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to find out your hubby a crossdresser
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Wife loves having me dressed. Opened up a whole different side to us and made our relationship so much stronger as there are no secrets or lies or jealousy . And the sex is so much more fun . Just can't find other couples like us for meets |
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Love nothing better than wife telling me I need to dress up as she's arranged for her fuck buddy or a guy from fab to meet us. Has me suck there cock hard ready for her to join in and fuck them as I watch. |
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I found out over the years that many women don't have a good sense of humour in this department most men reluctantly do it in secret , I don't understand why they can't except the fact we enjoy it as much as they enjoy dressing up themselves  |
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My wife found my clothes too and while shocked was relieved it wasn't another woman but while she is understanding sadly it didn't open up another side of our relationship like you sadly. I would love her to help me with shopping etc let alone what sex things you do Mary!! lucky lucky husband |
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By *erri AnneTV/TS
over a year ago
Shannon and Costa Blanca |
"My wife found my clothes too and while shocked was relieved it wasn't another woman but while she is understanding sadly it didn't open up another side of our relationship like you sadly. I would love her to help me with shopping etc let alone what sex things you do Mary!! lucky lucky husband "
This is like me but unfortunately I still can't dress so sadly less a benefit so still in closet |
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over a year ago
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Mrs S and I are really comfortable with me dressed.We have dress up nights where we both dress and I serve drinks and cook.We have had meets with men with me dressed in lingerie.Next step will be me dressed and serving drinks and doing anything Mrs S and her man/men tell me to. |
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It was early in that my wife found out. She discovered pics on my phone of me wearing stockings. She didn't believe they were of me so she said "prove it!" So I faced the crossroads of confess or dress. Turned out i did both. I went and got dressed and she entered the bedroom. First thing she did was spank me then pushed me against the wall, turned me round then rimmed me. So many nawty, kinky, dirty games began |
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My husband dresses for bedtime and my boyfriend also dresses. Love meeting him at a hotel when he is dressed and waiting for me. Stockings panties and a little nightie mmm. My husband is sometimes there watching and I can hear him masterbating in the corner. A real sexy turn on |
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over a year ago
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My wife found all my stuff in that I kept hidden away.
Clothes, lingerie, wigs, shoes, make-up etc....
I told her straight away that is was all mine. She asked why I needed to do that and I told her that I just like the feel of the clothes and the sexiness of getting xdressed.
She asked me if I had any pics of me xdressed so I showed her.
This could go either way. Totally stop or she would be fine with it. She’s quite open minded sexually so thought what the hell.
She actually thought I looked quite good.
She gave me the go ahead to carry on but with a few conditions;
No xdressing when she’s around.
No using her make-up.
No wearing of her clothes if they are a size 8 as she doesn’t want them stretching! Size 10 is fine.
If I wear her lingerie then wash them after use(unless told not to).
Never ever tell our friends.
Since then she has even helped to do my make-up on the odd occasion before she has gone out and left me at home alone.
And she has sometimes bought me silky knickers to keep as my own.
All my stuff now has a place at the back of the wardrobe.
When she goes shopping for herself I’m pretty sure she buys skirts and tops that she knows I would like to wear on purpose. She’s even brought me a pair of her friends knickers for me when she house sit for her for an afternoon.
To top it all off she’s really fit too.
I suppose the next step is to tell her that I like cock when xdressed.Could be taking it too far though!!!
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Barney, my boyfriend is more outthere. He has been known to dress with me at clubs and parties. Fred is a bit more reserved but when he meets the right people he let's his hair down. Both always wear panties.Im sure there are a lot of women who would not worry about a crossdresser partner, so long as everyone is happy xx |
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"My wife found all my stuff in that I kept hidden away.
Clothes, lingerie, wigs, shoes, make-up etc....
I told her straight away that is was all mine. She asked why I needed to do that and I told her that I just like the feel of the clothes and the sexiness of getting xdressed.
She asked me if I had any pics of me xdressed so I showed her.
This could go either way. Totally stop or she would be fine with it. She’s quite open minded sexually so thought what the hell.
She actually thought I looked quite good.
