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By *igG86 OP Man 2 weeks ago
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So apologies if this doesn't come out right I'm typing on my mobile for at least the first part of this.
I have only started therapy this year after talking to Jane at a weekend event, I had been thinking about it for a while but never found someone I liked, we were chatting in a group and her work came up so I said to her do you mind I message you I may want your services. She was fine and I began messaging her to get pricing and an idea of what the sessions would involve.
My first few sessions were just going through my life, my past and what has lead upto my current situation. I found it quite hard to talk about some aspects as it was like opening old wounds again, but I got through it and Jane always put a positive spin on my situations and how it's made me a better person. Also, because she knew about me being a swinger it was easier to open up about experiences and use what had happened I clubs as teaching moments or boosters for me.
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By *igG86 OP Man 2 weeks ago
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We got through my life in a few sessions and she starts into my swinging journey and my sexuality, I started out of pure curiosity about a certain local club, but I've been to a few others since. She kept complementing me on having the courage to even walk through the doors let alone play with people. As we were chatting I mentioned most of the events I got to are Bi nights as I feel they are so much friendlier and a better vibe for me, plus it has let me explore my bi side. She honed in on this and began asking about my bi experiences and how much I had done previously. It has always been with a couple or a male+female singles minimum, never with just a guy or the male of the couple. I wouldn't rule out this but it hasn't happened yet. We kept chatting some more but the session was nearing its end, so she suggested booking another session in a week or so as she wanted to explore a bit more with me, I agreed and gave her a couple dates to look at for our next session. |
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