Send polite respectful messages.
Don't just say
"fancy a shag"
I find if you message people with a bit of a sense of homour will get you a long way.
But remember the ratio between men, women, couple and TV's, we are at a hiding to nothing.
Good luck
(Btw only a cock pictipure and no real substance to your profile will reduce the length kelyhood of meetings no people) |
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I only ever ignore a message is it's really short and basically says I love your tits, if the profile doesn't have anything in or if I don't reply straight away and keep getting messages it's off putting and also if they live ages away, what's the point in messaging someone who lives 20+ miles away when I have everything I can need within 20 miles |
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To the OP: this is genuine advice, not a dig.
Your profile is awful - it says nothing and only has a cock pic. Look at some of the profiles of successful men on here; they have plenty of full body pics, say something about what they're looking for (not just sex!), and show a bit of wit/humour. And the avatar has to change.
As someone above said, the odds are massively against you so you have to work to stand out. |
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"I only ever ignore a message is it's really short and basically says I love your tits, if the profile doesn't have anything in or if I don't reply straight away and keep getting messages it's off putting and also if they live ages away, what's the point in messaging someone who lives 20+ miles away when I have everything I can need within 20 miles "
I agree it would be nice to have a face pic sent with a few more words, we are all on here for the same thing nsa naughty fun. |
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just checked and you are a smoker. if the person was a non smoker then there is your answer . who would want to snog a smoker when they could choose from thousands of other guys who don't smoke. just guessing |
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If your messages are anything like your profile we would delete with no answer. If you cannot be bothered to sell your self why should we even bother. Oh and a cock pic is that the best you can do. |
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"To the OP: this is genuine advice, not a dig.
Your profile is awful - it says nothing and only has a cock pic. Look at some of the profiles of successful men on here; they have plenty of full body pics, say something about what they're looking for (not just sex!), and show a bit of wit/humour. And the avatar has to change.
As someone above said, the odds are massively against you so you have to work to stand out."
Yes, I've got to agree that profile needs some work. No body pics, a one line effort in your profile. There's so many men who make an effort, show some personality, have decent pics, and they are the winners! |
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"It standard for here I only message those willing to meet my age smoking status but don't get many replies you just got to have lots of patients why is he a doctor ?"
I never asked lol I was meaning the card game it one thing can do to pass time
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Most single guys just look at the pics and dont read the profile. Dont forget you are joining someone for their most intimate play so if disrespectable or just not read the profile lets of couples delete and move on. Also dont forget the women does have to like somthing about you and if your not her type the so be it. We try to reply but some mwssages are so rude we dont bother |
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you're not the only one, makes me question being on here 