She gave me the go ahead to carry on but with a few conditions;
No xdressing when she’s around.
No using her make-up.
No wearing of her clothes if they are a size 8 as she doesn’t want them stretching! Size 10 is fine.
If I wear her lingerie then wash them after use(unless told not to).
Never ever tell our friends.
Since then she has even helped to do my make-up on the odd occasion before she has gone out and left me at home alone.
And she has sometimes bought me silky knickers to keep as my own.
All my stuff now has a place at the back of the wardrobe.
When she goes shopping for herself I’m pretty sure she buys skirts and tops that she knows I would like to wear on purpose. She’s even brought me a pair of her friends knickers for me when she house sit for her for an afternoon.
To top it all off she’s really fit too.
I suppose the next step is to tell her that I like cock when xdressed.Could be taking it too far though!!!
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been there done that and sadly for me it didn't go as well as yours , I was told to throw everything away she cut everything up call me a pervert a few unsavoury names and tell me never to do it again ..... It's a shame some women don't have a sense of humour LOL |
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By *erri AnneTV/TS
over a year ago
Shannon and Costa Blanca |
"My wife found all my stuff in that I kept hidden away.
Clothes, lingerie, wigs, shoes, make-up etc....
I told her straight away that is was all mine. She asked why I needed to do that and I told her that I just like the feel of the clothes and the sexiness of getting xdressed.
She asked me if I had any pics of me xdressed so I showed her.
This could go either way. Totally stop or she would be fine with it. She’s quite open minded sexually so thought what the hell.
She actually thought I looked quite good.
She gave me the go ahead to carry on but with a few conditions;
No xdressing when she’s around.
No using her make-up.
No wearing of her clothes if they are a size 8 as she doesn’t want them stretching! Size 10 is fine.
If I wear her lingerie then wash them after use(unless told not to).
Never ever tell our friends.
Since then she has even helped to do my make-up on the odd occasion before she has gone out and left me at home alone.
And she has sometimes bought me silky knickers to keep as my own.
All my stuff now has a place at the back of the wardrobe.
When she goes shopping for herself I’m pretty sure she buys skirts and tops that she knows I would like to wear on purpose. She’s even brought me a pair of her friends knickers for me when she house sit for her for an afternoon.
To top it all off she’s really fit too.
I suppose the next step is to tell her that I like cock when xdressed.Could be taking it too far though!!!
been there done that and sadly for me it didn't go as well as yours , I was told to throw everything away she cut everything up call me a pervert a few unsavoury names and tell me never to do it again ..... It's a shame some women don't have a sense of humour LOL "
This was my situation when my wife found out dumping my stuff and also call me a pervert.  |
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It's strange, it's quite harmless and fun. Fred is well over 6ft and dresses like all men do. Barney is a bit more into clothes, leathers, flashy boots and plays with his fashion. Yet in the bedroom they are more gentle softer which is what I like. A way bam is all well and good but a real love making session mmm. Guess it takes all sorts to make the world go around but some women are so missing out xx |
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over a year ago
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I hadn't dressed until a couple of years ago.Mrs S and I were in bed having sex,I was stroking her lovely stockinged legs.She commented how hard I got when she wore sexy lingerie and asked if I fancied trying her stockings on.This was something neither of us had thought or mentioned before..It was fantastic...Mrs S helped me dress from then on.We now enjoy our girlie nights in mmmmmm. |
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I wasn't really caught out dressing as such my ex found out from us writing notes to each other about our fantasies after she read my story of crossdressing she said that she was going to give me a surprise at the weekend (will be another story) one of the best experiences to date |
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"I wasn't really caught out dressing as such my ex found out from us writing notes to each other about our fantasies after she read my story of crossdressing she said that she was going to give me a surprise at the weekend (will be another story) one of the best experiences to date "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good for you 2 OP. It's great when 2 people go through lifes journey doing stuff together. Life is far too short to bottle things up. You notice it especially as you get older and those moments of fun together seem harder to find because normal life often craps on you from a great height.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My partners have always left me when the find out . Like I said no sense of humour "
To be fair, it can be quite a shock for a woman to find out their partner crossdresser. |
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"My partners have always left me when the find out . Like I said no sense of humour
To be fair, it can be quite a shock for a woman to find out their partner crossdresser. "
Indeed it is . Been a curse for me |
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"how many wemon out there wud love to see there hubby dressed in sexy slutty cloths we have been together years when i found his cloths me i was thinking another woman but when i found the cloths for the 2nd time he kept me in suspense for bout an hour tought our marriage was over but to hear him say he was a crossdresser opened up a big can of worms love buying him cloths extra and the bond we have now is stronger then it ever was we have the best ever iv a male by day and a dressed female when ever i want him to dress love our meets with tv and bi guy so ladies think bout saying it to yer partners life and bedroom fun is so much better sugur
Really wish my wife was as understanding as you and that I could tell her. X"
What you said |
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"Is men dressing up as common as it seems now??
