her hands move down between her legs she parts them I see her pussy pouting at me her fingers slide either side of her sex she rubs gently down each side then pulls her lips together and rubs across her pussy and upwards over her clit she repeats this several times occasionally slipping a finger just inside to help spread her moisture around her lips.I move position and lay between her legs looking directly up at her pussy my head is inches away from her and I can almost taste her from here. I stretch my neck forward and begin to kiss her lips sucking each one into my mouth her fingers now just rubbing on her clit. I'm expecting to be pushed off anytime soon as she reaches her own climax but she doesnt tonight and allows me to stay there sucking and kissing her lips as she wriggle in the bed I have to hold on to her legs to keep kissing her as she has her orgasm my face is getting covered in her cum. Finally she pushes me off and lays there moaning softly saying how sensitive she is now and enjoyed that.
My cock is still wanting its own attention I kneel up and go to position myself between her legs to wank off over her pussy as per normal.But again she tells me to lay there as she wants to pleasure me. |
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She gets up and rolls on top of me and sits with her legs on mine. Her hands come up on to my chest and start to play with my nipples.She leans forwards and kisses each one I raise my knees in an effort to shift her froward so my cock can find her pussy but she isnt allowing me.Instead she gets herself in a position so she lowers her tits down over my cock and teases it with them dragging them over it.This is repeated several times then she pushes them together trapping my hard cock between them. She tries to wank my cock between them and does manage it a bit but says she is comfortable that way. I suggest she sits on the edge of the bed I get out and stand in front of her I start wanking my self aiming it at her cleavage she leans forward so they hang. I have to say one of the first things that caught my eye with her was her busty tits when she was 19 back then she was a good sexy 34 dd. Now years later she has grown to a 36 g. They do sag a little but for her age of 48 they would turn any mans head.
As I'm wanking she is talking to me telling me to cum over her I want to feel your hot sticky cum over me lots of dirty talk from her.I can feel my own orgasm building and soon I shot my cum over and between her tits. She takes hold of her tits and slides them over my cock rubbing my cum between them and milking me until I've finished.
I look at her and tell her I love it when you get this naughty in bed this is was the best night for some time.
I enjoyed it as well she said but I need a shower now to clean my girls up . She gets in the shower and I have a cheeky thought and go and join her. Oi cheeky she says cant I have a wash. Only if I can help you I said I made them messy so I should help you clean up. I get the shower gel rub it in my hands and then wash her tits off. She turns so her back is to me my cock regaining its life rises and slips between her legs with my hands playing and washing her tits. I can kiss her neck and give her soft sexy kisses the water and soap wash over us both and makes my cock slippery which slides between her legs .She pushes back and I grab her hips to try to position myself to fuck her from behind. But she pulls back and says you know the rule you cant put that in me for a month. Now come on get out you've had your fun tonight time for bed. |
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It seemed to be a long month sure we had had that good night in bed and we had a few more times where we spent time cuddling kissing and making each other cum but no full on sex.
We met Karen and Dan again for a follow up this time we all sat together. They asked us how we got on we explained what fun we had that night after our first meeting with them. They asked us what we thought the next step would be. I said to make love with each other. Jayne said she thought it maybe that as well.
Karen said that in the first session Jayne had mentioned you would ask for oral and that she would decline as she said she didnt like taking you in her mouth.
I said I have always said to her I wont cum in her mouth I just want some attention from her mouth even if it was just a few kisses while playing.
Karen turned to Jayne to ask her would she try that. Jayne's reply disappointed me as she said she just didnt like the idea of it. She was asked as to why the reply is what I've had before she just couldnt kiss it because I also peed from it. It was explained to her that I would wash before expecting any kind of oral but she wouldnt budge on her notion of it being dirty.
Karen at this point said to Jayne lets go talk in the other room and they went off leaving Dan and myself.
