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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting thing happened last week. The wife mid session is telling me what she wants to happen over the next couple of nights!! Part of this was to take control and take her regardless to her demands to stop!!!!
I've had to say on this occasion I don't think I can do this as we have no way of knowing when no really is no!!
Anyone else come across this. Is there a code way of saying no that actually means it's ok?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not have a safe word. Something completely unrelated to sex so it stands out. Like banana for example ? Just a thought. I know lots of women with this fantasy. It's all about trust. As always both parties need to be comfortable with what you are doing. Have a frank conversation and agree the boundaries first. Good luck x |
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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago
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Safe word is a defo , sometimes even when we're just playing together I'll be shouting stop and even pushing his hands away , if I do manage to push him away I give him a rollocking for letting me ,
so I'd say a safe word is the way forward . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Safe word is a defo , sometimes even when we're just playing together I'll be shouting stop and even pushing his hands away , if I do manage to push him away I give him a rollocking for letting me ,
so I'd say a safe word is the way forward ."
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"Safe word is a defo , sometimes even when we're just playing together I'll be shouting stop and even pushing his hands away , if I do manage to push him away I give him a rollocking for letting me ,
so I'd say a safe word is the way forward ."
Mm this sounds exactly what i wanna try  |
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Yeah defiantly use a safe word, me and my fb use "pineapple" never used it so far and she has a bad habit of saying stop or no but once when I did she gave me hell.
Just make sure it's a word that won't get used in by mistake in the middle of the action |
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