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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your a swinger, just tell your "friend" why you do it or are you not a real swinger ie just out for a shag not understanding the concept and lifestyle of what you do ?
I swing because though I love Sasha I like variety in our sex life, it's just sex not affection for the people we play with.
Many people swing because they are bisexual.
Many people play because they get sexual pleasure when they see thier partner with another man/woman
Some do it because it's forbidden fruit.
There are many reasons why people enjoy the lifestyle.
You could ask why women are happy to see thier male partners with other females, Sasha particularly likes this, she loves to watch me with another woman, it gives her pleasure to see me enjoying myself.
One thing is for sure, to be a successfull swinging couple you have to have a deep trust of your partner and be very much in love, if you don't have these things relationship trouble is just around the corner. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanx guys that made perfect sense. Surely there must be an element of jealously for a guy to see his wife having sex without another man? My ex and I arranged a meet with a black guy cuz she'd always wanted to try. I must say I was jealous but turned on at the same time. If was fixed feelings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course some people get jealous and for them swinging is probably not the best lifestyle choice.
Speaking for myself I don't have the slightest feeling of jealousy when Sasha is playing with someone else because it is just sex, if you cannot seperate sex from love or affections then this is not the thing for a couple.
And as I said before because I love her so much it gives me pleasure to know that she is enjoying herself. |
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While l was with my(now ex)wife we got into swinging because she was bi and wanted to play with ladies,so we would meet couples and the girls would get together and us guys would have sex with our own partners after they had satisfied thir bi urg.On other occasions we would meet a girl and again the girs would enjoy themselves while l watched then sometimes l would be envited to join in,depending on wether the"guest"wanted me to join,and again it was thir choice as to weather l had full sex with our guest or just soft swing.Have to say it was a lovely feeling having my wife guide my cock into another girls pussy then watch her lick my spunk out of her after l had cum.Oh what happy days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we just started to swing. we started to do it because it was someting we laways wanted to try. we dont get jellious as their is no feelings of love we enjoy being with other people as it gives us a viarity the other wants or might need that we cant supply but at the end of each time we come back to each other as we love each other truly and thats what matters  |
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if you have already met a guy with your ex then surely you wouldnt need to ask that question 
oh and the my friend wants to know / my friend has a problem is the oldest line in the book if YOU want to know something then ask people will respect you more for it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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if u read clearly i stated that a i was finding it difficult to explain why cpls swing. it has nothing to do with respect and to be honest im not bothered if people dont respect me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i can not understand if u think its so wrong for couples to swing eg u said about how can the guy watch his wife get fucked !! why do u want to meet couples ?"
I agree...
To the OP why would you want to shag another mans wife?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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the whole swinging thing really appeals to me and turns me on alot. i've only ever done it one so far. im just trying to get the bigger picture and see see if my feeling about it are what other guys feel |
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