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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello all
I'm new on fab this time around but have been on and off the site a fair few times. It looks fab from afar but want more of, well, all the usual I suppose
Thing is this has always been alone on here and not with my other half. I'd love to get more involved in the scene and involve my wife but it's starting that conversation in a subtle way that I'd like some input on.
What do we think? Interested in opinions from women, men and couples who may have been in similar situations and came through the other side successfully!
Tell me those stories, give me tips, most appreciated 
Mr H |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The next time your having sex tell her how you would love to see her take another cock and judge her reaction to it"
I tried this, a couple of times over the course of a couple of months. The first time i mentioned her ex's name, joking that he wants her, the result was instant, a lot wetter and she came a lot harder, but she dismissed the idea. The second time, i just said id love to see her with someone else, again got the same reaction but again she dismissed the idea. Seemed to be a case of her body says yes but her head says no, and unsure how to proceed with anything.
Incidentally, I have my suspicions she has had, or still is, having some fun with her ex. He lives with her mum and stepdad (long story) and I've noticed she visits more often now that he is there. I also found some pics on her phone that she says were destined for me, but on checking the background they dont seem to have been taken in any room in our house. |
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"The next time your having sex tell her how you would love to see her take another cock and judge her reaction to it
I tried this, a couple of times over the course of a couple of months. The first time i mentioned her ex's name, joking that he wants her, the result was instant, a lot wetter and she came a lot harder, but she dismissed the idea. The second time, i just said id love to see her with someone else, again got the same reaction but again she dismissed the idea. Seemed to be a case of her body says yes but her head says no, and unsure how to proceed with anything.
Incidentally, I have my suspicions she has had, or still is, having some fun with her ex. He lives with her mum and stepdad (long story) and I've noticed she visits more often now that he is there. I also found some pics on her phone that she says were destined for me, but on checking the background they dont seem to have been taken in any room in our house."
Sounds like an interesting story building for the future, keep us informed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gentle persuasion, no pressure I feel always works best, if you can, make it her idea. You seem to be doing the right thing to me as you are being patient.
As long as it's done in a loving way and you make her feel special and it's on her agenda.
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over a year ago
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It was the wife who introduced me to this site. We have always had a very open marriage and have our separate interests. I always wanted to play as a couple but she prefers to play alone! |
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