So, more of a quest for inspiration than a story (although it's definitely a fantasy).
As you'll probably gather from our profile text and veris I love to see my wife being taken by another man. I love her to play and then tell me about it afterwards as I take her back just as much . For her part Ruby is rarely happier than playing with a guy who knows what he's doing and telling me how naughty she's been afterwards. It's a Win-win!
With this in mind the almost inevitable 'wouldn't it be fun if you played with one of my mates' conversation arose. A fantasy that a lot of couples in our position share I'm sure. The thought of him coming to visit, her coming downstairs in just her lingerie and sitting next to him, just delightful. Perhaps I have to go to bed early one night when he's over and the two of them stay up together.... I wouldn't know what had happened until she came to bed much later (if at all) and told me she'd been a bad girl.
But there's a problem... All my mates are attached to other women. Other women we are also friends with and we wouldn't dream of doing anything to hurt them or compromise their relationships. Other than this it's work colleagues who I get on with well and see outside of work but I'm certainly not mixing those two areas together.
So ideas would be appreciated on how to 'make a friend' for want of a less pathetic sounding term.
I'm thinking groups I could join, clubs etc but really don't have much time to learn to play golf or something like that... Plus I'm not sure I'll find her sort of Man at the local chess or bridge club.
We want to make this a reality and need a starting point......
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"So, more of a quest for inspiration than a story (although it's definitely a fantasy).
As you'll probably gather from our profile text and veris I love to see my wife being taken by another man. I love her to play and then tell me about it afterwards as I take her back just as much . For her part Ruby is rarely happier than playing with a guy who knows what he's doing and telling me how naughty she's been afterwards. It's a Win-win!
With this in mind the almost inevitable 'wouldn't it be fun if you played with one of my mates' conversation arose. A fantasy that a lot of couples in our position share I'm sure. The thought of him coming to visit, her coming downstairs in just her lingerie and sitting next to him, just delightful. Perhaps I have to go to bed early one night when he's over and the two of them stay up together.... I wouldn't know what had happened until she came to bed much later (if at all) and told me she'd been a bad girl.
But there's a problem... All my mates are attached to other women. Other women we are also friends with and we wouldn't dream of doing anything to hurt them or compromise their relationships. Other than this it's work colleagues who I get on with well and see outside of work but I'm certainly not mixing those two areas together.
So ideas would be appreciated on how to 'make a friend' for want of a less pathetic sounding term.
I'm thinking groups I could join, clubs etc but really don't have much time to learn to play golf or something like that... Plus I'm not sure I'll find her sort of Man at the local chess or bridge club.
We want to make this a reality and need a starting point......
J"
Would you like to be friends?  Well I guess it depends on what sort of guy you're looking for. If you're looking for someone similar to your current friends then I would suggest doing the same activities you normally do with your mates with a new group of people and you should start making friends who fall into the same 'type'. |
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Oh, and just to clarify... We are specifically not looking for anyone on Fab as the fantasy involves the relationship being 'plutonic' and developing naturally. Meeting someone off here would probably mean that there would some level of expectation from the outset.
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"So, more of a quest for inspiration than a story (although it's definitely a fantasy).
As you'll probably gather from our profile text and veris I love to see my wife being taken by another man. I love her to play and then tell me about it afterwards as I take her back just as much . For her part Ruby is rarely happier than playing with a guy who knows what he's doing and telling me how naughty she's been afterwards. It's a Win-win!
With this in mind the almost inevitable 'wouldn't it be fun if you played with one of my mates' conversation arose. A fantasy that a lot of couples in our position share I'm sure. The thought of him coming to visit, her coming downstairs in just her lingerie and sitting next to him, just delightful. Perhaps I have to go to bed early one night when he's over and the two of them stay up together.... I wouldn't know what had happened until she came to bed much later (if at all) and told me she'd been a bad girl.
But there's a problem... All my mates are attached to other women. Other women we are also friends with and we wouldn't dream of doing anything to hurt them or compromise their relationships. Other than this it's work colleagues who I get on with well and see outside of work but I'm certainly not mixing those two areas together.
So ideas would be appreciated on how to 'make a friend' for want of a less pathetic sounding term.
I'm thinking groups I could join, clubs etc but really don't have much time to learn to play golf or something like that... Plus I'm not sure I'll find her sort of Man at the local chess or bridge club.
We want to make this a reality and need a starting point......
J
Would you like to be friends? Well I guess it depends on what sort of guy you're looking for. If you're looking for someone similar to your current friends then I would suggest doing the same activities you normally do with your mates with a new group of people and you should start making friends who fall into the same 'type'. "
Cheers. This whole thing has made me realise that for a 30s man there is no cool way to talk about making new friends hehe |
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"I have met couples on here with no expectations I always meet any couple for drink and chat first if there is no spark or everyone dosnt feel comfortable then there is no fun"
Totally agree with you there. We social before every meet and never expect anything but to meet someone for a chat. All the guys we've met (well the vast majority) completely understand that to.
What I meant was that there would be an expectation as to what the situation was. It becomes more like a normal meet than the original fantasy if the guy has come from a swinger site.
The thing that gets us off about it is that it's more embedded in 'real life' than anything Fab can offer if you know what I mean. |
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Chess or bridge club are probably out of the question... no offence to any members. But perhaps a more sporty activity like indoor climbing, something with some camaraderie... You normally need 2 to climb which makes it easier and less "pathetic" to just walk into a gym alone and approach someone. It's probably one of the easiest ways for guys to strike up a conversation and maybe grab a beer later. Worth a shot? |
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My wife had sex with a chess club member. He was very good, lots of thoughtful planning, nice steady rhythm through the opening and middle game and a flourish of fast moves at the end  |
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"My wife had sex with a chess club member. He was very good, lots of thoughtful planning, nice steady rhythm through the opening and middle game and a flourish of fast moves at the end "
Hehe.
Reckon I'll just wait til one of my mates ditches his lass. |
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