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Your partner tells you he's bi
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone.
Happy New Year to you.
I'd mostly like to hear from women. What would be your reaction if your partner tells you he's bi?
Would you welcome his bisexual desires, and be turned on by it?
Or would it be the complete opposite? |
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I learnt a very valuable lesson in life.....be more afraid of the consequences of what you don't say than what you do say.
Honesty is the only way to bring the potential of life's true rewards and reduce the chances of regret.
However....I also understand the fear of rejection from the last person you want to reject you, so I can see both sides of the equation.
My other half knows and loves my bi side. And when I was dating I met a lot of women and always told them I was bi...the positive reaction stunned me. Maybe I just got lucky.
It's hard being in a relationship and not being able to be the real you with the one person you would really want to share it with so I feel for those who can't tell there partner, for those who would like to take the chance I say do it. The reward is greater than the risk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would want to know how long he has been attracted to men?
Had he bisexual feelings before we married?had he acted on these feelings?either way I would feel cheated,as the man i married 18 years ago had been deceiving me all this time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love that hubby has a bi side. It's so sexy seeing men play and when one of them is your most loved and you get to share his cock 
He never really expressed to me a suppressed bi side, more when we talked about likes and dislikes he just said he was open to the idea.
So when the opportunity arose I actively encouraged it and wow |
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Some women like to see bi men play as I'm sure some don't.
When Cuck and I discussed it I was a little apprehensive at first seeing him in sexual acts with men, once we explored it I found it an incredible turn on.
Now I love watching and having him pleasure others  |
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I knew my partner was bi from his file on here when we first met, but when I actually saw hm with another guy, that was and continues to be a major turn on. Now he much prefers not to meet alone, but with me, even if, as most of the time, I don't join in. We do have a different taste in men .... When I think back to other meets, those with bi men have been much, much better than with straight men. Also, knowing I am with a bi guy means a good few of my old meets have 'come out' to me. I do feel bad that my OH has said he couldn't have ever been so honest and up front about who he is with other previous partners. I guess one reason you know it's e right person is that you can be honest and open |
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"I would want to know how long he has been attracted to men?
Had he bisexual feelings before we married?had he acted on these feelings?either way I would feel cheated,as the man i married 18 years ago had been deceiving me all this time.
Exactly this ....
I understand why a wife would want to leave
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By (user no longer on site)
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Generally two men together does not turn me on, however if Fred was to tell me he was bi or bi curious then I'm certain it would be a turn on as I get enjoyment from seeing him aroused and enjoying himself.
I do find it quite sad that some men are unable to tell their partners without fear and have to resort to websites and secrecy to fulfill their desires. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slut loves me to dress up . Has me kneel and invites strangers round and has me suck them to completion and just sits and watches as she plays with her pussy "
Sounds lovely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Told Vicky our our second date. She was fine as I have always said to her I will be totally honest with her. She is the only partner I have ever told though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"End of my marriage when i found out. "
I'm sorry to hear that you didn't overcome or try to accept your husband bi side. It could have potentially brought a lot of excitement to your bedroom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"End of my marriage when i found out.
I'm sorry to hear that you didn't overcome or try to accept your husband bi side. It could have potentially brought a lot of excitement to your bedroom."
Perhaps it was the way she found out, not that she wouldn't have been accepting if he'd told her honestly from the beginning? I don't know how she found out but it sounds like you are making assumptions that it's her fault her marriage ended |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have always been up front about my sexuality and the way I dress it has always lead to some amazing times. My current girlfriend would love to share a cock with me.  |
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"Hi everyone.
Happy New Year to you.
I'd mostly like to hear from women. What would be your reaction if your partner tells you he's bi?
Would you welcome his bisexual desires, and be turned on by it?
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Oh god, yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's opened a whole world for us both. She has me on fabguys. And had meet bi guys a lot
Something I'm going to be looking at for cucky I think "
You 2 look amazing |
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"Why is there an apparent stigma about being a bi guy? Nobody bats an eyelid about bi females and I've yet to meet any guy who thinks it's remotely disgusting, quite the opposite. "
I think it comes from straight men who feel they are so attractive that they will be mobbed by the bi men who just can't help themselves. There are a few straight women who also believe they have this effect on bi women |
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