He asked me something which I kind of knew in my head. He said you are rather submissive when it comes to sex you let Jayne take control of what you are and are not allowed.
I admitted that I do submit to her and allow her to dictate what goes on in the bedroom. He asked do I enjoy it. Yes if it means I get to have sex with her.
Meanwhile in the other room Jayne and Karen were talking through the issue of oral ( this what I was told by Jayne) She said that Karen had talked her through the anatomy of a mans cock and yes he does pee out of it but when hard he cant really pee and if washed its clean and posses no health risk at all. She also suggested that Jayne practice to suck on things getting used to the idea of something in her mouth. Jayne again expressed her doubt in doing this but Karen said she knew of ways to help. First she produced a box of chocolate matchsticks. Jayne said she found this amusing but Karen said to take it but dont bite just place it in your mouth Jayne did then as instructed started to slide it in and out. Of course it soon melted and Jayne being a woman and chocolate ate it. Karen told Jayne to go home and practice sucking on things getting bigger each time until she got to a banana.
Meanwhile I was asked by Dan to practise edging and again no full on sex this month again but I must bring myself to near full climax for 1hr before I'm allowed to cum. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Blimey I thought to myself another month of not being able to fuck her. I just hoped that all of this might lead us to something better then what we have had.
I started to practise edging excuse the pun but I found it hard at first. Ok I could wank no problem and looking at my favorite porn was always a help but trying to stop in time was tricky at first but after a week I got the hang of it and by the end of the month I had built myself up to 45 mins. Jayne meanwhile found it funny to sit down in the evening when it was quiet with a banana and tease me with it peeling it back and looking at me putting the tip in her mouth then out and saying you wish this was you dont you.I said I hope it is one day and not too far away either.She said a banana was one thing but still not sure about going down on me. We would still have sexy times in bed occasionally a tit wank but a lot more kissing and cuddling then we used to have.
We had our third meeting with Karen and Dan this time it was Dan who went off with Jayne and I was with Karen. We were asked about fantasy's and did I have any I admitted I had the usual ones of 3 somes and some not so normal ones. Like what Karen asked. I would like to be pissed on I said we tried it once but Jayne isnt keen on it I've told her I have no desire to do it on her I just wish to have her pee on me. I've also said to her that I would like to be tied up in bed and for her to tease and use me in any way she wants to, I said I had mentioned pegging once to her but got a distinct urgghhh reply. |
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Jayne has never said what her conversation with Dan was about all I knew was this month we were allowed to have full on sex but only once I was told to restrain from self pleasure as well although Jayne could bring me relief.
Our sex life was showing signs of improvement Jayne would pleasure me with her tits a bit more.She had also taken to sitting on my face something I adored as she would sit facing me and with her back to me so my nose was almost in her ass. Occasionally I would be able to slide my tongue between her ass cheeks and tease her brown star which would make her cum even more.
