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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Every good slut can tell you that there are two types of sex. The kind of sex you have with a partner; the kind that involves a lot off kissing, a lot of tender touching and a lot of emotional baggage (the good kind, usually.) Then there's the type of sex that you have just for fun; rough, uninhibited and altogether far more exciting. There's no asking involved. No constant reassurances. No trying to make each other feel loved rather than used because quite frankly in this case you are. You're both just filling a need and no-one has to be polite about anything.
There are certain boundaries of course, I'm not going to slap a girl in the face during a one night stand (unless I know she can handle it) but there's far less inhibition involved.
When you're having sex with someone you never expect to see again, or someone that you don't have any real feelings for then chances are you're either going to take a few risks that you wouldn't with someone you're serious about dating or you aren't the type of person who should really be having casual sex in the first place.
Me? I've always been the type who prefers to be a bit adventurous in the bedroom with anyone I'm sleeping with. I've never been gentle. I'm the kind of man that likes to fuck, not to make love. I'm not gentle, I'm not slow, things wont be over in ten minutes and you'll like it a lot more than you think. That's the thing about the women I sleep with. I don't know if it's universal, I don't know if maybe I'm attracted to a certain type of girl instinctively or if maybe a certain type of girl is just attracted to me but out of every girl I've ever slept with, only one has ever felt that I was ever too rough on her. Perhaps the success of BDSM in a popular novel speaks more about female taste than a lot of men think, but in many ways, the worse I treat a girl in the bedroom the more she seems to enjoy herself.
I can see why some would see what I do as an act off passion. A lot of the things I do in the bedroom rely on the heat of the moment. If I slip up, if I misread any signals or push things too far I could easily cross a line. It's a balancing act really. things on the precipice are far more exciting but if you're not careful you can easily fall in. In the right context, in the right situation, it's all very stimulating. In the wrong situation it's almost considered abuse. That's why I love submissive girls. I don't necessarily mean the type of girl that wants to be tied up and treated like a five dollar whore, although that does help, I can work with any girl that has a submissive streak.
Eve was originally supposed to be a one night stand. In the aftermath of a relationship that was entered into solely for reasons of liking a girl enough to spend a few hours at a time with her without wanting to send her into another room so I could recharge my social batteries, and, the convenience of having sex on-tap. Eve was intended to be a pallet cleanser, a one-night affair that might turn friendship when the deed was done. No fuss, no frills, just one or two nights of uninhibited R-rated fun with what were perhaps the largest tits in all of the central belt (only a slight exagerration.) In retrospect I should have known it would never end there. |
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I can relate to this......
I like someone who is rough with me, who wants to fuck me and fuck me hard.
i love nothing more than to surrender my self to someone and do as I am told, it's such a turn on...... You started well too as I love being called a slut in the bedroom. |
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"I can relate to this......
I like someone who is rough with me, who wants to fuck me and fuck me hard.
i love nothing more than to surrender my self to someone and do as I am told, it's such a turn on...... You started well too as I love being called a slut in the bedroom."
I can also really relate to this  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can relate to this......
I like someone who is rough with me, who wants to fuck me and fuck me hard.
i love nothing more than to surrender my self to someone and do as I am told, it's such a turn on...... You started well too as I love being called a slut in the bedroom."
Where were you hiding when I lived in Cardiff? |
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