I love wearing a nice pair of girlie pants under my suit to work when I have a big meeting. But thought that was just me......"
It's quite common I believe. I enjoy having meetings with female colleagues and customers believing my undies are probably nicer than theirs |
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over a year ago
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"Well I couldn’t agree more! I love dressing my partner, doing his make up, both us wearing the same sexy lingerie, the connection we have is so deep x"
Thats sounds like a wonderful bond the two of you have xx |
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"My partners have always left me when the find out . Like I said no sense of humour
To be fair, it can be quite a shock for a woman to find out their partner crossdresser.
Indeed it is . Been a curse for me"
That must be very tough for you. I don't have a problem with it now at all but that's not to say I didn't go through the mill as did he. |
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My gf found out that i wore panties and hold ups after she found them in my car boot during a shopping trip. She didnt speak in the car going home and then to my surprise took a detour to Ann Summers in Manchester, bought me a strap on and handcuffs and said she was going to fuck me for being a naughty boy.
Our sex life has never been better. |
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"My gf found out that i wore panties and hold ups after she found them in my car boot during a shopping trip. She didnt speak in the car going home and then to my surprise took a detour to Ann Summers in Manchester, bought me a strap on and handcuffs and said she was going to fuck me for being a naughty boy.
Our sex life has never been better. "
You lucky bugger x |
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"my GF lets me wear her used lingerie...it arouses both of us, I have asked her to accompany me for discreet drives,so I can wear lingerie outdoors,while she watches"
let me know when you go and I will come and have a sneaky peak  |
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i FOUND OUT WHEN MY PANTIES STARTED DISAPPEARING. I CAME HOME EARLY & FOUND SEYMOUR DRESSED IN ALL MY GEAR, STOCKING, SUSPENDERS AND THONGS WITH A HUGE HARD ON POPPING OUT MY PANTIES. Shocked at first, but we embraced it. |
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My wife caught me in her stockings and suspenders, this led to her buying me my own lingerie etc. Eventually leading to dressing in full outfits.
The sex was very good, sadly after being left disabled after a stroke it has come to an end.
She knows I still dress to go on cam, and the occasional meet, but prefers I keep the details etc private as she doesn't want to know what I'm up to.
Such a shame, as we had such a good time together and with occasional meetings with like minded couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think their biggest worry is he's been going with other men.
I know not all dressers go with men, and even ones that fantasise about it don't always follow through.
Regardless of the urges and the self justifications, it's still cheating if she doesn't know.
Some might put up with it as they don't want to be single, that's not the same as them embracing it.
Obviously if she runs iut and gets outfits and toys, that's embracing it...
I'm not preaching, unfortunately i'm firmly in the cheating bracket myself. Being single isn't an option neither is telling her.
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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago
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I told her before we started living together, and whilst she's fine with me doing it, and sometimes buys me stuff, it doesnt do anything for her, and she's not interested in swinging, she has a much lower sex drive than me unfortunetly. I had a gf before her who loved it, and the sex was amazing, but thats all we had in common.
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My ex found out I liked dressing up she found a photo on my phone. She was more upset I didn't tell her than anything else. The next day I came home from me evening shift to find her clothes laid out in the dining room table and her stood there wearing nothing but a strap on. I was told to strip and put her clothes on. Was tied to the table and then suffered my punishment. After she fucked me she sat on my face and I nearly drowned. Was really hot. |
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By *atexpvcTV/TS
over a year ago
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It's a very big thing when you have been in a relationship and have that urge to dress but held off telling her thst you love it.