It was on the second weekend that I was finally able to make love to Jayne and feel my cock in her pussy. We started the evening off with a lot of kissing and cuddling I got her body cream lotion and started to rub it gently into her. Paying lavish attention to her legs and thighs while she is led face down.I made sure that her bum cheeks were slippery enough then slide my cock down through them and back up again almost like a tit wank but using her ass instead. Oi cheeky she said you cant put that up there, I'm not I'm just enjoying your cheeks.I love the sensation and could easily cum doing that but I wanted to hold out for more. |
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I knew what I wanted and was dam sure Jayne wanted it aswell tonight. I turned her over and lavished my attention over her tits sucking each nipple and pulling them and softly pinching them. She has a belly of stretch marks that I adore kissing and always give her belly button attention too. Always working lower until I get to her pussy. She willingly spreads her legs for me tonight and I start to kiss her lips and suck on them. She tastes sweet between her legs my tongue easing past her lips and up to her clit which was standing out proudly tonight. Her hands pull me closer to her as she bucks about under my attention normally it would be now I'm pushed away but she doesnt tonight and I keep up kissing and sucking as best as you can with her bucking and twisting.It was a good job we had an empty house tonight as this was the first time ever she got vocal when having a orgasm. Not a yell or a scream just a long almost continuous. moan it was me who backed off first as much as I enjoy oral and the taste of her I need to get my cock inside of her. I aimed my cock at her lips and with a steady push my cock finds its self inside of her the feeling of heat from her washes down over me. I rest a second or two to savor the delight. Jayne just looks at me and says I want you to fuck me tonight I want to feel your fat hard cock. We did fuck that night and no 10 min quickie like normal we fucked for best part of an hour with me stopping to save myself from cumming too soon.Jayne wasnt content with laying or her back she wanted to take control too. Our wardrobes have mirrors on them ( love ikea furniture) Jayne wanted me to get to the edge of our bed and sit there she stood up and with her back to me lowered herself on to me she wtached my cock disappear inside of her her pussy lips kissing my shaft then clinging on to it as she rides back up then down again my hands were free to hold on to her tits as she rode me. Eventually I had to cum and with her in this position as she sat back down on me I held on to her telling her I have to cum now and let my cock spend its load deep inside of herHer fingers rub her clit as she enjoys another orgasm.
My cock begins to soften Jayne gets off me and lays down on the bed a happy look on her face and I see the signs of our fun starting to come back out. I knew I had to do this and have wanted to for a long time and I got down between her legs and kissed at the creampie that was on her lips. I wasnt pushed away she just lay there as if she was paralysed with enjoyment as I lick and clean her well fucked pussy up. No need for her to run off and clean up tonight its all done by me and we lay together and drift off in a post fuck sleep. |
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Bit busy today and tomorrow. Wil update soon. This has helped us loads. Bloody hard to type on a tablet as soon as I'm back at the pc more will follow. |
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Our sex life was improving but I still yearned to feel her mouth on my cock even just to kiss it and not suck it anything was better then nothing.
Another month and another session we talked about the night we fucked and made love even down to me cleaning up. Jayne agreed that she did enjoy me cleaning her up and she enjoyed using her tits to pleasure me. She was asked about kissing and going down on me she said it was partly down to trust and that she wasnt sure I could be trusted 100 % to not cum in her mouth or to use my hands to hold on it her head during oral.
This months lesson was to get Jayne to trust me and vice versa. As I had already said I wouldnt mind being tied up for Jayne to use me as she wished this would show my trust in her. Jayne and Karen went in to the other room for a short discussion and after this we left to carry on at home.
Jayne came on to me at home a very rare thing usually its down to me. She said she wanted to practise what we talked about today and tie me up and have fun together. I have a selection of ties associated with work and suggested we could use these I asked if she wanted just my hands tied or legs as well. She opted for legs as well saying she wanted for me to show total trust. I was willing.
So 3pm mid week afternoon I'm tied to the bed fully exposed to Jayne she starts off by standing beside the bed and dangling her tits in my face but away enough so I cant kiss them or her nipples she repeats this a number of times until she allows herself to go low enough so I can have my first treat I get to kiss her nipples she told me no sucking or its game over. My cock is hard enough with this teasing and Jayne just makes it worse by getting her tits over my cock dragging them down over it asking me how much I want to be wanked by them.
You know the answer I tell her and she allows herself to position my cock between them for a short wank by her. She then gets up and sits on me facing towards my feet her gorgeous ass pushes back to me kiss my bum she says I have no hesitation in getting my tongue in there. |
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I'm almost slobbering kisses all over her ass cheeks and down along her bum crack. Gradually I'm pushing my tongue further in to her cheeks and not meeting resistance. I cant use my hands to pull her cheeks apart but she is spread enough so I can just about start to rim her bum hole. It feels so hot an sexy my tongue touching it the skin to the touch of my tongue feel smooth I can feel every crinkle in it though the aroma of her sweaty bum teases my nose and just increases the strength in my erection I'm sure it grew an extra inch kissing and rimming her.I can feel a wetness on my chin not just from my kissing and teasing her pussy is leaking cum trickling down on to my chin.
