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By *reman6976 OP Man
over a year ago
Deeping St James |
I've read a few posts over the years on this topic but recently read an interesting one by LoveCalypso on the Adult paying site, it was very good and insightful, and that got me thinking about my experiences in this area.
I've explored prostate play quite a lot over the years and this post will touch on my first experience. If it goes down well I will post about more similar experiences.
I was seeing a girl whilst in my teens and would often try it on with her- you know how us guys are, always trying to go for the bum, whether it be with the tongue or fingers as you eagerly devour her, or with the cock with those half- asleep nudges when spooning or the more direct attempt during the hot sessions.
On this one occasion she got a little tired with my attempts and said
'You can go there only if I can do it to you too'
My response was one of a laugh and a 'No way!'.
We ended up having a long chat about it and she brought up a good point which was that if I knew what it was like and what it entailed then I'd be more considerate when attempting it with women- I'd also be getting more enjoyment through the fact that the prostate can give a lot of pleasure. Win-win really!
I have to say she taught me a lot over the few months we were together!
The first time
My first fear was the mess it could make so she helped me douche, then I was worried about the possibility of pain- my threshold for pain is pretty low! And so we decided that the best thing to do was, as suggested in the educational clips we saw, to start small- with a finger. If I'm honest, at that time this was all I was willing to try even though I'd seen lots of clips of guys and girls using butt plugs and dildos/vibrators and she was eager to use one of her toys on me. I thought there was no way that anything of those sizes would fit- they could tear me a new one!
We prepared for it, I got relaxed, lay on my back on the bed and she got between my legs and started to slowly stroke my cock and play with my balls, I was getting aroused at the thought of what we were about to do (along with what she was doing!). She ran both of her hands over my cock and balls and down my thighs and rubbed the perinium as she sucked on me, slowly working towards to my ass and, when I was sufficiently turned on, she lubed the fingers of one hand and began pressing against the opening, slipping the tip of her finger in gently allowing me to feel myself grip on it.
Once I became accustomed to the feeling I became more confident and she lubed up again and pushed a little further, past the first knuckle and then the second, all the while using her other hand on my cock and balls and sucking and nibbling me.
It was a strange feeling but not unpleasant, she continued to slide it in and out, slowly picking up speed; I adjusted and relaxed my hips to make it a little easier-feeling her knuckle pass back and forth was a wonderful sensation in itself.
Once I was used to this she hooked her finger up towards my balls and WOW, she found the spot! A little giver-of-pleasure acorn-style lump. It was so sensitive I came almost straight away- a few gentle rubs with her hooked finger (as if she was beckoning with it) and I shot a massive load and a wave of pleasure passed through me, giving me butterflies in my stomach and making my legs shake uncontrollably as well as making my cock throb heavily in her hand as my pulse waved through me. It was a totally different sensation, and orgasm, to what I'd experienced before.
After that day I spent quite a bit of time exploring myself with my finger, trying different pressures and motions to increase or delay the orgasm and really understand what I liked.
Since those tentative explorations I've experimented with different toys and butt plugs, both alone and with partners- it's so much fun having a woman finger you or use a toy as she strokes and sucks your cock, damn, just the thought gives me shudders of bliss!
What are your thoughts on the topic? |