It would halve the divorce rate if women understood that you are not deceiving her but actually love her more if she woukd accept you in lingerie and more.. |
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The same here I have been cross dressing for many years and my wife caught my stash on several occasions always ended up in big row and me saying I will never do it again , tried to get her involved saying it was harmless fun but so straightlaced she was if only she would have embraced some of it may not have ended in divorce you can't go through life hiding your stuff |
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" The same here I have been cross dressing for many years and my wife caught my stash on several occasions always ended up in big row and me saying I will never do it again , tried to get her involved saying it was harmless fun but so straightlaced she was if only she would have embraced some of it may not have ended in divorce you can't go through life hiding your stuff "
Same here ,,,,, twice ! |
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I would love to hear The prospective from wives girlfriends partners on how they feel if they Find a stash of underwear realising it's their partners or husband Stuff , did it lead to a divorce ??? |
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wife number 2 here.. I gradually got the truth out of him.. or them both should I say.. hes my big strong husband and very manly and at a time when we both need Trinity to show up she does and w plan a full eve and night of fun and pampering and I get a gf for the night.. plus I love to wield our strapons and get to indulge my bi side and also love exploring the male side if that makes sense.. talk if you can with your other halfs.. the close marriage we now have is totally totally worth the initial shocks and realisations.. talk is everything.. good luck.. and no I dont post here. this is My husbands little piece if who he is.. both he and his fem alter ego.. xx enjoy xx |
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"wife number 2 here.. I gradually got the truth out of him.. or them both should I say.. hes my big strong husband and very manly and at a time when we both need Trinity to show up she does and w plan a full eve and night of fun and pampering and I get a gf for the night.. plus I love to wield our strapons and get to indulge my bi side and also love exploring the male side if that makes sense.. talk if you can with your other halfs.. the close marriage we now have is totally totally worth the initial shocks and realisations.. talk is everything.. good luck.. and no I dont post here. this is My husbands little piece if who he is.. both he and his fem alter ego.. xx enjoy xx"
thank you for your kind and understanding comments he is a lucky guy to have such an understanding lady like yourself and as you say talk is good but when the other partner gets Violent and abusive and caused you all the little pervert under the Sun I think all the talking is over you ladies are very hard to find once again thank you for your kind comments and pass on my regards to your lucky partner |
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To be more exact I was very angry,lost,soul searching,and every human emotion but he was unhappy and the truth will always out guys.. you have to be true to yourselfs as life is so very short..the man I love isnt anything less.. he is more because of his double nature now..I will admit I was very happy to find out he just wanted to crossdress ( it is just a human emotion once again) to want your man to be a man.. but now 8 years in I understand the feelings and emotions of other women Ive met whos husbands became women surgically and my mind is opened..if it were to happen Trinity wants to become more than she is then...being very human Im more ready to face than 8 years ago..my world ended and began back then.. but I feel your wifes side and yours trust me.. it tears shreds off both parties... and time is the healer if it goes ok after.. |
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"To be more exact I was very angry,lost,soul searching,and every human emotion but he was unhappy and the truth will always out guys.. you have to be true to yourselfs as life is so very short..the man I love isnt anything less.. he is more because of his double nature now..I will admit I was very happy to find out he just wanted to crossdress ( it is just a human emotion once again) to want your man to be a man.. but now 8 years in I understand the feelings and emotions of other women Ive met whos husbands became women surgically and my mind is opened..if it were to happen Trinity wants to become more than she is then...being very human Im more ready to face than 8 years ago..my world ended and began back then.. but I feel your wifes side and yours trust me.. it tears shreds off both parties... and time is the healer if it goes ok after.."
wow how true how well spoken is that thank you for your honesty all of your kind words and wisdom doesn't help me in my situation I'm afraid The lady I'm with is beautiful caring and gorgeous but with no sense of humour when it comes to this kind of thing I just wish I'd met someone as wonderful as you 20 years ago .likeI said earlier thank you for your kind words xx |
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