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She's having an affair isn't she?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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First of all this is such a turn on to think of her ducking someone else. We have spoke about it several times but she always seemed to just not be able to fuck someone else in front of me. The last time she spoke about it she accused me of making her feel like a piece of meat since then though:
1) When she was out on a staff party she ended up in party in her ex's house, said nothing happened even though he tried to kiss her.
2) I read messages on her phone to him saying what she was going to do to him and vice versa, when I read them I came everywhere, I confronted her but she said it was just text sex fantasy and could never physically cheat on me.
3) A few weeks ago I was working late and went home early to surprise her but she wasn't there. I drove to her ex's house and there they were parked in her car outside. I confronted her again and she went mad and said I should trust her.
Am I being a mug here, the truth is I find it a massive turn on and she knows that but she is adamant nothing has happened. Would like some feedback on this! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Because she keeps denying it. Am quite happy to be open about it but Don't think it's unreasonable to expect full honesty though when I have told her I am ok with it lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does she know your on here? "
She does Yeah. Doesn't know username and said has no interest in site. I told her my ultimate fantasy is to watch her being fucked.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think you need to be careful with this one there is wanting to see her avd losing her she sounds happy to be there and if she is denying it then there is more too it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oooooo thats a tricky one. from my pov what she doing there in the first place and without you knowing? and as for sexting, its an ex, theyre ex for a reason. theres trust and theres taking the piss tbh she denying it all but she shouldnt be sneaking off to an exs, or any other guy for that matter if nothing is going on.
but as the other said, your on here so maybe she doing what she wants to do to..not the best topic to be askin for advice, not much of a fantasy is it   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the old adage that swinging will not fix a poor relationship may apply here. You probably need to buy her a nice bunch of flowers and some chocolates and try to take down the wall of resentment that may be building up between you.
There probably isn't anything going on but this confrontational, manipulative attitude of yours is not going to solve anything.
Hope you sort things out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Odd this. You want to watch her with another man but you don't want her to have sex with another when you are not there. You are on here as a solo player and not a couple but you are having fun but your wife would be cheating......double standards. |
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So she goes on a work so, ends up at her ex's house.
She sends him dirty text detailing what she wants to do with him.
She's sat outside his house with him, in her car!!!
If there was nothing going on she'd have told you she was meeting him!
The fact she's hidden this means she obviously has something to hide!!!
The fact she was outside his house in the car, suggests to me that maybe they'd been out for a drink, or a meal, maybe to see if the old feelings are still there.
But then I have no doubt in my mind that this is exactly what this page is for, fantasys that you'd like to happen, but in reality haven't, apart from in your head!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell her to take a hike, she has lied to you, and you know she's up to no good usually behind your back.
You've given us 3 things you know about that she's done already with the same guy, don't be her mug. |
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By *tj2108Man
over a year ago
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Have you or anybody else that has replied thought that she might be talking to her ex about her feelings. That she might feel she is being forced to do things she doesn't want to do. Until you talk properly to her and you both be honest with each other, I can't see how it will not turn into a big mess. I wish you both good luck |
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By *intinzMan
over a year ago
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Wether people swing or not, for me trust and honesty are the crux of any relationship. To me, with her not being honest would suggest she's taking the piss. Unless of course you like her lying and going behind your back. If that's your kick then your in the perfect situation. I can understand your desire to see and hear of your wife with other guys, I wanted that too with my ex, but the difference between encouragement and a pest is a fine line. Be careful not to lose someone you seem to love by putting pressure on her. I'm sure she knows what you want, you just have to let it go now and whatever happens know you did the best you could. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nope not putting any pressure on at all. Quite the opposite in fact. Just wondering what to make of it all. Not easy when you know someone ain't being straight. |
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wish my wife would ask me something like that
