My partner has a fantasy with a mmf which I want to help her do I've been part of 2 myself we are finding hard to find the right person to join us
So my question is how did you go about choosing the right guy to join you and your partner?
Who was the one to choose and how did you know it was the right person? |
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This is the way I want it to go she did want to meet them on her own first and then she brings him to said place and we have the mmf
I said I think it would be best if we both met them socially then all go away and if he ticks our boxes make a plan for a new day |
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Last time we met a guy I (m) met the guy for a coffee first while Jaz waited in room. Once I had vetted him I let him go up for 10 mins by himself with her. Worked well as I guess it's pretty nerve wracking for a single guy and this seemed to break the ice . when I walked in his head was already between her legs !  |
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Thanks for all your feedback we both want to enjoy it she's worried how it will make me feel but if I meet the guy with her I will be more at ease with everything going ahead
My other small concern is she might want to go 1 on 1 with him at a later date with out any involvement from me I'm up for sharing her with another guy I'm not sure about the 1 on 1 because that's what makes me and her special |
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"Last time we met a guy I (m) met the guy for a coffee first while Jaz waited in room. Once I had vetted him I let him go up for 10 mins by himself with her. Worked well as I guess it's pretty nerve wracking for a single guy and this seemed to break the ice . when I walked in his head was already between her legs ! "
Lucky guy 
Ive only had 3 planned couple meets off fab and it's always been 1-2-1..... I'd prefer a mmf, but I'm patient and I'm happy with my meets sofar  |
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Set some ground rules with each other like this is a one off or it only going happen from time to time ... does the idea of her having a 1to1 with him and her coming back to you and telling you all about it not turn you on |
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"Set some ground rules with each other like this is a one off or it only going happen from time to time ... does the idea of her having a 1to1 with him and her coming back to you and telling you all about it not turn you on "
Yes this is what me and her are trying to establish like some ground rules which we are both agreeing on  It does and it doesnt turn me on then again I've not seen how she is around another guy so I can't read body language |
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"Set some ground rules with each other like this is a one off or it only going happen from time to time ... does the idea of her having a 1to1 with him and her coming back to you and telling you all about it not turn you on
Yes this is what me and her are trying to establish like some ground rules which we are both agreeing on It does and it doesnt turn me on then again I've not seen how she is around another guy so I can't read body language "
You will know if she's enjoying herself ..her skin might be flush her breathing is one to take note of ...watch her facial expressions
Most of all both of you enjoy it |
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