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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a mature man and i have fantasised many time's about visiting a club or clubs but have never been to one because i wouldn't know what to do if i went to one.
Am i too old, are these places for the young with bodies to die for?
Do you just sit around and wait for people to talk to you?
Do you where clothes, towel or what?
If you try talking to ladies/couples do they think they are coming onto them?
If someone likes you do they invite you into a room?
Can anyone let me know the correct protocol?
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1, no your not too old, just check with the club on that thier not having an under30's/40's night on the night you intend to go though.
2, if you just sit around and wait for people to talk to you, you'll be sat alone most of the night probably, make an effort to talk to people, whether that be couples, single females or indeed other single men.
3, dress code varies from club to club and night to night quite often, if it's a wet club, then towel/underwear, if it's a nightclub style swingers club, then smart casual. Check out the club website for any clubs you're thinking of going to for dress code.
4, If you talk to couples, make sure you include both of them, not just the female half, as with everyone, some may want to chat, some may not, if they don't move on and chat to someone else.
5, if someone likes you, you may be lucky enough to get invited to a room, just depends how the converstion goes, each instance is different, just play it by ear.
Go to a club with the only expectation of having a drink, with luck a chat and a relaxed evening, anything other than that is a bonus. |