I can feel her tits dangling over my cock teasing it she pulls the foreskin back and teases the head of my cock with each erect nipple. She adjust her position so she is almost led on me her knees support a little of her weight on me. Her tits squashed in to my stomach I feel her hand stroke me slowly she pushes the foreskin down almost to the point its painful she feels me tense slightly then relaxes her grip and repeats it again.
I cant see much as she has her pussy pressed almost in to my face and I can now lick at her lips covered in her cum.
Its then I feel it I almost missed it being busy between her legs but then it came again a very light kiss on my cock I can feel her lips touch me as she continues to use her hand to pull my foreskin back. Each time she kisses me her lips go a little further on my cock. Then with out warning it all stops she gets off me and walks out of the room. Whats wrong I ask, nothing is her reply I've just had an idea.I'm wondering what she has thought of I hear her footsteps on the stairs going down.I hear a kitchen cupboard open then shut. The footsteps return up and back in the room she comes.She goes to the foot of the bed and looks at me I've just thought of something that may help me she said. She is hiding something but cant see what I strain my head to look but its almost impossible. She gets back on the bed and sits across me facing the foot of the bed. I hear a bottle lid pop open then it closes. Next her hand takes hold of me again and strokes my cock then something is smeared on to it and around the head. It feels cool and its a liquid but not runny. You really want me to kiss and suck you dont you she asks. I would love it if you did I say you know I've always said I would never cum in your mouth I promise you that. Lay back and relax she says to me Karen suggested I try it this way she said it may help me to overcome my phobia of putting it in my mouth.
As she asked I lay back and await for the next thing to happen.There is the kiss on the end of my cock again its repeated several times each time going lower. Then I feel her tongue reach out and touch the tip of my cock.It was almost like an electric shock the enjoyment of the feeling on me. She keeps my foreskin pulled down but not so harshly this time. Her tongue runs over the head of my cock then I feel her mouth breath on me then suddenly she is lowering her mouth so my head is inside her.She then pulls back up and down slowly what ever she put on myself she is enjoying as she keeps repeating this motion her mouth now closed around the head of my cock her hand starts to stroke me again wanking me slowly while still sucking on the head of me.She kept this up for a few mins then pulls her head off me and says if I wank you will you cum for. You've made me happy of course I will I tell her.She starts a very fast wank of me stroking me and gripping me tightly her hands play with my balls she is telling how big and sexy they look telling me they look full of cum and to shoot my hot cum out of them. Her dirty talk never fails to get me going quickly she can feel my cock tense and twitch just before I cum. Oh yes she breaths heavily I can feel it let it cum for me. Then I do the first jet shot straight up and caught her in the face then came the final surprise for me as suddenly I feel her mouth back on my cock as the second and third jet of cum come out she is wanking me at the same time now. I'm just led there groaning away fuck fuck oh fuck I say she continues to wank me ensuring my cum is all spent from my balls.She then lets go of me dribbling my cum back out of her mouth on to my wilting cock.
She gets off and lays beside me for a cuddle she moves in to kiss its then that I can taste it on her lips my cum and the idea she had was strawberry sauce for the ice cream. Wow I say that was fantastic I've never felt so satisfied as I do now..
She explained that several of her talks with Karen had been about her reluctance to give oral.She said she had gotten over it with Karen's help by practising on larger things in her mouth. She said that last time around it was suggested that maybe putting something sweet on me would help her overcome the final hurdle.
Are you happy now went along to see them I asked. She said she was and was happy to have found Karen as she felt at ease in her company enough to talk openly to her about sex. She said most of her girly friends always shied away from the subject.
Do you think we still need their help I enquired, not so much help she said but talk and advice certainly. |
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